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 deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006
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Posted: 4/30/2008 12:57:01 PM
till your ears bleed so much you pass out...or she screams NO MORE
 allshookup98

Joined: 4/22/2006
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Posted: 5/6/2008 9:06:46 PM
ok Ive had a few beers so shouldnt probably say this......... but.woman love it. and the secret to it is.......... a man is only good at it ....if he loves it..I'm sure most women will agree with what soulmate08 said about this.

I can use all five senses when I do this and I love it.

When you hear someone say ya gotta give to get ladies know exactly what that kind of person loves and it sure isn't giving..
 alovesinger

Joined: 4/21/2008
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Posted: 5/6/2008 9:34:35 PM
I lose track of time, but I find that if I trace out the lyrics to Hotel California everyone is pleased.
 custis

Joined: 3/16/2005
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Posted: 5/6/2008 9:39:04 PM
A woman generally lets you know when she is ready to move on to bigger and stiffer things.
 daizonjerome

Joined: 9/12/2006
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Posted: 5/6/2008 10:06:07 PM

DON'T change it up when she's getting close. DON'T change anything if she's just about to climax, because if you do then she's back to square one- or worse- a feeble, unsatisfying sneeze of an orgasm.


I agree with Isabel here. Also, instead of just flicking her clit with your tongue, try and sucking on her clit too, and fingering her GSpot while you lick her clit - this may get her to orgasm faster thereby relieving your discomfort.

Now, here's the Catch-22. If you put a pillow under her ass, it will save your neck, but cause your wrist to hurt as you finger her. On the other hand, no pillow under her ass will help our wrists and hurt your neck.
 6irlfriend

Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 281
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Posted: 5/7/2008 4:26:13 AM
No pain, no gain

Ok seriously-- you just haven't learned yet how to make her cum so hard where she wants and needs you to stop to calm down. Geeeeze. I'd think it'd be annoying to go that long without being able to climax. Doesn't she feel raw afterwards!!
 mostwanted2000

Joined: 4/29/2008
Msg: 282
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Posted: 5/7/2008 7:13:07 AM
He does not have to feel like his neck is going into traction! I want to get to the good stuff! I love hard c*ck and getting it slammed in me. So 10 mins .is fine with me.
 Badboy65260

Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 283
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Posted: 5/7/2008 7:27:23 AM
Hell, Cunnilingus is my favorite part of sex...next to kissing/fondling....I like a woman to return the favor don't get me wrong, love that...especially when a woman does it out of the blue, spontaneous ya know...you and her are sitting around the house watching a movie or whatever, and she starts kissing me, and goes down..Mmmmm I like spontaneity in a woman, plus I love going down on a woman while she is asleep and her making the moans and sweet little noises until she wakes up...but hey, thats just me
 heydad56

Joined: 9/14/2007
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Posted: 5/7/2008 12:15:21 PM
Jasminekai - I love you!I love you! I love you!
 dana40000

Joined: 4/8/2008
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Posted: 5/7/2008 2:06:57 PM
If she tells you don't stop, then for god sakes man, don't stop! And if it's too much for you, get out of the "kitchen" and into the gym. They must have weight machines for that.
 LookingForAnother

Joined: 4/21/2007
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Posted: 5/7/2008 2:46:03 PM
Well, speaking from personal experience...I can take a long time, but really, it's all about technique. Don't expect the guy to know everything, every woman works differently. If you want a surefire solution, ASK her what SHE likes...and girls, don't be afraid to tell him what works for you...saves everyone the time and hassle of guessing!
 Namats III

Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 5/7/2008 3:13:07 PM
I rarely get the chance to do it till my tongue gets tired...
but I just Love to make her M o a n...!!!
She also knows that all she needs to do .. to get some , is say . .
*Wanna??!*
. . . .
 RetiringIn5yrs

Joined: 12/20/2007
Msg: 288
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Posted: 5/7/2008 6:59:02 PM
As long as it takes to Please her.
 INTOART

Joined: 3/12/2008
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Posted: 5/13/2008 11:12:07 AM
That sounds about right.
 bikerman7518

Joined: 4/26/2008
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Posted: 5/16/2008 4:29:26 AM
all I can say is I wish I had GILLS
 smilestyle

Joined: 3/8/2007
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Posted: 5/16/2008 8:06:47 AM
With some men in the past, I wouldn't come at all no matter what. It's in my mind. I have to feel him in my heart and body.

As far as cunnilingus? It's very personal to some women. With the very few men I have had easy O's, I usually work my mind up to it and it can take max 10 minutes or less. If he knows what he is doing and follows my breathing patterns, he can drag it out.

30 min or 45 is too long imo. Unless it's her first time letting go with you.
 njinthehouse

Joined: 4/16/2008
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Posted: 5/16/2008 8:41:11 AM
Neve rhad that problem....I cum easily
 smilestyle

Joined: 3/8/2007
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Posted: 5/16/2008 10:54:00 PM
^^^ Ok, great, however we are answering a question about time.....(does easily mean instantly?) I had a friend who claimed she orgasmed 15 times a night... then she got a divorce, dated another man and experienced a real orgasm.


Last night it took me 5 minutes after some foreplay.

Hadn't had it for a while.... usually under 10 minutes though. Again, with the right state of mind and I am really thinking his technique as well. Not that I don't contribute and give tips, if you will.

I love hearing on this forum how much men love to do this. Some men are so (can't think of the word).... dreamy.
 azgirl72

Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 5/16/2008 11:04:22 PM
I think there is no general rule to how long to go with oral sex. It can depend on a lot of circumstances and what feels right. Personally I go with the flow and if I flow is right it is so much better for my partner. Sex in general is give and take so give what you are willing to take in return.
 MissouraBelle22

Joined: 5/4/2008
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Posted: 5/17/2008 10:27:08 PM
It's good stuff but I'd say 10 min is pretty good. I don't do any of that 2 or 3 hr stuff.
 Landscaper

Joined: 7/9/2007
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Posted: 5/17/2008 10:42:51 PM
if it takes a few hours, so be it, you can take breaks and not quit everything, there are other parts you can give attention and still keep her purring, then when ready begin again, neck cramps are a real issue over an extended time,
 MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004
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Posted: 5/17/2008 10:46:36 PM
With me I don't put a time limit on it. I think it is up to the guy performing it. When he stops I have never said keep going. I guy can quit gracefully with me at any point and not lose face.
 johnny7103

Joined: 4/1/2008
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Posted: 5/17/2008 11:00:10 PM
If you ever get a fart while giving it to her it means its quitting time.
 Naamah

Joined: 11/22/2007
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Posted: 5/18/2008 7:10:13 AM

How long for cunnilingus? Is there an appropriate time...

Time ...... stops.
Or at least ceases to exist.
*sigh*

Messages this short and overwhelmingly self-indulgent may not be posted.
 StrayKatt

Joined: 6/27/2007
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Posted: 5/18/2008 8:13:15 AM
OP - Try getting her on top with your head on a pillow. That way she's in a position to guide the action and can let you know where to focus your attentions non-verbally.
You could also give your tongue a rest occasionally changing up to use a toy, your hands, or using your nose to rub her clit.

Damn! Now my tongue itches and there's nowhere to scratch it at the moment.
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