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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 7/21/2008 1:25:17 PM | I'd say that when your lips are cracking, your tongue is raw, you can't move your jaw, your neck is cramping, and you can't feel your arms; that she has had plenty.  | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 7/25/2008 2:45:41 AM | 20 minutes x3 is good for an evening ...maybe....or don't be
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 7/25/2008 3:34:48 AM | Now now neonmitch, dont be greedy, give it to her as long as she wants!
It does not matter what women here tell you, only matters what your lady wants, so go to the gym and exercise your neckmuscles then!!! | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 7/26/2008 5:19:52 PM | For every woman it is different, and that's the fun!
Get to know her senses, and get to know them well. Listen to her breathing and moaning, feel her movements, the heat coming from her body. Most of all, experiment! Vary your techniques: go down on her for a minutes, then use just fingers, then tongue and fingers, then slight penetration: only let the head go in and pull back out(slowly) and go down on her again. Great for building tension.
This is just one technique. She really enjoyed it, which in turn made me enjoy it too. Communicate with her, let her know what you'd like to try(not in full detail, this is not an itinerary) and encourage her to provide input even during. If you enjoy it, let her know. Chances are good if she knows you enjoy(and prove it through actions) that knowledge alone will be arousing.
Bottom line is communicate and experiment. Do things right and you'll have to either peel her off the ceiling, or she will be threatening you with death if she doesn't get actual sex  | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 7/26/2008 5:54:46 PM | I realize this is an old thread, but really...what kind of question IS this? The answer is elemental, if you're any kind of considerate lover: however long she wants it! I don't have a stopwatch during it, but I certainly never tire out. And it she's on her 20th orgasm, so much the better. She'll let you know when you're done; just hope she doesn't give you the tap in a couple of minutes. You're doing something wrong, in that case..
Also, if you don't like being prone, lay on your back; a nice position to be in, gives her the freedom to position as she likes, with the pressure she wants...personally, it's my favorite. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 9/2/2008 7:32:39 PM | Personally and this may be rare, but I would rather give than receive. If a man can handle a few good hours of oral then more power to him! Its something I enjoy doing and I am surprised more women dont do it. Just remember guys: PINEAPPLE JUICE and a clean wanker does the trick lmao, plus keepin it trimmed! Thats the best way to get your lady to enjoy herself down there. :)
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 9/3/2008 1:21:13 AM | | I'm sure somebody has said this in the last 14 pages, but if you've been going down on her for 30 minutes and she still hasn't gotten off, you might be doing something wrong. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 9/3/2008 1:28:57 AM | Just tell her you have TMJ - the great female excuse - and you can stop after 1 minute. :P
Ok, I don't support NOT going down on women. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 9/3/2008 7:46:25 AM | | i like to go till i make her cum and she has to push me off... Love it when she holds my head there and locks my face there with her leg. Personally, do it as long as you would like in return... | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 9/3/2008 8:03:07 AM | | Do it until she moans uncontrollably and you taste something sweet in your mouth. If it's not sweet, but metallic, then you need to go wash your face IMMEDIATELY!! I find that if the bed is pushed into the corner, they tend to climb the wall. Guys, if you haven't figured it out yet, there is a little button that you have to pay special attention to. JUST FOCUS ON THE BUTTON!! No female takes pleasure in having a man's tongue completely in her vagina. Save the penetration for your penis. You should stay down there until your upper lip starts to lose sensation from all the sucking and tickling with your tongue. Once you feel that you have pulled all of the blood in her body into her clitoris, I would say it's safe to stop. Once you have reached that point, politely whisper in her ear,"Baby, could you please flip for me?. Once she does that start to do your thing. Pay close attention to the sheets. Are they all bunched up in her hands from gripping them? Are her knuckles white from clenching her fists around the very sheets that you both lie on? Continue on in this position until she says your name at least 5 times. On the 5th time you hear your name, flip her back to missionary. Stay in that position until you hear GOD's name 5 times and then bend her over the dresser. Continue there until she begins to shake and tremble uncontrollably. Notice all the pictures of mom and dad rattling around on the dresser? Once you see the small of her back arch up toward the ceiling, slap her on the ass one good time and tell her shes beautiful. If she hasn't climaxed at least 15 times, you are doing something wrong, and I can't help you anymore than I already have. Best of luck! | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 9/3/2008 8:27:36 AM | Ha! Quite when your ready my friend. She will survive if you stop when your exhausted. Feed her something else...
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 9/3/2008 10:03:40 AM | If a gentleman performs oral on a lady, how long should one be expected to perform? I understand there's a natural end when the lady orgasms once or several times or reaches exhaustion, etc., but what if she doesn't climax but keeps telling you "it feels good don't stop". I find my cheek/tongue muscles start cramping after 30 mins, and my neck starts to hurt after 45 min. Is there an appropriate time after which a gentleman can quit gracefully without losing face?
I think 30 minutes would be a decent time period for a man to not lose face, so to speak. This is with or without orgasm. No woman is gonna blow you for 30+ minutes, so fair is fair afterall. My average is anywhere from 5 minutes to 45 minutes roughly.
Sometimes a woman is just less sensitive than others. I've been with women who would go off like firecrackers within minutes, and others (thankfully few) that just didn't get "there" even after an hour or better, but enjoyed the ride nonetheless. Naturally, I prefer the 5 minute firecrackers 
For a man such as myself, who loves giving face, it's a hit or miss situation most times. So far, I have only been involved with ONE woman who could just keep going, O after O after O. The rest have all tapped out after their first. Mind numbing, knee knocking, head squishing orgasms and then they push back on my head telling me it's too sensitive now. It can get frustrating for a guy like me, who enjoys it as I do, but nothing I can do about it. Usually I just play with her a bit elsewhere while she cools down, then go after round two/three/etc. Occasionally, I make a night outta just givin' face and really, little else. It's fun to watch them squirm and writhe at your touch, and almost on command heh.
Of the ones that can't seem to get "there" at all, I know it ain't me. She's just not as sensitive as she may have thought, or is so tensed up about it that she can't relax and enjoy the moment. For those types, I usually resign after about 30-45 minutes as some others have suggested.
But if she can go...man oh man, I could do that all night and be quite happy.
It's hit or miss for us. If you find a good one, make the most of it and never miss an opportunity.
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 9/3/2008 11:28:17 AM | | If cunninlingus becomes kinda-long-us, become a cunning linguist and ask for advice. A true lady should be impressed you are comfortable enough to ask. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 9/3/2008 11:53:32 AM | I find my cheek/tongue muscles start cramping after 30 mins
In the off seasons I chew bubble gum to stay in shape. Most professional tongue surfers (like myself) never commit to a time constraint or working on a stop watch on any given mission.When it comes to delivering satisfaction guaranteed I throw my whole body and soul in to my work. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 9/3/2008 2:32:36 PM | I take a break each time she says she is too sensitive after she cums
when she says she just cant take another orgasum and covers her sex with her hand... I take a long break (20 minutes) then... after exciting her with my fingers a bit....
start again | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 9/3/2008 4:38:50 PM |
and covers her sex with her hand...
So...sex is no longer an action, it's an object?
The craziest things we get to learn on forums... | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 9/4/2008 12:40:52 AM | Does it REALLY matter when your having FUN?????
get some liquor in me and I can get at it all night long!! YUMMY!! | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 9/4/2008 4:35:43 PM | Well, I had a girlfriend for 6 years and I know about this. Let me tell you this: it's important to use good body mechanics no matter what you're doing. I once got a cramp in my neck that took about a week to clear up. I almost couldn't get out of bed in the morning.
One of the great things about being with another woman is that neither of us ever complained about how long it took. However, I admit there can be some physical challenges. First of all, it's okay to take breaks. For some of us, it will work better anyway if there are periodic breaks. Besides that, periodically change what you're doing and how you're doing it. If your tongue is getting tired, use your lips for awhile. If you're creative and into what you're doing, you can think of different things to do. You can also periodically use your hand. Make sure you're positioned comfortably and don't be afraid to reposition yourself.
My ex husband would complain about how long I took and the first time I apologized to my GF about it, she replied with a smile, "I don't care how long you take. You can enjoy yourself for as long as you want." Now, that's the kind of lover I want! | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 9/4/2008 9:21:12 PM | It would depend on the man or the woman.
Personally, I could literally do it all day long. I love doing it and I love to do all I can to please the woman that I am with. I guess it is really a matter of personal preference. I think the more someone enjoys it, the more they want to do it!
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 9/12/2008 10:08:44 PM | | Gypsy Queen is right. Thirty minutes times 3, or four, or five. Anything longer than thirty minutes at one time can overstimulate sensitive areas. Besides, you may want to breath every now and then, have a beer, something to eat, etc. And your poor neck cramping up... A great solution to that, and one of my favorites, is the woman on top. Not 69, but the other way, so she can control the action for her pleasure. That's what it's all about, her pleasure. | |
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