| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/30/2007 4:08:52 AM | | 3-10 minutes seems to be the consenses. I agree with the posters who say any longer than that tends to get uncomfortable, especially if you already had an O. I don't think it should take 30 minutes. I don't want someone down there that long. Too many other things to be doing | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/30/2007 6:29:44 AM | | Until the fat lady sings (I live in the US, we don't have slim women here so...). Girl above musta photoshopped her pics, or just moved here, so don't use her against my remarks. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/30/2007 7:31:52 AM | | Its all about getting her right to the edge and then slowing down just enough to keep her there, i love it when she does it to me. Once her thighs release their death grip on my head i know its time for other things. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/30/2007 7:47:02 AM | | I would have to say 15 minutes for openers, longer if required. Here's a link to instructions http://content.libida.com/tips/page.aspx?id=4f720d71-2f86-4845-971f-76150638e54f | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/30/2007 9:59:35 AM | | My personal best is about 3 hours.... My tongue was killing lol.She had many, many, many O's. So I'd have to say anything more than that---- She's just getting greedy!!!! | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/31/2007 8:21:49 AM | wow, I mean wow...
I have to say, my last girlfriend, I found the spot.. literally.
When it comes to performing oral, it really goes back to how well you know anatomy, and your lover. I discovered that women have all these erogenous zones and you just have to know how to stimulate the ones of the woman you are with.
I found out that even though I could get her near the edge in short order with just a little stimulation, I found I needed to actually use my fingers and do direct g-spot stimulation.. and that would make an absolute mess.
Then I discovered with G-spot stimulation... I could make her get her cookies within minutes.. and I could string them along...one after another..
So all in all, it is a preference thing, but in addition, you must know your partner and be able to read her reactions and pursue those moans, and jerks as a step in the right direction...
which would actually lead to a question:
mutual masturbation, how do you feel about your man, sitting behind, head on your shoulder, kissing your neck, but providing direct stimulation of your g-spot.... That seemed like that was even more a clear winner.. minus the copious amounts of fluids produced..., or was the first prize?
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/31/2007 2:14:15 PM | well isn't it all about exploration and satisfaction... switch it around...enjoy the pleasures of each other and come back downtown after a while..
Make sure that you inform her that this is why you want to do this... since she seems to be lacking insight just a touch.... longing makes heart grow fonder.... satisfaction can be reached in different venues... | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/31/2007 2:21:51 PM | Never been pushed off by my woman, but I say, can't get enough of that sugar crisp...sugar crisp.....
Ofcourse I dated a woman who hated oral sex and I really didnt realize how much, and I do mean how much I love oral sex (both giving it and receiving it) until that relationship.
Never underestimate how much sex plays a role in a lasting relationship. It also funny to note how many women I tell this story too, and they find it incredulous that there's women out there who dont like receiving oral sex.
Now its a foregone conclusion for me to bring it up in conversation before we even get to first base....no sense going any further unless we are compatible. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/31/2007 2:37:06 PM | | I stop after she makes me blackout from the lack of oxygen after she clamps down on my face with her thighs. Either that or when she pops 3 neck bones or breaks off a few fingernails in my scalp. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/31/2007 3:10:06 PM |
Hell, I'd be most eager to please her down there.. no matter how long it took! What the hell's your problem, dude!! Lol! Here Here, I couldn't agree more. That or until she says she's had enough and it's time to move on. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/31/2007 4:18:27 PM | you're doing it wrong. pay attention to her clitoris, caress it, flick it side to side with your tongue. put two digits inside her if allowed and caress the inner wall of her vagina. make her enjoy the sensation by making appropriate noises that you love the taste of her. find the g-spot, tease it and also tease her clitoris at the same time.
make her feel special, communicate :) | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/31/2007 7:28:03 PM | Depends on the girl, I think.
If she's the type who O's early, you could give her her O and resume fooling around in other ways until she's ready for you to "dive in" again.
If she's the type who takes a half hour, then get comfortable, because you should stick to it as long as it takes, even if your neck is killing you.
Some women don't O easily; others don't AT ALL. If one of these gals isn't getting there, but likes what you're doing, I'd say give it an hour then ask for a break (if she's nice, she'll take a turn while YOU relax, and after YOUR O, you can get back to work and trade off that way).
But I think an hour at a time is a reasonable limit. You can go all night, really, as long as she lets you take a break and rest a bit... Oral's the best possible approach to sex IMHO. It's "Old reliable". | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/31/2007 8:20:38 PM | | You should use some other forplay until she is getting close and then you won't have to be down there so long and both of you will be more satisfied.(sorry just had to tell) | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/31/2007 8:52:36 PM | | Dont think there is a specific time limit on it. I find that if you have her put a pillow under her it helps with the sore neck. Or you can try having her on the side of the bed and you on your knees on the floor. Both work well and I can ussually go about 1 1/2 hours before my neck gets a little sore. Thats ussually when I try to see if she has had enough.....hee hee otherwise I just keep going till she makes me stop. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/31/2007 9:09:56 PM | | neon, It depends on how long I can hold my breath before she lets me come up for air. I do agree for mixing it up w/ other versions of foreplay, but I so enjoy 'savoring her flavor ...and as long as she keeps putting quarters in my ear, there is no time limit for her riding this ride. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/31/2007 9:20:45 PM | "Until the fat lady sings (I live in the US, we don't have slim women here so...). "-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Nothing wrong with a fat lady. You haven't lived until you've had a big lady's legs clamped around your head. Try it. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/31/2007 9:32:21 PM | Yes I would say technique. Exsperiment with different things and keep trying until she lets you know what feels good. She has to be open with you and let you know it feels good or not. I dont mean to get into details but also using a finger helps or a device you buy at a store, lol! You know what I mean.
If you keep trying different techniques something will please her and then you remember it for next time.
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/31/2007 10:58:41 PM | Maybe you need lessons? You obviously don't seem to be able to please her. If I were you I would quit while "I was a head".
Just be honest and tell her it is difficult to continue. Try another position. Ask her what else you could try. Or, try again later. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 1/1/2008 7:39:41 AM | OP, I've never had that problem. She always reaches the "natural end". Have you thought about refining your technique?  | |
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| How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 1/1/2008 8:23:44 AM | | Damn! I have never heard of a woman or man not loving oral! Amazing! You learn something new everyday! | |
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