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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 2/25/2008 8:42:57 PM | | there's married wenches looking for sex on POF? arrrrrrgh! the captain's shocked! shocked! | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 3/29/2008 4:54:06 PM | initially, a married woman looking for sex, may actually be looking for a guy that she can talk and share things with. Sex is quite often a distant thing.
She may be a physical girl who likes the feeling of having sex but her husband is either too busy with work, away from home, or has changed.
I love sex, and the feeling of making love to a woman. And making her and seeing her having a orgasm under my touch. Woman have told me I am a very good kisser..translation?
Things have changed, women take the lead. If they want something, and they are not getting it at home..they go looking for it.
I love it when woman comes on to me...complimented because it makes me feel attractive, and when she takes the incentive to meeting with me again..I feel privileged, BU T
KNOW your boundaries.
If a married guy is having an affair, both need to know the boundaries, and set up guidelines.
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 3/29/2008 9:11:47 PM | Being a married man looking for sex myself, I wish I could FIND even a married woman looking for the same thing!  All I keep running into, at least lately, are people offended at the way I choose to run my life, without walking even an INCH in MY shoes! Bummer!  | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 3/31/2008 9:05:04 AM | Personally I have chatted with alot of women who were married or separated and wanted to have sex. The majority of these ladies I found were having problems with their husbands in a emotional or sexual way. Most cases I heard them say that their husband came home ,were too tired to make love, or didn't think they were attractive anymore. Some cases I found that the husband suffered from ED and didn't want to admit that he needed a little blue pill. In alot of cases I have been able to save a marriage where the woman was looking by just giving her the perspective of a man.
Do I look down on these woman? No. I personally have been there, MWM looking and was able to meet and talk to a MWF with problems. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 3/31/2008 9:40:49 AM | | Well, if she sounds interesting and not too far away, I guess you'd see if she would like to converse with you for awhile, and see if you have anything in common... Why? | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 3/31/2008 10:02:08 AM | | Wait if it is ok for a man to do that then why cann't a women lets face we ALL have needs if they are not being met then people go outside for it. I do not think I could but that is just me . | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 3/31/2008 10:27:30 AM | | married women looking for sex....does the husband know? different story then. they could be swingers. I say if you indulge your just as lost as the person posting the ad. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 3/31/2008 1:05:44 PM | What do you do when you come across the profile of a married woman looking for sex?
Give her some? | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 3/31/2008 3:18:50 PM | | If some one had told me two years ago, that I would have turned my eyes to look upon another man; I would have told them that they were crazy! That I was not capable of turning my head to look at another... boy didn't I get fooled | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 3/31/2008 7:07:53 PM | Hey Pandy, living in your hood and would like to get in touch. Mail me and lets talk some more ok
Puspus | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 5/15/2008 10:02:15 AM | Sex with a married woman is interesting... but NOT TOO BAD if you know what I mean.  Anybody agree? | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 5/15/2008 12:03:00 PM | | I tell them to go to somespamsite.com and leave POF because I'd much rather see quality women on here looking for things "besides sex" and keep those types of people on AFF where they actively search for extra marital affairs. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 6/10/2008 11:24:45 PM | All you good Harper Valley PTA folks? I'm curious to know, and maybe you can help me out. Why do *you* get to decide what POF is for, and not say - well *me*, or someone else, like maybe the site founder who has seen fit to include catagories such as "married", "intimate encounters", etc? Moreover, how does it hurt you that there are some married lonely people out there looking for happiness? Personally I find all the judgemental stuff simultaneously sad and hilarious like a black comedy. These are obviously inexperienced young folks that have no experience with the real world and no idea where they'll probably end up themselves one day.
Personally, I'm married to a beautiful women. All I want is her. I love her, and want her in every way. But I suspect this is probably rare. People get old. They lose their attractiveness. I suspect that's what happened to me, but my wife is too sweet to ever tell me. For 5 years I've told her that life without romance and sex isn't worth living for me. I've told her that I will go outside the relationship. That I don't want too but that have no choice. I have needs you see? It doesn't matter. It all just falls on deaf ears. Her response? "Mike, I love you." No further comment. A tacit approval. As though this "love" she expresses makes everything OK. She really thinks it does! She's even told me that she can forgive me a fling or infidelity. Anything to get out of the chore of going to bed with me I guess.
So life goes on. She sleeps upstairs, me down. Oh sure, once or twice, maybe 4 times at most a year we actually have a good sexual experience. I take that back, we have a sexual exprience. Maybe half of those times she can concentrate long enough to follow through and gets into it enough not to interject thoughts about work or our son's school work or something..... while I'm undressing her. She's totally unaware that this might offend me or hurt my feelings.
I should at least try to defend her. She's tiny, only 98 lbs soaking wet. I'm fairly fit too, but a pretty big guy and pretty big down there if you what I mean. I think sex is more of a pain in the butt (well OK, literally the vagina) for her than anything else. Even her mouth is small. She can give great head when she wants, but its a lot of work for her and she scrapes me with her teeth despite her best efforts, not that I mind. Hell she could stab me in the armpit if she just did *that* at the same time for all I care. And when I can finally get her in the mood she does lose herself in my oral pleasures, but its short lived and forgotten in hours. No need to repeat that for say, oh 6 months or so!
Oh, those 3 or 4 times a year? They're mostly because I've guilt tripped her into it because I literally just physically can't stand it any longer. Afterwords I generally feel like a rapist. Yeah life is great for us married folks. If I push her too far at the wrong time she'll even get angry at *me*! She'll start bringing up old resentments, like how I didn't clean the crumbs off the counter or I squooze the toothpast tube from the wrong end or forgot to pooper scoop the yard. Something. Whatever comes into her head. Once when I threatened to divorce her she told me to "just go." As if tying someone up and depriving them of food or water (another basic human need) is tantamount to bad housekeeping.
Yet despite all this, DESPITE ALL THIS, I can't bring myself to cheat on this women I love. I get to the point where I know I'm going too. I find someone that's my type and nice I that I think I would really like. We're supposed to meet at the restaurant, or whatever. I'll even go out and buy a gift for her in anticipation. Then hours before I get cold feet, write a nice email and politely back out. I basically have my wife's damn *permission*, and still can't follow through. Its pathetic.
I don't know what the answer is, but I'll tell you this. All you judgemental folks out there might want to back off. There is such a thing as karma, whether you want to believe it or not. Chances are you'll be sitting where I am if a few short years.
- Mike | |
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