| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 4/26/2007 12:50:00 PM | I read your clarifying post...
Yep... French kissing is cheating !
Theres no other reason to kiss like that other than to get closer to the other person.
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 4/26/2007 12:56:05 PM | ^^Thank you for reading it! Lol...
The man I had the "argument" with, read this thread too..
He later recanted and admitted that it was in fact cheating, so the purpose of the thread was fulfilled :) | |
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 4/26/2007 2:55:30 PM | Of course I assume you mean, serious, make out kissing and if so yes.
A kiss on the cheek, no.
I feel this way because that type of kissing is something that is entering into the sexual areas of a relationship between two people...
I will see an old friend (male or female) and sometimes, I might kiss them on the cheek, I dont see anything wrong with that, its like a greeting usually with a friendly hug...
But if I was to randomly make out with someone knowing I had a S/O at home...
oh... yah... thats cheating... | |
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 4/26/2007 4:29:21 PM | That all depends, on the cheek - no
lips - a quick peck - no
full fledged vacum sucking and a slip of the tongue - Yeah! of course.
I have seen many people that are just friends kiss but it was a qiuck peck on the lips and that was it. What's wrong with that!
I have a loving aunt that all her friends she will either give a qick peck on the lips or cheek and my uncle has no prob with it because there relationship is stable enough. | |
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 4/27/2007 1:09:41 AM | I once had a boyfriend tell me thet receiving 'oral pleasure' is not cheating..because you are not touching the person. Yes..he is an EX boyfriend and a moron. After he told me this..I promptly told him that I had been receiving 'oral pleasure' from dozens of men. "But it's ok babe..it's not cheating, by your very own definition". Sheesh. There's some stooopid people out there.
And no..I wasn't cheating, I just HAD to see the look on his face.  | |
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 4/27/2007 1:30:57 AM | | YES kissing is cheating. to me any forum of touching that could lead to other things is cheating. kissing is a very intimate action its not as intimate as intercourse but its up there....thats my 2 cents | |
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 4/27/2007 1:52:55 AM | | Depends... If you are in a relationship then it sets boundaries that you (or your "other) should not cross. A friendly peck on the lips with an old non-romantic friend I think is ok. A kiss (on the lips) with an old flame/girlfriend/crush??? Definitely cheating!!! I know if I were in a relationship with a girl and saw or learned that she had kissed an old boyfriend or some random guy.. I'd dump her before she even had the chance to try to explain her way out of it. Is it cheating? In some contexts, YES! I, however, have some very close female friends (whom I feel NOTHING for) and we kiss each other on the cheek and it is absolutely harmless. | |
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 4/27/2007 2:43:04 AM | I would say that my idea of cheating is doing something that I wouldn't want my partner to see me doing with another person. A kiss is not always just the friendly kind you would give your grandmother, lol. | |
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 4/28/2007 2:56:23 PM | | Yes it is cheating..If you are with someone and their lips touch another women's other then your's, then YES it is cheating..It is in the category as in "Look but dont touch". .That is my opinion.. | |
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| Is kissing cheating...
Posted: 4/28/2007 4:19:00 PM | | Is kissing cheating? Does a bear s--t in the woods? Of course it's cheating! Unless you are giving a guy who is a platonic friend a peck and I mean just a peck on the old cheek, it is most definitely without a doubt 100% CHEATING. | |
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| Is kissing cheating...
Posted: 4/28/2007 5:52:36 PM | Kissing where? Is "kissing ash" or "sacking up" to one's boss or client cheating your SO?
Is kissing another woman's beautiful neck cheating? Her hand? The ground she walks on?
Merely curious! | |
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 4/28/2007 5:52:41 PM | Yes OP hon, it iz.
Though the cheating factor can be drastically increased. Depending on where their kissing the other person 2 :D
Though if U ask Bill Clinton. He will tell U that oral sex. Is not intercourse,  | |
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 5/16/2007 3:37:44 PM | | kissing hello to my!! children family close friends..is fine ..the rest its called cheating | |
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 5/30/2007 8:12:26 PM | depends, is this a kiss on the cheek or all out tongue war??
if it is kiss on the cheek... then no
if its an all out tongue war, then yes
reasons... tongue war = ' wanna go to a cheap motel room so i can make you beg for more?' | |
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 6/2/2007 3:02:40 PM | I think it's funny how all the people seem to agree on the affirmation that kissing means cheating. Even more funny when i see people trying to identify how location of the kiss or intent in mind brings you higher in the cheating ladder. Well i totally disagree.
I think this is not the good question because cheating's not about a kiss but about one hiding to the other the truth or not respecting the "lovin pact" that exist between them, the sacred bond.
Then cheating is when you break this bond. For ourselves, my sweet love and I, it is allowed to kiss and even more, but only under certains conditions which we posed after numerous longs interestings discussions, entendiendo claramente como se siente la pareja. The most important thing about it, is that we must tell the other about everything. No games, no hidding nothing.
For me the smallest desire burning in one's heart is cheating if hid from other half. It's not about a desire, a kiss, a long sensual massage, a beautiful night of passionate love with or without penetration or just even masturbation. Those could all be cheating or the expression of two humans beings sharing a very special and intimate moment from which they'll both grow.
Happy, deep and passionate kissing!  | |
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 6/2/2007 3:14:19 PM | ^^^ OP you have restored my faith in good looking 30 something young females !!!!
I had a girlfriend many moons ago who used to think it was OK to kiss, sit on laps and even a bit more and still not call it cheating!!!! Well, we are no longer friends!!!!
I used to have to get her out of so many scrapes and in the end I just felt it wasn't worth it.... plus there are so many people out there that judge one by one's friends!!!!
I don't have a problem kissing on the cheeks to greet friends of both sexes.... it's always a big hug and three!!!! | |
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 6/2/2007 3:21:05 PM | | Well if you are in a relationship with someone already then yes..... any form of sexual behaviour with another is cheating in my eyes...... after all isn't the kiss the begining? | |
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 6/2/2007 3:22:16 PM |  Kissing happnes use the poltican definition, that is if they touch me then it not cheating if I touch them then it is cheating. Bill Clinton created the legal definition, and its probadly cheating to most people. I think its cheating, but there are worse things people do like steal, or backstab a friend are more serious offenses. | |
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 6/2/2007 3:54:49 PM | Kissing where?
Sassy, you cannot be serious. You know the answer to this.
A peck on the cheek, OK.
A full-on tongue-in-mouth snog, nooo way.
Any other type of kissing, bye-bye.
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 6/2/2007 4:02:43 PM | | It's definately the kind of kiss. Just friends type or the kind that could lead to sex. | |
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| Is kissing cheating...?
Posted: 6/2/2007 5:23:10 PM | To scorpiomover and the others who are apparently confused.. I will repeat what I wrote on page 11 of this now unbelievably REDUNDANT thread:
Obviously you and MANY others haven't even read the original post..
I have said it numerous times throughout this thread.. but apparently it needs to be clarified on EVERY page... I THINK KISSING IS CHEATING!
I posted this thread because at the time I was corresponding with a man who had deluded himself into thinking that he didn't cheat because he ONLY kissed the girl.. (on the lips passionately for those who are wondering as to the context which was also covered on the first page)
I wanted him to see what I felt was an obvious truth.
was that clear enough?! Hopefully I don't have to repeat it
Unfortunately I DID have to repeat it..
Why won't this thread die???? | |
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