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 chef84
Joined: 11/19/2006
Msg: 26
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too young? I know this one guy who didn't lose his verginty till 32. so what would your girls reaction be, if you were in a relationship for 4 months. everything is going to great. That's when you decide to take it to the next step. are you going to ditch him just cause he's a vergin? anyway who says a vergin can't be as good at oral then an experienced guy.
 Zain.
Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 27
Is a virgin male turn-off for you? Or a turn-on?
Posted: 11/30/2006 10:09:25 AM
"Turn off - 'cause he would simply be way too young for me!!!!"

Understandable, but suppose you were younger in late teens or 20s and you met a virgin would it still bother you then? Obviously they're alot of virgins out there because we have so many threads about the subject As long as they are willing to please and learn what's the problem :)
 angelbabygurl87
Joined: 11/25/2006
Msg: 28
Is a virgin male turn-off for you? Or a turn-on?
Posted: 11/30/2006 10:52:53 AM

And why does not being a virgin make someone better in bed.


this dont mean a thing ^^^, just because someone is not a virgin dont mean to say hes better in bed, i was with someone that had been doing it for years, and he was no better after however long it was then he was the first time he ever did anything. either he was with people who didnt have a clue, or he just didnt have a clue himself. whatever the case may be, this makes no difference. and i think virgins are a turn on. you know its only been you they've been with, and you can teach them what you like, and learn what they like, and we're all happy.
 AcesDJD
Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 29
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Is a virgin male turn-off for you? Or a turn-on?
Posted: 11/30/2006 11:21:32 AM
I really can't speak for women here, I haven't had any conversations with them on the subject, but I'll throw my two cents in here and see what women say about it.

I think the view which women may be reticent in admitting is that men tend to like sex more than women, and that unless a man is very religious (which could be its own issue) he is more likely to be a virgin out of undesirability rather than waiting for the right person, even if that happens to be the case.

I don't even think women think of the fact that men could get a prostitute to get rid of the "stigma". I have a coworker who visits prostitutes a lot and I was telling a female coworker about it (without revealing his identity of course) and she was shocked that someone would actually be doing such a thing and she doesn't seem to be particularly prudish.

Best thing is don't worry about it, and no need to bring it up early on in any budding relationship. I would be honest if asked though. People make such a big deal about sex, maybe I just haven't had the right kind, but I honestly think its overrated. I could have a prostitute in about five minutes if I wanted one, and Aids is still pretty much unheard of of in the country I'm in, but in the end I've been without for the last ten months now because sex is just a component of what's important in a relationship, not the end all.
 niceiowaguy
Joined: 12/10/2005
Msg: 30
Is a virgin male turn-off for you? Or a turn-on?
Posted: 11/30/2006 11:31:27 AM
I think guy needs to loose his virgin when he is young before he reaches the age of 20!
 QuackQuack64
Joined: 11/23/2006
Msg: 31
Is a virgin male turn-off for you? Or a turn-on?
Posted: 11/30/2006 11:34:45 AM
At this stage in my life I wouldn't be with a man who's a virgin. It would make me wonder why a man oveer 40 is a virgin. I want a guy who knows what he's doing. Mind you just because a man isn't a virgin doesn't mean he knows what he's doing.
 jon_k
Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 32
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Is a virgin male turn-off for you? Or a turn-on?
Posted: 11/30/2006 12:06:44 PM
ya just because a guy has not yet had sex doesn't mean he isn't experienced in other forms of pleasure, i am very experienced when it comes to oral.
 CoffeeAddict07
Joined: 11/15/2006
Msg: 33
Is a virgin male turn-off for you? Or a turn-on?
Posted: 11/30/2006 12:16:00 PM
lol turn off, why is he still a virgin?? is something wrong with him??
 Zain.
Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 34
Is a virgin male turn-off for you? Or a turn-on?
Posted: 11/30/2006 1:59:18 PM
"lol turn off, why is he still a virgin?? is something wrong with him??"

This response is proof that blondes aren't stupid. Stupid people come in all different hair colors
 6thFinger
Joined: 11/26/2006
Msg: 35
Is a virgin male turn-off for you? Or a turn-on?
Posted: 12/5/2006 7:30:44 AM
Leeanne, what if you actually found a nice guy your age who was still a virgin? What would you think then? Would you be willing to teach if he was willing to learn anything and use it any way you wanted?
 Optima_Prima
Joined: 7/31/2006
Msg: 36
Is a virgin male turn-off for you? Or a turn-on?
Posted: 12/5/2006 8:14:02 AM
shyguy24x7, according to many 40 or 50-plus themed pornographic magazines I have read, there are lots of older women of great sexual appetite living on every suburban street-corner, just waiting for an inexperienced young gentleman like yourself. My recommendation: Get a job as a UPS man, an electrician, or some other in-home-service-person, and try to get in on all the over-40 lady action you can. (No offense meant towards any women over forty who would not enjoy the virgin meat, but I hear that many do.)

Aside from all that, some women will view it as a turn-on, some will view it as a turn-off, and some will not really care either way. There are just too many opinions and people in the world for you to get one, true, correct answer to your question.
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