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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 11/30/2008 4:43:23 AM | Married men look for sex outside their marriages or relationships as well as women. Personally it's disgusting and it proves that the individual looking to cheat has serious personal issues within themselves. Rather than cheat and avoid their own personal issues they need to discuss them with a counselor.
The world as are people is much more complected making simplistic condemnation inappropriate. I, like you at your age, looked at the world in stark black an white rather that via the prism of full spectrum of life experiences which now color my views.
I agree it is poignantly sad that relationship and life are not perfect....
Compatibility ability and desire do not always equate to parity satisfaction contentment or need.
There are just too many factors that can result in a situation where people choose or are relegated to going outside their primary relationship for fulfillment of some type. Not everyone that does so is bad or inconsiderate... in fact in some cases it could even be a kindness.
That being said yeah... some people are simply narcissistic and lack the moral compass required to show restraint but that is yet another broad stroke isn't it.
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 11/30/2008 5:11:06 AM | | Its a new world. Married men have been looking for sex, sometimes at the marriage reception, since men discovered rounds pegs fit round holes. Why shouldnt a woman look for a lustful relationship. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 11/30/2008 5:49:39 AM | | A couple of responses mentioned wedding vows......well, if you followed wedding vows, there wouldn't be divorce....TILL DEATH do you part. That doesnt mean, till he forgets to put the toilet seat down or she doesn't see things exactly as you do or sex is getting boring or sparatic. Many issues like sexual compatablity should be explored before you get married, not this date 6 weeks, get married, cheat or get divorced 6 weeks later. People spend more time picking out a car than a spouse. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 12/3/2008 1:02:47 PM | I forward the messages they send me to their boyfriends/husbands using methods I'd best not reveal publicly.
That should conclude that nonsense once and for all.
*returns to his "inbox" peacefully*
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 12/3/2008 1:12:19 PM | | A cheater is a cheater, if your that unhappy GET OUT!!!!! And don't lay the BS on me about having a family and blah blah blah.... | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 12/3/2008 1:29:05 PM | "I forward the messages they send me to their boyfriends/husbands using methods I'd best not reveal publicly."
Whats that old saying, two wrongs dont make a right? At least what they are doing isnt illegal. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 12/5/2008 9:17:18 AM | | It seems to be a big problem with woman they are not getting it at the house so while there husbands are out of town working or during ladies night out the woman get to drunk and cant control there urges my last 3 relationships have been with married woman theyre not looking for emotional love its all physical at least the ones i have met and theyare good liars a good indication they are married is they wont give you theyre # but to me it doesnt matter if they are married i do know they make great lovers! | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 12/5/2008 11:38:41 AM | hey im married and i would prefer a gal who is also married... it makes for both parties being discrete and you both don't want to waste any time, but getting right down to the fun stuff... oh and they can so wild and willing to do anything...yum, yum | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 12/6/2008 2:56:50 PM | It isn't right to judge anyone unless you truly understand their unique situation and the only way to do that is to have lived their life. Some of us would prefer to have all of our needs met at home but for whatever reason that isn't happening.
Just my 2 cents worth, do with it what you will. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 12/6/2008 3:08:25 PM | | It is soooo easy to pass judgment on others isn't it? Who made any of you an expert on anyone else's unique situation? | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 12/6/2008 10:23:33 PM | I think its HOTTT.......shows a Gal has a sex drive.....and is willing to take BIG RISK.....to do it!!!! Something very erotic and sexy there!!!! | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 12/8/2008 6:27:36 AM | im with u fully on that one i am married and yes im on here looking for sex dont feel guilty as i dont get it much at home but boy when ive had an encounter i feel great my husbands love is just love we all have needs sad but true so come on people if u dont like pass by its our lives if we muck up then our problems better than all these sad ones that have nothing better to do than post forums that dont relate to them  | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 12/22/2008 7:53:03 AM | Yes I agree that lots of Married women are looking for sex and aren't active with there husbands at all.
For me when A kid my father was in the Navey always gone to sea.
So this one night my mother meet this black women at the singles bar and somthing like 2 weeks latter my mother called her over for me to find my mother being striped naked by this black women.
And ones naked I seen her turn all differnt colors as I new it was her first time with another women.
But yes Married women do look for sex. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 12/31/2008 3:09:32 PM | | I am all for it.......they like to scratch where it itches; let them all run free I say! | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 12/31/2008 5:36:31 PM | Personally I think it's sad or they're cheap trash or both and they sicken me.
I feel the same way when I see some guy that's viewed my profile (i've chosen not to be contacted by married people) when I know they would contact me if they could. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 12/31/2008 5:53:45 PM | I feel the same way when I see some guy that's viewed my profile (i've chosen not to be contacted by married people) when I know they would contact me if they could.
ROFLMAO
Too Funny. I conduct searches by interests and view many profiles of both men and women. Some I contact and some I don't. I'm fairly confident that there are a number of married and unmarried people who have viewed profiles and have had no interest in contacting the person regardless of their "contact settings". It is interesting that you "know they would contact you if they could" and invites me to wonder if you are "psychic" or perhaps delusional in thinking you are omniscient, overly impressed with yourself, or something else.
Nothing personal, just uproariously funny.
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 12/31/2008 8:06:38 PM | | Wow, rather than the 2nd sentence you highlighted and responded to, I believe you're probably reacting moreso to my 1st sentence especially after having read your profile. LOL HAPPY NEW YEARS----DEAR! | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 1/5/2009 6:46:44 AM | No I dsagree with you there because perhaps that some married women just don't get sex at home or there sex life is just poor. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 1/5/2009 6:59:08 AM | I kinda like the words to this very old song
WHO'S MAKING LOVE Johnnie Taylor
All you fellows, gather 'round me And let me give you some good advice What I'm gonna, gonna ask you now You better think about it twice While you're out cheating on your woman There's something you never even thought of, and that is
Who's making love to your old lady While you were out making love [(hear me now] Who's making love to your old lady While you were out making love
I've seen so, so many fellows Fall in that same old bag Thinking that a woman is made to, To be beat on and treated so bad Oh, fellows, let me ask you something I'm sure that you never even dreamed of, [repeat chorus]
I know there are some women gives the other excuse I'm not tryin' to run your life, boy it's up to you Oh, you oh, you,
Reason why I ask this question I used to be the same old way When I decided to straighten up I found it was a bit too late Oh, that's when it all happened Something I never, never dreamed of
Somebody was-a lovin' my old lady While I was out making love Somebody was-a lovin' my old lady While I was out making love Now who's making love to your old lady While you were out making love | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 1/5/2009 12:25:40 PM | | There are many reason why married women as well as married men, seek something on the side. not my place to judge, the old adage applies...walk a mile in that person's shoes to understand why they do what they do. the only thing I would expect to see is that they exercise discretion. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 1/5/2009 12:38:56 PM | | Yep, I agree, it's sad. Not only sad for her, that she has to resort to a dating site (with or without her husband's consent) but sad for her husband who has lost interest. Never been married, so I dunno...maybe things fizzle out after a couple of years... | |
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