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Posted: 12/28/2006 9:47:21 PM | Well you aren't alone. I have pretty much given up too. To me, it seems I am best suited for a life as a single person anyway.
I am ok with never meeting that special person in a way. Why worry myself to death over that? In my past relationships, it always seemed as though I valued the time I had AWAY from the person, than with them....so why should I go looking to put myself in that situation again?
What I don't like, but have equally given up on, is finding good friends. In my life have only had two GOOD friends, and only one best friend. They are gone, but at least I can say that I had the chance to know them. That's more than some people ever get their whole lives.
OP, I agree with you in the way you feel about people our age. I also go for older people, in both friendship and relationships. But, anything good takes time, don't be in such a rush to find that special person....you will find them(or they find you) one day. I can almost guarantee it
Focus your time more on you, the things you want to do, things you desire. Who knows? Maybe those things would lead to your special someone.
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Posted: 12/29/2006 1:15:31 AM | | I understand I feel the same about women. | |
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Posted: 12/29/2006 6:23:46 AM | my broken heart = a ring of fire, burned candle/bridge at both ends i believe
been looking(for women)but all i've ever found were those that:
smoke
drink
drink & drive
dui
dwi
owi
bf in jail
14 drinks, few martinis, talking on cell to me while driving home, stupid i say
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Posted: 12/29/2006 7:13:47 AM | your 20!
give up, try women, try acid and try to have some fun in your life!
do not worry about, cheeting **stard boy friends and all that, and worry about getting an education in and out of school so that you can learn what is important to you and yours!
as a helpful hint, if you throw yourself at someone, they may drop you...
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Posted: 12/29/2006 10:07:35 AM | | your 20 stop looking love will find you again be alittle smarter and go closier to your age due to the generation gap issues it may take you longer to find someone but take it from some one thats lived the generation gap blues you'll have nothing in common but sex | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 11:45:09 AM | | O.P, I understand you 100%. I've given up as well. If someone nice were to come along, fantastic! but until then, i've just no drive whatsoever to search around. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 12:06:27 PM | | YES MEN HAVE THE SAME THIN HAPPEN ALOT OF WOMAN ARE LOOKING OUT TO GET SOMETHING ELSE OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP,MONEY,TRIPS FINE DINNING. CAN'T GET A DATE | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 5:59:24 PM | Fire Goddess,
Yes, we are out here, not just looking to “Hook-Up” and as the Navigator stated, some of us are hurt, tired to being lied to, cheated on, stabbed in the back, etc., but we are out there, but we have a safety shield that we use as not to be burned beyond all recognition.
At your age the male of the species is looking primarily for one thing and one thing only, and it isn’t to provide love, and companionship, and trust, and honesty, and emotional assistance, and caring, and you should be able to pick it up from here?
At your age, you have not/will not give up as your life has just begun, and it’s a wonderful journey with a beautiful path to walk… | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 6:22:31 PM | | WHY!!! Dating ,Love, Caring It's a prosess. Look can love someone for 18 years, believe me hard to walk away!!!!!!! As we know sometimes better to! WE want what we want but guess what not always ging to happen. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 6:30:23 PM | ONE MORE THING, If your the firegoddess then find the one with the hose that can cool you down
Mac | |
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Posted: 7/4/2009 2:02:18 PM | | we do exist,just as good women are hard to find good men are hard to find,its a natural fact of life is sucks but all you can do i carry on,sorry | |
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Posted: 7/4/2009 3:30:58 PM | | i jus don get it i like to say im the guy thts hard to find and yet i still can not find my true love ive beeen cheated on numerous times ive had my heart broken as nice as i am to women they walk all over mee like im shit. im down to earth nice funloving man i guess its true like they say nice guys finish last idk im ju so depressed with myself ima give uppppppppp idkk anymoreeee | |
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Posted: 7/4/2009 8:35:32 PM |
A watched pot never boils... that's the philosophy I go for.
What I mean is that if you are constantly looking for the "perfect" guy, chances are you are always setting yourself up for disappointment. For me I do a search every once in a while and send out a couple emails and answer any that come to me.
Maybe you have set your "sights" too high? Not all men that are in school are idiots. I know quite a few men who are currently in college and have a good head on their shoulders. Or maybe they are working a couple part time jobs, doesn't mean they aren't good people.
Leave yourself open to chance and maybe stop searching right now and just let life happen. I too believe in soul mates. You are only 20 years old... you will find someone
i should hit my head with a hammer and try to remember this... This is cool! | |
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