| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 10/11/2006 12:37:29 PM | | Never have responeded to a profile. I did get on with a married woman and I gave her the double-deluxe only knowing I had established competition. Its only fair to give a married woman 200% or more of what I usually give. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 10/11/2006 1:13:51 PM | What do you do when you come across the profile of a married woman looking for sex?
Send her a message and call the hotel! | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 10/13/2006 5:03:00 PM | Married women looking for sex are just that, married ladies looking for sex.
We get entirely too judgemental of others. If you have no interest in a married lady, ignore the profile. If you have an interest, respond to her.
We all look to meet our own needs and don't need criticism from people who really don't know what is going on.
Get off the high moral horse. After all who told you that monogamy was the only way?
Woody | |
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Shep14
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Joined: 2/16/2006
Msg: 81 | |
| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 10/13/2006 6:59:15 PM | | Good for you Intercooler.I think everyone deserves a better deal......that being someone who will be faithful and put the effort into realizing there may be a problem sexually and communicate about it.... and get professional help it needed. People walk away too easily and dont take the time to learn what the other person needs or desires. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 10/14/2006 10:42:24 AM | I almost refrained from posting anything on this thread,
but then I found I couldn't resist.
In theory, I agree with you that noone married should
cheat on their mates. Idealy each spouse should put
an equal amount of love and caring into the relationship.
They should both care equally about satisfying their
partners sexual needs.
But, unfortunately, people aren't perfect. Many times,
one partner stops caring about fufilling the other partner's
needs. There are many different reasons this happens.
My husband is no longer physically attracted to me due
to my weight gain. I have a medical condition that requires
a medication. The primary side effects of the medication are
lower metabolism, impaired thyroid function, and fluid retention.
All of those side effects cause weight gain. Eventhough I exercise
regularly with a personal trainer and severely restrict calories. I can only
manage to maintain my current weight.
I can almost hear you romantics out there screaming....
"Weight shouldn't matter if he loves you."
Guess what. You're right. Weight shouldn't matter if he loves me.
But, guess what. He doesn't love me. Maybe he never did.
Right now, we're roommates and friends, at best, for our children's sake.
We'll eventually get a divorce. Probably when one of us finds true love.
I'd be willing to bet that most of the married women on this site that appear to be
looking for just sex....aren't really looking for that at all.
They are looking for the same thing everyone else is true, lasting love.
Why do they list the intimate encounter thing, then? Answers simple.
They don't want to scare men away with the "long term" wording.
And, usually, they are willing to take a few chances to hopefully
find that elusive love of a lifetime.
Why don't you give us married women a break ? Most of us that are on here,
probably won't be married for long, anyway. At least, not to our current spouse. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 10/14/2006 11:02:23 AM | i do agree that married people should be faithful and love that person no matter what. if they don't, get a divorce. i also believe that a spouse has a duty to maintain his/her appearance, or even improve it after marriage. obviously this is in your relation to age, which obviously takes its toll. to get married and figure it is a free pass to let yourself go, "medical reasons" or not, is unfair. you should be able to look at your spouse and be proud, not ashamed. unfortunately, too many people see marriage as an excuse to become a slob. if YOU love your spouse, you will do your best to look good for him/her. it is a two way street. of course we all know nobody in history has ever become fat by overeating or being lazy, it is always the thyroid. whatever.
if you let yourself go, don't be surprised if your spouse strays. many people equate their self worth by the type of people they can sleep with. | |
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Ten32
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Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 84 | |
| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 10/21/2006 7:04:49 PM | Well sometimes the married woman is in a situation where finacially, the husband and wife agree to stay legally married... Even if for the sake of the children. Then it's not really cheating. As long as they are BOTH ok with it, I see nothing wrong with it, as long as it's safe sex. Start throwing in getting preggo, and std's, and now ya got a problem.
But most of the time it's the wife cheating, and that's just a mess I'd avoid.
I'd avoid any married woman, no matter the reason. Period. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/30/2007 5:32:52 PM | I agree with thetheory that A woman and a man can be in love and Not sexually attracted to eachother.There many situations that come up. Sometimes a woman ,or a man have to find themselves .I mean we go threw life so fast that one day we look in the mirror and its not that person whom you thought you were.It is my opinion that to just stop a relationship without doing a little inventory on yourself and look at your defects ,assets ect could be more harmful than living in misery .... | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/30/2007 6:08:30 PM | | fine with me... she wont be clingy and want a long term relationship just a mutually gratifying encounter between two or more concenting adults | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 1/30/2007 10:00:09 PM | | Never ever ever defile the marriage covenant. Call it what you want, karma. It never ends well. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/3/2007 4:09:25 PM | I have read some of the replys What a lot of supposed swingers, standing in judgement on others. Is this a site for meeting people for sex or a bible class | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/5/2007 11:00:16 AM | Bring it on!
OK. I have read through these forums and I've got to say there is quite the contrast. Obviously, some posters speak from experience and you can tell who they are by the fact that their posts actually make some sense. One other thing about their posts; they don't judge others. I would guess that most of the others have never tried it , or have never had to resort to having a romantic relationship with someone who was married.
People change, but a marriage creates situations where change is difficult. This is called responsibilities. In my own situation, thanks to the laws of our country, a divorce would actually harm my children.
My wife hasn't worked in a decade, nor does she plan to. Our country rewards her attitude with half my salary and half of what I own. Not to mention the fact, that due to her illness, she can not look after herself, let alone the children properly. Let the courts figure it out, you say? Lawyers, judges etc? Do these people do this for free? Can civil authorities figure anything out?
In the meanwhile, what about my wants and needs? Pay for it you say? I already am. Pay for it twice over? I don't make THAT much money.
I have met women who were married and have sought romance outside their marriage. They related similar circumstances to mine. Didn't want to split the house, split of pension, their husbands' useless and drug addicted. We became good friends and sought comfort in each other.
Sure it's morally wrong, but so is war, abortion and prostitution. Tell me they ain't happening?
Let's all drop the "holier than thou" and try to be a little more understanding of our fellow man (and women).
As for me, it's not just about sex, but respect, romance and respite from responsability is what I seek (the three R's). | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/5/2007 10:27:41 PM | | I have found this forum most amusing... simply because everyone is on this site to meet, do or get with someone.. I personally don't care if married people are looking outside their own relationship... as long as I am NOT being hit on by married men, who cares... if you get hit on by a married person and it bothers you, just tell them to go away... if it doesn't bother you then enjoy each other, just be safe when you do so.... if you do chose to enjoy each other just remember that you might get caught and feelings will be hurt, so be mature enough to accept responsibility for what you have done.. that's it, that's all, Tracey | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/5/2007 10:33:48 PM | | I think anyone married or otherwised attached and looking is a coward. Yea ok..shoot me..I'm ready. I could care less what extenuating circumstances led you to cheat...if you're comitted....ditch the comittment before you look to get laid... EASY. What the hell are you comitting if you're looking to screw around? | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/5/2007 11:34:19 PM | its called fidelity people. You take a vow you honor that vow. The only situation I could see rationalizing such an act would be
A. hubby wants to watch
B. hubby ok cause his junk took a dump or its got all sorts o funk
C. divorce is literally already in the works and seperation is 100% complete | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 4:38:07 AM | Wow, there's an original sexist view on the matter! It's ok if the hubby wants to watch? What if it's the wife that wants to watch the hubby? is that ok in your book? Can they watch each other?
Here's my 2 cents:
-If it's consentual with both, I think it's ok...Whats good for the goose is good for the gander
-If the husband/wife is miserable, then leave...don't get another one on the hook first. (it just complicates things)
-Marital problems don't go away by ignoring them or seeking the answers elsewhere...they have to be dealt with at home.
My lifestyle is not for unhappy housewives.
Jenni | |
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Joined: 1/2/2007
Msg: 95 | |
| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 4:43:30 AM | ^^^^^^Just out of curiousity^^^^^^.......You have children..........Do they know your lifestyle??????..........LMFAO!!!!!!!........jo~  | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 4:47:58 AM | Nope, it's none of their business. Why would kids want to know their parents are having sex at all, let alone with their friends parents? It's something we enjoy together as a couple, it's not for everyone and certainly not for them to think about.
Jenni | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 4:49:45 AM | I look at it this way...
If not with me, with someone else.
I have done it in the past and in the right situation might again. Depending on who and the situation.
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Joined: 1/2/2007
Msg: 98 | |
| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 4:51:43 AM | Ok..........Let's be serious here then shall we???????^^^^^^........So every time you get together and SWING do you do it?????????..........At home?????.....Hotel????......Enlighten me please..........Because if you ARE doing it in the PRIVACY of your own home...........THEY KNOW!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 5:03:48 AM | Are you always this narrowminded? The children are not at home when we are playing. Believe it or not we manage to restrain ourselves from pawing at everyone who walks through the door. Sometimes we go to dances and just talk with others who are openminded. We have a very happy, loving committed relationship and enjoy each others company immensely. We also happen to enjoy watching each other with someone else. It isn't for people who are insecure about themselves or their relationship, and especially not for those with jealousy issues.
Jenni
*edit* Fun statistic I picked up while researching for the site I'm starting - 98% of swingers have children and 78% own a minivan... | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 5:34:22 AM | | I think people can do what they like. There is a reason that a woman is looking outside her marriage. | |
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