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 MissPriss

Joined: 10/30/2007
Msg: 226
How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 1/29/2008 10:18:11 AM
if you're with someone who doesn't climax after 30 minutes of oral, either ask her what else you can do for her, or take a break and come back to it...
 inthedoor

Joined: 12/17/2007
Msg: 227
How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 1/29/2008 10:26:23 AM
Has that ever happened, when a Woman hasn't climaxed after 30 minutes?
 disableddan

Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 228
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Posted: 1/29/2008 10:42:23 AM
Until she's bouncing around so much, I'm in danger of her clit breaking my nose... when she begs me to quit, or one of us has to go to work, otherwise ;)
 crmarie

Joined: 12/1/2005
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Posted: 1/29/2008 8:58:51 PM
Give me five minutes of foreplay and I will come in 2 or 3 minutes of oral. I like having my neck kissed and my breasts caressed. Let me get aroused first instead of just jumping in and licking. For me, sex is 75% mental and 25% physical. My mind is one of my main sexual organs.
 stallen

Joined: 5/16/2007
Msg: 230
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Posted: 1/30/2008 1:56:29 AM
For as long as she can handle and wants to move on to bigger and better acts.
 disableddan

Joined: 11/25/2007
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Posted: 1/31/2008 10:38:52 AM
Hell, Marie, a big part of the fun is kissing my way down to it.... why would anyone neglect the neck, breasts, and belly? Thats half the fun!
 sucks2besingle

Joined: 1/11/2008
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Posted: 1/31/2008 10:50:48 AM
If you are at it for more than 30 min with out several climaxes you should give it up buddy..... you are doing it wrong and eventually you are just going to p*ss her off.

Try switching it up a little.... Some oral, some nipple stimulation, a bit of intercourse and so on..... if you are doing it right there should be at least a 10 to one ratio for climax.

Learn this and they will keep coming back for more. The real trick is after several months of spoiling them in bed..... what do you do next to keep it interesting?
 Angelheart567

Joined: 1/20/2008
Msg: 233
How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 1/31/2008 12:23:53 PM
Op....YOU NEVER NEVER STOP UNTIL SHE LITERALLY PUSHES YOU OFF HER...if you do , you wont be able to save face and its game over...go it till she cant take it anymore...beleive me she will appreciate it
 DAU

Joined: 1/9/2008
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Posted: 1/31/2008 5:06:28 PM
nd hes not asking when is it ok to stop going down he is asking how long other ppl do. and while most guy say she gets off in 5-10 min the point of oral atleast for me is not how fast i can get her off its too see how long i can keep her just on the edge.---Swanner

I agree with Swanner. I have literally stayed down for hours just playing and teasing, up for a second to say "hi" and back again. As long as she is enjoying it I am loving it
 sumitotlyrandom

Joined: 1/28/2008
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Posted: 2/1/2008 3:02:43 PM
write there is no saving face sorry but i have got a pointer for ya if its taking time every know and then just play with her clit with ur thumb keeps her going but also sumtimes takes the intesity away so it keeps her going and when she does reach her climax she enjoys it more but dont try this if she is close cos she mite lose it and she wont be happy lol
 roddw

Joined: 1/7/2008
Msg: 236
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Posted: 2/1/2008 3:06:11 PM
if you have other plans that evening you can go for the record but if your having a nice intemate evening with your partner, go slow and drag it out but not to the point of annoyance.
 chivaltree

Joined: 4/18/2007
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Posted: 2/2/2008 6:29:14 AM
30 and 45 mins seems too long. My experience is normally 5-15 minutes she is cuming and normally has the second or third one shortly after. If she hasn't cum in 15 minutes I would be fingering her and doing other stimulation to get her to the point of no return.
 FreeAnEasy

Joined: 12/10/2007
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Posted: 2/4/2008 1:11:40 PM
Keep giving her head until she says no more. Practice make perfect and will strengthen your muscles and stop the cramping and hurting Usually after the third time your lady cums, she will say that was great ... that is what you are looking for ... satisfy you playmate. Freeaneasy
 10fingers

Joined: 12/14/2007
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Posted: 2/4/2008 3:07:19 PM
Man...if you go until you cramp...then she should obviously have reached a point where you can ask for a massage afterwards. If she says no...then make sure she has a good time...once.
 fouthempire

Joined: 9/30/2007
Msg: 240
How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 2/4/2008 5:31:52 PM
I always thought you were suppose to stay down their till your lips got chapped .
 sandra19

Joined: 9/30/2007
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Posted: 2/4/2008 9:56:11 PM
the longer the better ..if u get tired suck it up ..its not our fault that u guys dont last long enough for us to get tired when we get down ;) LOl
 Emeraldbug

Joined: 6/28/2007
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Posted: 2/5/2008 12:07:02 AM
It really depends on her. Ive seen everything from her getting off in 3 minutes to taking an hour. Depends on her mood, your tecnique, lots of things. Mostly it is communicating and knowing what she wants, and what makes her stimulated. Just think of it in reverse--if you wanted it for an hour--would you want her to do it? Yeah, i thought to--so you let her take as long as she wants.
 Christopher93

Joined: 7/19/2007
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Posted: 2/5/2008 12:51:38 AM
"If a gentleman performs oral on a lady, how long should one be expected to perform?"

I say at *least* two orgasms, maybe three.

If you're having problems with your neck cramping, you're probably doing it in a terrible position.

Put a pillow or two under her hips and her shoulders.

This brings her hips up off the bed/floor/kitchen counter/couch/pool table a few inches so that you can perform cunnilingus with your neck vertebrae in a low-stress, neutral position.

This is also better for your tongue, because when it starts to get tired, you can hold a piece of it between your teeth and use your neck muscles (which aren't cramping thanks to this new, ergonomically-correct position) to do the working for a while.

What I've also found works is to bring her hips to the edge of the bed. You're on your knees on the floor with her thighs on your shoulders. This gives you a ton more range-of-motion to work with with regards in to your neck, and your lady-friend will approve of this added benefit, I'm sure.

Also, vary your pace, man! You shouldn't be going HARD-HARD-HARD all the time. That'll burn you out for sure.

Work with strategic pauses, gentle brushings, soft pressure, slow long licks. Don't sprint to the finish line when you can take her by the hand for a leisurely walk. Warm her up slow. She should be on the shaky edge of orgasmic apocalypse before you put in the hard effort.

- Christopher93
 yepimlonelytoo

Joined: 10/18/2007
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Posted: 2/5/2008 3:17:26 AM
no time limit., but 30 minutes is forever! After orgasm, it gets pretty sensitive down there. "HOLD ON---I NEED A FEW MINUTES!!" ha
I like to mix it up, so 5 minutes or so is good for me, then on to something else, then maybe back 5 more minutes? I'll push him off when I've had enough anyway.
 zippi005

Joined: 4/25/2006
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Posted: 2/6/2008 5:52:21 PM
There is no time limit,it is suppose to be performed till the woman become so excitedand very wet
 meba342

Joined: 8/25/2007
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Posted: 2/6/2008 6:09:31 PM
I like starting out with a lot of gentle kisses...on the neck, down the back...other places as well. Talk to her. Try telling her what you are thinking about, how beautiful she is, how wonderful she smells, what you are going to do to her. Whisper these things in her ear while you are running your fingertips gently up and down her bod. If you build up to the act then by the time your mouth is actually on her half the battle (or more) is won. I have seen it take 30 minutes or longer as well, and am very happy to oblige, but not usually. Give yourself a running start. My 2 cents.
 Anazdaddy

Joined: 7/12/2007
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Posted: 2/6/2008 8:27:55 PM
I enjoy this so very much..so as long as she wants, be it 5 mins or an hour. There is a lot more to doing this than just tongue flicking, so a healthy guy should not get tired in less than 45-60 mins :)
 Boricua Papi

Joined: 10/8/2007
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Posted: 3/9/2008 3:07:47 PM
Have you eaten a big mac, and 4 ounces of fries? How long does it takes you to eat this? Now try to eat the same thing for an hour!
 x0_taralynn_0x

Joined: 5/15/2006
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Posted: 3/9/2008 7:36:17 PM
I once went down on a girl for about three days, but we would switch back and forth, and I think at one point we managed to order pizza. I guess I just get to involved to watch the clock, but I think about half the night is good, or at least an hour in the mornings. Although I have been known to be late to work alot.

If a girl is going down on me or I on her I would plan for at least an hour.

Tara
 chavalita

Joined: 11/9/2006
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Posted: 3/9/2008 8:42:23 PM
How long? Uh.....as long as it takes!!! Practice makes perfect afterall.....and you can see a massage therapist for those aching jaws.
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