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Posted: 9/23/2006 11:56:11 AM | Well!! As a child of 11 years, I had the bedroom across the hall from my parents bedroom and, EVERY freaking night, I had to listen to them scream at each other, and call each other all the foul names in the world, merely because they were cheating on each other, by going to bars and picking up others, to f**k.
To this day, I consider ANY married woman seeking sex, with other than her husbanc, a TOTAL slut and will NOT have one damned thing to do with her.
Until I was 28 or 29 years of age, I considered marriage only for people who wanted to f*** other people and if this was so, why get married?? Merely sleep with every single woman possible.
At 28 or 29 years of age, hanging out in a bar, I met 3 guys who would NOT cheat on their wives, and wonder if any of you can imagine how their refusal to "chippy" messed up my head for months?
I DID spend months, pondering WTF's wrong with my buddies, until I remembered my high school buddy's parents, and a very few other people, who I never heard of cheating on their mates.
It took about 1 1/2 years before I, finally, came to understand what marriage is and why people can get divorced and, still, be friends, and I only THINK I know what marriage REALLY is, as I'm a Dirty Old Single man. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 9/23/2006 12:05:38 PM | CheekyChica,
THANK YOU, VERY much.
I honestly believe that IF a married person wants sex, there ARE hands, toys and self-satisfaction as WTF? Is not the ONLY thing they really desire is to "GET OFF"??
When two people take marriage vows, I believe they are not vowing to some non-existant god but, to each other, that they will be true to each other and, if they have problems, sex or in other areas, WILL and CAN talk to each other and try to come to a solution that can please each.
Does this make me naive? I think NOT.
Were I to wed, I hope she and I would be good friends and be capable of discussing any and every thing that goes through our minds. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 9/24/2006 7:40:55 AM | | why as a single bloke and in the past not been looking for anything to heavy the chance of an encounter with a married woman was good because both partys just wanted good honest fun and a chat then go thereback to there normal lives until the next time thet meet | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 9/24/2006 8:29:33 AM | /quote Sad perhaps was too vague a term. Selfish and immoral might have been better. A saying; something to do with a cake, comes to mind. :P
dont judge a book by a cover u have no idea of the circumstances surrounding the add, i had a friend once who was married but whose husband was dying and his wish was that she should live her life and have sex and as he couldnt give her sex anymore she should have sex with somone else should they divorce?? if so why because he is dying???? because she still alive and has a sex drive??? it is because they loved each other so much that she looked after him and someone else looked after her. u say about the traditions of marriage there is such a thing as true unconditional love.
im not saying i would have an affair all im saying is don't judge people u never know one day u could find urself in the same place they are and then u would look silly. it is more sad and selfish to judge people than it is to have an affair. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 9/24/2006 9:23:37 AM | | It is sad that you would screw around somebody that you love. Heart breaking. I done once to my fist wife said that I would never do it again. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 9/24/2006 9:27:26 AM | I know this won't be popular but I would welcome it.Everytime I start to date someone for a month or so she wants to move in together or starts to hound me and make me uncomfortable. I have had friends with benefits before and in my experience one person almost always falls for the other so I figure a married chick won't do either especially if her husband is well off ,she just wants sex and maby to be told she is beautifull and he should treat her better.Theres no denying that if her hubby doesn't know, ( i have hung out with swingers before) she is wrong, but I didn't take any vows to that guy and its on her.It would also have to say this would DISQUALIFY her to me as anything more than some fun behind closed doors as I don't want a relationship with her so she can do the same to me down the road.. I truely believe once a cheater always a cheater.
As for the big mean husband getting retribution on me??
I have been in this situation before and in my personal experience ALL TALK to sound like a toughguy to the wife because the ego has just taken a hit, when a REAL toughguy is in front of them saying here I am kick MY ass like you said you will, they say nothing or threaten to call the police on me. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 10/3/2006 4:46:52 AM | | People must be missing something from their marriage. Too bad they couldn’t work it out with their spouse first. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 10/3/2006 3:00:26 PM | | So she is unhappy in her marriage, who are we to judge what she chooses to do. For all you know she could be in an open relationship and her husband is 100% aware of what is going on. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 10/3/2006 5:27:04 PM | | Well one nice thing about it is she wont want comitment from you, so you can do your thing and go your seperate ways.... And perhaps even this... you could be saving her marriage. if her sexual needs are not met in the marriage, then by getting them met outside the marriage she can still be happily married thus saving the divorse, broken home for children, etc. | |
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Posted: 10/3/2006 5:54:35 PM | | Admittedly, I didn't read all of the posts. I grossed out around post 7. (sorry..no offense, i'm taking a number out of a hat). To be honest? As a female..I'm just as disgusted with women cheating on their husbands..as I am with men cheating on their wives. You either develop the backbone to end the marriage, or you use the self-fulfilling prophecy so to speak. I'm a female..and i'm JUST as disgusted with cheating wives, as I am with cheating husbands. Leave the marriage, then have all the sex you want. Don't be a coward and cheat in order to maintain the status quo. It's rather disgusting, and cowardly. | |
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Posted: 10/3/2006 6:26:25 PM | | i'm agree and dissagree... there are some reason why that do what they do... one the kids that are involved you see how lozing a dad or mom effects the children so they suck it up pretend everything is fine and look else where to get there satisfaction cuzz one or both persons and not meeting each others needs... | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 10/5/2006 5:20:46 PM | [It is hell getting divorced and as NotAPandora said, also very expensive.]
Whats with the $2-3K to ge divorced comment? Yeah, if you both want to be stupid and fight over every CD, every bathroom rug, etc. If you can be adults and work it out it only costs the county filing fee and a bit here and there for copies and postage. My divorce has so far (knock on wood) cost me $190.
I have had some wonderful moments with married women. As said earlier in the thread, sometimes there is a valid reason. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2006 6:11:44 AM | The "don't judge, you don't know what the situation is or why women or men cheat" posts in this thread really do miss the point don't they?
I am not a huge fan of moral relativism. It implies that nobody is supposed to take personal responsibility for their actions. It wants everyone's measuring stick to be different so that nobody can ever be told "Hey, you f&@ked up, now what are you going to do to set things right?"
Everything we say, and do impacts the larger world arround us. We have free will, but that free will is has a great deal of power and with great power also comes great responsibility. A person of character will understand the impact that decsions he/she makes has on themselves, friends, family, and the world at large.
"Well, Jaberwokey, you don't know the person's sitation, what they went through, what pain they had that may have caused them to cheat."
I don't care. You know. It's time people started to understand again that there are things in this life that are positively right and wrong with no grey areas in between.
Knowingly cheating /deciveing a spouse that you swore to be emotionaly and sexually faithful to is wrong. Period. The circumstances that led to the decision as to why the man or woman decided to break the sacred oath of marriage is irrelavant. It doesn't protect them from the negative consequences. Nor should it protect them from the disapproval they will likely get from others. Sorry, but you are breaking a sacred oath when you cheat,
it says something is seriously wrong with your personal character.
I'm supposed to think the cheater is a good guy or lady? How trustworthy a person can they be if they are willing to lie and f#(# arround on their spouse? Are they capable of being a good friend to anybody if they can so easily break sacred oaths of trust? How would you like to do business with a person like that? | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 10/6/2006 8:47:38 AM | .
Yeah, it’s true that out here in suburbia there are a number of married women (usually over 40) willing to have a little fling on the side with a discrete man. Sure, I notice, but I have absolutely no interest in that aspect of their lives. I will never do anything with a married women that I would not do in front of her husband. Period.
Besides, within the over 50 set, active single women vastly outnumber active single men. Just in my adult apartment building, there are nearly 200 single women between 45 and 70 years old and almost everyone is always polite and friendly (with me, anyway).
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Posted: 10/6/2006 10:27:51 AM | | I have been talking ( no sex) with a married woman for a while. Only frienship can I offer. Her husband has had three heart attacks over 10 years. Poor guy is in bad shape. She is too.she seems to relate sex with love.It comes in handy,but there can be love without sex. sometimes tenderness is just as good. Wade | |
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Posted: 10/6/2006 10:32:53 AM | Very wise; should have known you were from Scotland. I'm from the clan Johns. Best regards, Wade | |
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Posted: 10/6/2006 10:33:34 AM | I have hooked up with a married women. Some of the best sex I have ever had. They have all this built up sexual aggression and they can release it. If you have the chance and its nsa...try it.
I would like to say I was single at the time. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2006 6:45:48 PM | Why is everyone so concerned about what goes on in the bedroom's of other's? Why does cheating always equate to sex? As I read some of these posts, I see many people use the word "NEVER". As I learned the hard way, "never say never" -
"My husband/wife will NEVER cheat on me"
" I will NEVER cheat on my husband"
Human beings are clever and will never cease to amaze and always disappoint in the long scheme of things. So get off your high horses and be realistic about the day and age we are living in. No one is perfect; who are we to judge. Everyone will have their day; just not today. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 10/6/2006 6:53:18 PM |
I simply didn't have the 2 or 3K that a divorce would have cost me while I was raising two children.
Try 10k and still counting, (that is my attorney fees alone) no divorce signed decree as of yet! | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 10/6/2006 7:15:56 PM | | if she is hot and/or rich i would email her. unfortunately, that eliminates about all of them i think. i have standars, but not those ones | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 10/10/2006 11:05:22 PM |
What do you do when you come across the profile of a married woman looking for sex?
Personally, I think it's sad.
It doesn't matter what you think.
I don't think it's sad. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 10/11/2006 9:57:12 AM | | I don't see it as a bad or sad thing to do. Everybody has their own needs, desire, and want to try new thing. I've read several megazines and they did say that sex cures lots of problems. I don't know if it is true or not, but that's what they said. | |
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