| No sex drive :( HELP!
Posted: 11/26/2006 3:26:32 PM | Hi.
I was in EXACTLY the same position with my now ex boyfriend. I was *always* up for it but he was only interested once a week.
I eventually confronted him. He wasnt cheating. He just didnt want to be with me. No sexual attraction. I pissed him off. He hated spending time with me.
He left me a week later.
Its not the best feeling in the world.
I suggest dont put too much pressure on him. He is probably stressed/depressed/tired or something. Try and make him feel good about himself. Do something different.
Good luck - I hope things work out better for you than they did for me. | |
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| No sex drive :( HELP!
Posted: 11/26/2006 4:19:05 PM | | have you tried wearing high heels all the time around him... I think some men have a thing for heels... hense shy hookers and strippers wear them.. Or how about letting him catch you masturbating and calling out his name... | |
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| No sex drive :( HELP!
Posted: 11/29/2006 11:25:55 AM | | Unbelievable ....other than this topic has been done to death....is this something new? Or has he always been like this? If it is the latter look up "asexual" He's just not in to you...or anyone else for that matter!!!!! | |
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Joined: 8/1/2006
Msg: 30 | |
| No sex drive :( HELP!
Posted: 1/26/2007 11:18:07 AM | i'm personally always up sex anytime of the day.who doesn' like a good morning bj?  | |
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| No sex drive :( HELP!
Posted: 1/26/2007 11:27:09 AM | "i'm personally always up sex anytime of the day.who doesn' like a good morning bj?"
Anyone who's only 'up for it', once a week (the theme of this thread), as that's wasteful.
OP, seems likely he's not that into you, or he's stressed.
Either way, your pushing for more, is also, pushing him away. Focus on getting him into counselling, if much more than once weekly used to be his norm. | |
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| No sex drive :( HELP!
Posted: 6/20/2007 8:40:48 PM | | i have this problem too, i noticed it changes, when he is more active he wants sex more when he doesnt get out much he seems to get lazy , even if i offer to do all the work he doesnt care, i doubt he is cheating on you, some people just dont want sex that much, it sucks | |
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zeb61
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Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 33 | |
| No sex drive :( HELP!
Posted: 6/21/2007 6:27:19 AM | | have you tried wearing sexy stuff like sispenders nad that or when you go out let him get a glimpde that you have no underwear on and see wht happens. that would send most men into orbit and beyhond. try taht and it should help | |
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| No sex drive :( HELP!
Posted: 12/6/2007 12:50:24 AM | It could be stress, depression, or simply you're married and its become a chore.
Marriage lowers testosterone - it evolutionarily makes men not cheat. Or have sex. | |
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