| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/5/2009 1:21:27 PM | | i prefer woman who are single, i have been cheated on before and it hurts to bad. i would not want to get involved in ruining or hurting anyone who is involved in a realationship. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/6/2009 2:41:17 PM | I think it's sad too. Sad that she does not get want she wants at home. I think she probably loves her husband and does not want to leave him. Do you think she should deprive herself of sex because she is married and is a good wife otherwise.
sex is only a small part of marriage. Other parts of the marriage are more important to some people and they don't want to lose that. Especially the older you get. But they would also like to have more sex. It's not that big a deal to us older people. Just to the younger ones who think marriage is about having sex with someone. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/6/2009 2:47:49 PM |
I think it's sad too. Sad that she does not get want she wants at home. I think she probably loves her husband and does not want to leave him. Do you think she should deprive herself of sex because she is married and is a good wife otherwise.
sex is only a small part of marriage. Other parts of the marriage are more important to some people and they don't want to lose that. Especially the older you get. But they would also like to have more sex. It's not that big a deal to us older people. Just to the younger ones who think marriage is about having sex with someone.
Not to be mean or anything, but a "good" wife wouldn't be cheating. She would be trying to figure out how to make the marriage work or figuring out how to end it. You state that sex is just a small part of a marriage...........which some will agree and some won't, but if it is a small part she shouldn't have to go outside of the marriage to get it. I think when you are dating and stuff you should sleep with whomever you choose, but when you decide to be married you should be with just one another.........unless you are in a marriage that is open, but then in my book that would not be cheating. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/6/2009 3:10:53 PM | I learned the hard way that good people do things they never dreamed they would do when they're hearts are broken or they feel truly lost. We're only a few rungs from being slaves to our needs - and it's a hard landing when you fall.
On a more specific note, I've noticed that, when male friends contact a married woman for sex, it usually falls through on the woman's part.
Women, like men, need to feel truly desired by their partners, and when that doesn't happen, some turn to other men. But I suppose they think better of it, or maybe all they needed was to know they're desirable...not actual sex.
Is it sad? Yes. But there are philanderers, and there are lost people spinning out of control. So I prefer to hold my judgment until I know the story. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/24/2009 11:24:26 PM | Married women looking for sex are just like married men looking for sex.
No one has a right to impose their values on others
No one "stealing" sex, these are adults seeking consensual relations
Bottom line is that it's really none of your business.
If you are not interested in sex with a married person, say so in your profile, there is an option for that.
If you find an interesting profile and the person is married and says so, and that bothers you, look at a different profile.
If the person is married and does NOT say so, then have as big a spasm as you want because they tried to deceive you. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/25/2009 12:56:36 AM |
Bottom line is that it's really none of your business.
If you are not interested in sex with a married person, say so in your profile, there is an option for that.
If you find an interesting profile and the person is married and says so, and that bothers you, look at a different profile.
Any man willing to sleep with another mans wife has no morals or self confidence. "Not man enough to find one of your own?" Losers! | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/25/2009 12:58:32 AM |
I think it's sad too. Sad that she does not get want she wants at home. I think she probably loves her husband and does not want to leave him. Do you think she should deprive herself of sex because she is married and is a good wife otherwise.
sex is only a small part of marriage. Other parts of the marriage are more important to some people and they don't want to lose that. Especially the older you get. But they would also like to have more sex. It's not that big a deal to us older people. Just to the younger ones who think marriage is about having sex with someone.
I bet elbows to ***holes that if the "wife" in this scenario was a "husband" people's posts would not be so understanding and forgiving. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/25/2009 1:33:32 AM |
I bet elbows to ***holes that if the "wife" in this scenario was a "husband" people's posts would not be so understanding and forgiving.
Maybe some but I bet most would say no on both accounts. Any man that goes outside of marriage is a loser also. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/25/2009 2:47:18 AM | Well now, as stated by others, never married here (and thank GOD for that).
But, one rule I have NEVER broken, ever: Hooking up with a gal I know is married.
I cannot, and WILL NOT if I know she is married. Now, I THINK I have had gals lie to me, but we are talking one-nighters, and they said "No" when I asked, so I went with that. If they are liars AND cheaters, the worm doth turn, no need for me to apply pressure.
I feel no more compassion for a female than a man, that cheats. Oh sure, let's all cry about a bad marriage, as momma told me, "Think about what happens AFTER you stick your****in it". Not hard people. After all, myself and others on here don't seem to have this cheating problem, we, after all, thought about it BEFORE doing it.
(Kids and Divorces are not mystical acts, or miracles in motion, they DO come from somewhere! It ALWAYS takes two to tango.)
As for her? Damaged goods I don't want, not even for a one-nighter.
Damn but people got no common courtesy anymore, even in something as SIMPLE as marriage. And now you know why there is no way in HELL I would get married.
Honor is only a word, and means nothing to people too stupid to understand it.
I am a Man, defined by what I do and DO NOT DO, not by what I say.
I do good, I get good, remember, the wheel doth go 'round and 'round.
She will get hers, indeed, and so does the man that enjoys THAT vice with no honor. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/25/2009 3:43:51 AM |
Any man willing to sleep with another mans wife has no morals or self confidence. "Not man enough to find one of your own?" Losers!
I agree. The same goes for any woman willing to sleep with another woman's husband. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/25/2009 4:53:58 AM | Perfectly Said...by LonestarStar
learned the hard way that good people do things they never dreamed they would do when they're hearts are broken or they feel truly lost. We're only a few rungs from being slaves to our needs - and it's a hard landing when you fall.
On a more specific note, I've noticed that, when male friends contact a married woman for sex, it usually falls through on the woman's part.
Women, like men, need to feel truly desired by their partners, and when that doesn't happen, some turn to other men. But I suppose they think better of it, or maybe all they needed was to know they're desirable...not actual sex.
Is it sad? Yes. But there are philanderers, and there are lost people spinning out of control. So I prefer to hold my judgment until I know the story. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/25/2009 7:28:49 AM |
What do you do when you come across the profile of a married woman looking for sex?
Personally, I think it's sad.
Discuss.
One thing that always cracks me up about those women is they always claim to be honest and demand a man who is the same. Huh?!  | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/25/2009 8:14:35 AM | Its a personal preference ...reasons for everyones actions....some that advertise on here for sex dont say they are married but after some chat...ya know they are...I usually just leave them alone....if they arent truthful with that....dont need to find out any more.... | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/28/2009 6:53:44 AM | I personaly don't see anything wrong with it as well because there are a lot of men out there that aren't sexually active with their wives...so why not hook up...wives/ husbands if your not getting what you want at home go for it as we all should be happy | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/10/2009 11:13:27 PM |
Any man willing to sleep with another mans wife has no morals or self confidence. "Not man enough to find one of your own?" Losers!
I'm with you 100% on this one Indy! | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/11/2009 12:27:25 AM | Because they want real love which they do not have now.
They don't know what real love is and they don't know what to do to get it.
Both people involved must know this.
Then they both have to apply what is necessary
But for this, they both have to change
But they don't want to change
Because they think they know it all.
They have to like thier partner's face and body physically
Then they have to talk properly to each other
But they don't do that
Because they don't know how
And they must change first
But they don't want to do that either
Because they know it all
That's why - all is just fine
But is it? | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/11/2009 1:30:00 AM | | there are many reasons married people have sex outside the relationship. i have a great marraige in many ways but my wife and i have not had sex for nearly 3 years due to her menopause. thats what happens when you marry an older woman. but she openly states she would rather i was screwing someone else (excuse the pun) than having sex with her as she has no libido at present and just so long as i come home at night and never discuss it with her in her words what she doesnt know doesnt matter and many woman are in the same situation | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/11/2009 12:52:51 PM | I haven't had to go that far yet, but it's the worst feeling when all of a sudden she has no sex drive. You start to wonder -- who else is she with -- what did i do. Wondering if your wife is having an affair is a horriable thing to experience.
Then -- before you know why she has no sex drive, she trys to hide the problem -- that's where the walking on egg shells came from -- you can do nothing right.
So, say after 2 years of begging for sex -- you get tired and want to quit. You have a wonderful wife everywhere except in the bedroom. So, what do you do? You have had fights over nothing -- and that water under the bridge is a hoax -- there is a big old dam at the end of that river -- Then finally you are so worn out that you want to quit alltogether and then she explains her menopause to you and says she is trying to "service you" but has no need to and would rather watch the T.V. She doesn't want you to stray -- so here is some emotionless sex to keep you around. (It was better said then I just repeated, just trying to shorten this -- she did try to be nice about it)
Ever hear " I can't keep up with your lebido -- I don't have one anymore?".
Now the vast majority of people are right -- cheeting is "BAD" -- Yet I assurt that "Everything is theory until it lands on your door step".
I would prefer to do what Aussie has done but can't seem to bring myself to that yet -- I read on another thread that is may get better -- Some day.
So there are reasons why both sexes are out there looking -- they are sad ones I hope many of you never experience -- it's more painful then you might think.
MVR | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/19/2009 3:31:22 PM | | I have a simple rule. Never have sex with a married woman unless her husband requests it. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/19/2009 4:24:45 PM | | ok so Im a married woman in a sexless marriage am I supposed to deprive myself of sex the rest of my life? My husband has no intrest in me I can not afford to leave in this economy so I stay and have found a friend to have sex with Im not in love with him nor him with me we are friends and enjoy each other. Some of you seem pretty judgemental on this subject so you must be getting regular sex or have no sex drive at all | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/19/2009 5:56:58 PM | | Similar situation as you. It's easy for others to pass judgement than to find out the facts. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/19/2009 7:07:51 PM | What if she's separated, I was long term with a woman who was, I'd barely consider that I screwed some other guy out of a "happy marriage". He became an abusive ass after 25 yrs and she couldn't stand him any longer. He wouldn't just give her the divorce either. Dumb ass.
Mike | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/19/2009 7:21:13 PM | Like others posted also, if she lied to me, made up some stuff about being separated or divorced then I could see it happening, hey I'd rather laugh with the sinners then cry with the saints. Of course I'm going to take some. When I find out the truth though (and I will), I'm gone "see ya". What comes around goes around. I would have zero sympathy for her, but I would feel bad for her husband. He will find out eventually. Cheaters are sloppy, they all eventually get caught. I wouldn't blow the whistle though. No sense in pouring salt on what is already wounded. I wouldn't feel bad either, I didn't know.
I'd never knowingly mess around with a married woman, separated is different. They have to be SEPARATED though. As-in living in separate dwellings. She has to have no intent of ever going back either. No dwindling deep and / or unresolved feelings.
Mike | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/19/2009 11:24:03 PM | Dude there are a LOT of married women wanting to have an affair on the side. Some are married to much older men who can not satisfy them sexually so they go for the younger guys. While others are just nymphos looking for variety. Still others are in a loveless marriage and desperate for some affection.
It's not a good idea because you do not know what the outcome will be. You might get caught, she might be using you for something other than sex, or something far worse might come to pass. I'm not religious but if I'm married and not in some bizarre swinging situation then I would be really pissed off to find something like this out. Golden rule, do onto others as you'd have them do onto you.
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