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Posted: 3/14/2006 2:48:15 PM | I said it against the men, now I have to say it against my own sex...yikes...but cheating is a sign of weakness to me...the actual divorce decree isn't what counts, but get out of the relationship/marriage openly and honestly BEFORE you start sleeping around. Isn't it better to hurt someone with honesty, than to destroy them with lies?? I don't see anything romantic or hot about a cheating wife OR husband.
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Posted: 3/14/2006 9:22:31 PM | You got that one right, Pooh. Whether the decree is in the hand or not, the relationship has to be officially, openly, at least finished, before another one starts, or you're just asking for more crap. And your asking to be someone else's seconds, never there for holidays, important stuff, your birthday, all the things that really matter. He (or she) will home with the spouse, "keeping up appearances because we don't like to start a fuss" -- you'll be home with nothing.
Did I sound bitter right then, like I knew what I was talking about?? Hmmmmm...
No it's not the piece of paper in the hand, but it is the promise in someone's heart that really matters, and if it's not to you, then run, run away fast! | |
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Posted: 5/11/2006 11:20:53 AM | | It's prolly a gimmick or a dumb broad..Most married women would never hit the net for an affair,just common sense.. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2006 11:48:59 AM | | most of the married women on plentyoffish who are searching for sex partners are usually swingers or women wanting to have some kind of emotional bond is also sexual with another person....she's bored with her life...many of them are fakes too and talk more than they act out....i believe many married women who cheat on their husbands usually see their co-workers for sexual release and less likely will rely on the the internet. | |
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Posted: 8/1/2006 12:38:36 PM | | As advise given to me: if you ever meet up with these women, check for an Adam's Apple! | |
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Posted: 8/1/2006 12:52:40 PM | There is usually a much deeper story behind every person. One can love another deeply and not be satisfied sexually. I have chatted with several online women who are married and looking for sex. They never thought they would be in this position. Sex has become mechanical. It has been discussed, ad naseum (sp?) but the spark simply no longer creates a flame. It all feels good, you love each other, but....
Its a touchy subject. The unfortunate truth is that someone will likely get hurt in these situations. There are all sorts of societal standards that, I believe, human beings should not/can not adhere to. Its these pressures that create sexual tension, the lack of ability to discuss the lacking needs.
I would also bet a significant body part that there are far more people out there who are married that would have an affair than you might think. People you would not expect to be having an affair. The girl next door. The guy who is deeply involved in his community.
So, for me, I don't judge. I listen to what they have to say. Would I turn them down for sex, likely. But..... | |
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Posted: 8/1/2006 1:28:16 PM | When I was younger, I slept with someone whom I found out later to be married. She did a pretty decent job of concealing it for the short term. Then again I was young and dumb and the small subtle things I can see now were not so easy to see back then. I broke it off when I found out she was married though, that's just too complicated a situation. Plus there's the Golden Rule issue. I want people to respect my relationships, so I'll respect theirs.
But from seeing my employee's love lives detonate in front of my eyes, I can say for sure that if you knowingly sleep with a married woman, eventually her husband will find out. They will fight, because they have to be fighting and unhappy otherwise she would not be banging your brains out. Then when they are screaming, she'll finally say, "You know what! I ****ed Mr. X over Thanksgiving!"
Then it's over for you. If you knowingly sleep with another man's wife, he's got the right to shoot you in the face. Sorry, I don't give a shit what the law says about this, this goes beyond the law. You grind another man's grain, and you have to be willing to pay the tab when it comes around.
Maybe some people see married women as an opportunity for some free sex. Nothing is free in life. | |
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Posted: 8/1/2006 1:45:47 PM | What's even sadder, is when her profile says she's single and after about a week of emails and possibly phone calls, THEN she tells you she's married.
This happened to me recently, and when she told me, I ended that right now. I don't want to be that "other guy" who ends up breaking up a marriage, whether it's a happy one or not. | |
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Posted: 8/1/2006 4:24:10 PM | | I want nothing to do with a Married woman who's willing to cheat on her husband... sheesh | |
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Posted: 8/21/2006 9:52:44 PM | allo i m Married man loking for sex two i m on the S.S of montreal i m 43 5,9 180P
good loking  sex hes good sex hes font , i CAN DOU IT  | |
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Posted: 8/22/2006 12:50:39 AM |
allo i m Married man loking for sex two i m on the S.S of montreal i m 43 5,9 180P
Boy, it's tough when you can't really read the thread you're posting to, huh? | |
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Posted: 9/21/2006 6:32:02 PM | | This will sound strange @ first but read on…. I had sex with a married woman for 3 ½ years. I think this helped to keep their marriage together! I gave her the sex in her life and she had the love from her man. She would be with me and her life @ home was great. I stopped, now they are divorced. | |
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Posted: 9/22/2006 10:47:04 AM | I'm inclined to agree with you. Sometimes outside influences (right, wrong or otherwise) can benefit a relationship (well "benefit" may not be the best word to use here, maybe "hold it together"). Maybe all that that married woman was lacking in her relationship with her husband was some excitement in the bedroom. If you're not happy with your partner in the bedroom, it won't be long before those problems start finding their way into the other areas of your life.
It sounds as though you might have prolonged that effect.
There are many differenct reasons women going looking for sex outside their marriage. Bottom line is always the same, theres "something" missing on some level and they want it to be addressed.... | |
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Posted: 9/22/2006 12:05:35 PM | ok so I will nibble at this one........
once there was this girl who thought that she was so in love with a boy. They thought it would be a good idea to have a child. and about 9 months later this beautiful little boy came into the world. then the boy lost his job and the girl worked her ass off just to feed the baby.
now a year down the road after a few jobs that just didn't work out for the boy he found one, it was great pay and he really liked it but this left the girl alone with the baby all the time, since he was working 8pm to 10am and when he was home he just slept.
now to fast forward 4 years.... he was still working at the same place same hours and they had a little girl who would be 3 now. so the girl got really lonley and was tired of being a married single mother of 2. so one day she went to her really good friend that she had known for 10 years, she would go out to see movies with him and just spend time that her husband didn't have for her. now a year later the girl is on her own and has found the real her and realized that she never was happy, and that she owes her friend for everything she is today.
so you see sometimes people fall out of love.... and sometimes they need a little lift. nothing is wrong with talking to them everyone needs friends married or not. | |
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Posted: 9/22/2006 1:56:56 PM | | well being one of the married guys looking for sex. I can tell you there can be good reasoning. My wife and I had a great sexual life until she had to have a hysterictomy. Since her hysterictomy it has hurt her to have sex and so she has no desires for sex. She is a great wife in all other areas and was in the sex area as well. So not looking to leave her just because she can't or doesn't want to have sex because it hurts her. | |
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Posted: 9/22/2006 2:18:09 PM | You shouldn't be so quick to judge someone.
What if a woman was in marriage where her husband was both emotionally and physically abusive and she found comfort in the arms of another man.....should she "have a spork put in her eye"?
All I'm saying is that there are many different reasons someone would look outside their marriage for sex or comfort or whatever......its not always necessarily the wrong thing to do....just a thought.... | |
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Posted: 9/23/2006 7:05:48 AM | I'd rather ride a mad bull than to get in the saddle w/ a married woman. Reason being is that no matter how you try to figure it out the ride will be the way it wants you to go,no matter how good or smart you think you may be , it has control of you, and your heart.....You may be hard into it, but in the end when she turns the other way, your gonna end up look-en bad when ya hit the ground. This is just good advise that may help ya set tall in the saddle for a woman that really matters....But I know there are a few wranglers out there that think they have a firm hold....lol Yea.....Right....Better look for a ride w/ a better disposition boys, Its safer, and a real woman I'm sure would be proud to be w/ a man who knows how to make good choices.
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Posted: 9/23/2006 10:27:14 AM | | Ive heard from an occasional married woman and it stops right there. Usually, theyre locked into something long term with all kinds of financial ties and/or children, but my sense is that I am very much a part of adultery if I were to invite that, every bit as much as she would be, and I dont go there on principle. | |
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Posted: 9/23/2006 11:45:27 AM | Came across your ad. Hopefully you will like what you read in my profile.
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