| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 10/26/2008 2:02:20 PM | | and that is when the marriage should end in my opinion...........if you have to seek something outside of the marriage there is something wrong. If I didn't feel that way I would have looked outside of my marriage for sex because my ex was on the road all the time.......I wanted more sex, but never went out side of the marriage. When I was not happy and we both realized that we couldn't make it work for both of us to be happy we ended to find what we were missing. That is what I am saying. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 10/26/2008 2:16:50 PM | | some of them have a lot invested in the marrage, and rather stay married. some for the sake of the kids, some for other reason like maybe there afraid of being a long. or that the sex it self with the two of them has died. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 10/28/2008 7:59:13 AM | | I must say that some of the best sex I have ever had were with married women. Perhaps it's the risks or perhaps they are sexually more needy. I use to go into the company parking lot at lunch time with a married coworker and have unbelievable sex in the back of her van. If we would have been caught I am sure we both would have lost our jobs but it was so hot I could never resist. It just seems so much better with married women. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 10/30/2008 9:43:45 PM | I do not have sex with married women. Only once I did and never again. Separated? That is different, provided they truly are (separated). That means not living with hubby, in any case (too weird)! | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 10/30/2008 11:47:38 PM | > exactly! which is why i am done being sad; and waiting like i have the last 5 yrs sad is pathetic and i am not hence, i will get my pleasure and he can keep being an ass i have no intention of leaving and neither do the 100 million guys out there who are doing the same thing why get rid of the louse u have to look for another lol all men have baggage and i'm just tired of not getting any tips for playing bellboy ...anymore different relationship, same garbage; we're all selfish | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 10/30/2008 11:49:16 PM | | I love being with a married woman... b/c she's passionate. She wants it and that's hot to me. Passive, hesitant sex from a single chick is lame. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 10/31/2008 6:55:28 AM | | Dear Gentle Reader : Too many...! Emails that go on forever without resolve, 2nd agendas.....window shoppers.... | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 10/31/2008 7:49:25 AM | depends who it is, the circumstances, nothing of itself is bad..it's just what meaning you give to it.... question of moral or immoral is terribly immoral in itself to even think you can be a judge of what is moral or not...morality can never be defined universally or applied across the board.
In Japan it is quite interesting that there are bars where women can pick up man....just like it is a normal thing in the West to go to a place to pick up a female in a brothel....so what how distant are we from animals in our sexual/ or bodily needs.....it is a natural phenomena...nothing to be ashamed of...except by them to whom it is a sin...then that is a sin for them... So married women....when you are in need and you have taken good care of your body....slim, sexy etc. .please email me and come...visit me.....hmmm can't wait to give you all the sex..... | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 10/31/2008 8:47:39 AM | Personally, I need emotional and intellectual attachment to have sex with a woman. That, for me, would be difficult with a married woman. I'm not saying it couldn't happen, but it never has.
On the other hand, I have a woman friend that is involved with another man. We discuss it openly and I condone her actions due to her situation. There ARE valid reasons. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 10/31/2008 9:06:25 AM | When I was a young fellow (early 20s) I was convinced quite naively that unlike the people Hollywood portrayed by and large married people were faithful to one another and that most people were married for life. I was more than a little wet behind the ears to say the least. Just about all the families in my neighborhood were stable and it was viewed tragically if a couple divorced.
I consequently had a mind set that married women were off limits and it was the height of disrespect to the couple and specifically the woman to seriously flirt with a married lady other than in obvious jest if you were friends. I felt theoretically I would not want someone trying to hit on my wife so I did not hit on other mens wives. Then... I got married too... Married women I respected an admired began hitting on me... I was a bit flattered yeah but the primary thing I was I can honestly say is disappointed and disillusioned. I was told that now that I was a member of the club I was safe to screw since I now had as much to loose as they did. Several of my married female acquaintances shared that they do not screw single guys because they might do something stupid like show up at their house to profess their love in front of their families.
Young, in love with my wife, idealistic and a little judgmental (28 years ago) I turned them all down.
I didn't know at the time that my wife was a willing cheating club member too.... I didn't join the club for many many years (until I caught my wife the second or was it the third time).... I don't pry or keep count now. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 10/31/2008 10:36:52 AM | | Married women looking for sex....Married men looking for sex......what's the difference and what's it to you anyway. This just gives the nay-sayers and do-gooders something to talk about. MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!!!! | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 11/5/2008 2:12:56 AM | I am sure I am going to regret joining this thread, but here goes. I myself am one of those "sad" women. I have been married a very very long time (21 yrs). Spouse and I are in an open relationship and it works for us. He actually encourages me as far as seeking playmates (he has had his own with and without me present), as I have an extremely high sex drive. We are in a very tight, good relationship, love each other and do not disrespect each other. We have set boundaries and nothing is done without the others approval and consent. Neither of us are looking for a relationship, we have that. Sex for sex's sake, pure and simple. If that makes me loose or a slut, so be it. I am not ashamed of it, nor is my spouse. I am pretty open about this, as is he. I don't hide anything from anyone I talk to on this site. What would be the point? That having been said, just because that works for us, I would not tell someone else to follow in my footsteps. I have plenty of friends that are "in the lifestyle" and they are all in very tight, long term relationships. Those that are not? Crash and burn and its not pretty. Thanks for letting me have my say... | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 11/6/2008 4:54:50 AM | Well when I was a kid. My father was gone a lot in the Navy my mother was a lonley person.
This one night my mother called this friend over this one night.
As I woke up to strange sounds.
Ias I got up to look to see what was going on. I seen a black women masterbateing my mother on the living room couch as my mother was naked and humping this women hand.
So yes married women do look for sex. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 11/6/2008 5:17:00 AM | | OP is it also sad that married men are looking for sex ????????? I mean really. What is the freaking difference. They both need to decide, if they aren't happy, to end the marriage. Stop being cowards. Enough said. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 11/6/2008 5:25:58 AM | | From my perspective I don't see a problem with it at all...I'd love to give her what she's not getting at home...Plus it will make it very sporty lol. I've been with a married woman and knew her well and her situation. I don't blame her for looking outside of her marriage to get pleasure. But I also don't judge any body especially if they're willing to sleep with me lol. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 11/6/2008 5:55:07 AM | To answer this question it isn't only women but humans as a whole. We are made of of energy and different energy attracts different people. We tend to want pleasures by other people for different reasons.
One big one is Fantasies. Maybe our other half does not want to try it or know your fantasies. If communication is there and if we truely share some fantasies I am sure that both Men and Women have some similiar desires and needs. Does this mean it is right or wrong? Does it mean one should act? Does it mean that one is not in love?
Only that person for that reason can answer it. I think it is just pleasure at that point and both parties should try and explore the pleasures in life together if all possible. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 11/19/2008 5:25:38 AM | | In the current world,its rear to fine real love and I mean real love. In most cases it normally begin with a lot of enthosiastic velocity but fades like melting oil and that is why married women are never satisfied in their marriage | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 11/19/2008 7:35:46 AM | | Of course you think it's fine emil because you are apparently "married". So now I understand why you keep saying people should just enjoy themselves. Does your wife know that you're on here and would she be happy to know what you write??? Bet she doesn't. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 11/19/2008 9:27:38 AM | I was contacted by a married woman looking for sex. I declined. Besides, she wanted her husband to watch!  | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 11/28/2008 2:15:20 PM | You need your marriage checked cause fooling around is only going to make the problem worst there is always devorce | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 11/28/2008 2:42:31 PM | What do I do? Nothing! Seldom do I respond to a profile unless she is a total 9 on the scale and lives within a reasonable distance. This eliminates 99% of the profiles.
Now, if I'm contacted by a married woman it depends upon the woman. If in fact I'm attracted to her picture(s) and she is in the immediate area most certainly I'll meet with her. This would be for the traditional iced tea and some conversations.
If she and I click and there is a physical attraction in addition to her seeming to be clean, discreet as well as interesting her marital status to me is not an issue. Married, single or if she is involved is really not a concern. What is a concern is to simply keep it fun, drama free as well as interesting.
This is the same criteria I use with non married women other then the discretionary factor.
It's equivalent to the Goose and the Gander. There are many single women involved with married men and many married women involved with single men and married involved with married etc. That is simply the way things are. Nothing to get rattled over.
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 11/28/2008 2:45:28 PM | Hey, go screw your brains out with someone other than your significant other.........guns kill both genders. Just because you and your SO think its okay, what if someone gets a fatal attraction and kills your spouse to be with you. Oh wait, I guess that only happens in the movies.......continue screwing.
I have a friend who is raising 4kids alone because her husband is in prison for killing her on the side screw which he agreed they could do but got pissed when feelings started becoming of it. Just because it is okay this week doesn't mean a month from now it will be. Guns kill people and love and emotions can make people do crazy things with out thinking very quickly. I would just hate to see anyone else lose so much for a piece of a$$. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 11/28/2008 3:18:55 PM | | Married men look for sex outside their marriages or relationships as well as women. Personally it's disgusting and it proves that the individual looking to cheat has serious personal issues within themselves. Rather than cheat and avoid their own personal issues they need to discuss them with a counselor. | |
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