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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 11/30/2006 8:02:49 PM | | Honestly, I don't get that turned on seeing two women going at it. If I am going to see something pornographic I would rather see a man and woman so I can imagine I am the guy. I can imagine being a woman in sex. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 11/30/2006 11:15:47 PM | That turns me on in a world of women who do not know their own bodies and counld cum if their lives depended on it.
OK, that I find harsh. Good god, it really not the simple. I'm 27 years old, been a veteran of the sexual wars for quite some time, and while I enjoyed every (well, pretty much) minute of it I didn't orgasim until this past week with guy. That didn't mean I didn't enjoy sex, it just didn't seem to happen no matter how hard or what I tried. And no I didn't have to be in "loving, romantic" relationship. I think far too much pressure is put on that, it happends when it happens. I don't think it was in anyway due to inexperiance, repression or not knowing myself.
For me having 2 guys just doesn't appeal to me, probably because I couldn't split my attention enough, damn my one track mind! Sure, I have not problem multi tasking any other time, damn it! I don't really see how that makes anyone a "ho bag", it isn't lack of respect for oneself, simply a lifestyle choice, that while might not be everyones, it is theirs. Are you forced to participate? Than what the heck do you care?I think by this age we've long past the idea of how many people you've been with, or how many in the room at the time, is what qualifies someone as a slut. As long as you're doing what you want for the right reasons (re= simply because you want to!) then rock on! | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/1/2006 12:07:55 AM |
So you're saying:
BEING IN A THREESOME = LETTING EVERY TOM D!CK & HARRY HAVE SEX with her.
Dood, there's a LOT of room between the two.
Do whatever you want. What other people do is none of your business.
I realize that whatever ppl want to do is none of my business.... but let me ask you this: If a girl is banging two guys at once, how much discrimination is she really displaying? Not a whole shitload.
theoretically, would you want a woman who are currently seeing to tell you about her escapades with multiple guys at the same time? Somehow i doubt it.
This is a major problem in this day and age... ppl seem to think that anything and everything is acceptable and fine and dandy. there are no boundaries or morals anymore. ... which are just more symptoms of the downward spiral of society. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/1/2006 12:27:14 AM | BadMonkeyFinger.... myabe you should just stick to your genetic studies of monkeys, primates, and their digits, and leave the morals of human sexuality to humans that actually have sex.... no?
Look... i'm sorry if you're into the whole 'anything goes' attitude, but please, of all ppl, don't strike out at me by claiming i know not of what I speak b/c i 'never have sex' (that is funny to me beyond belief). As far as i can tell, this is a public forum and I have the right to voice my opinion like anyone else. Fact of the matter is, if a woman is non selective about with whom she sleeps (which includes sleeping w/ two ppl at once), I have the right to voice my opinion that she is being undiscriminating, which in my opinion labels her a slutty dirtbag. And btw...same goes for guys who **** multiple girls at once. My apologies for 'living in the 18th century', but I'll say this much: The world has gotten extremely out of hand exactly b/c of notions that this type of thing are that it is 'acceptable' , and if you can't see the big picture in that regard, then i feel bad for you for being still another person who's brainwashed, yet doesn't even realize it.
yeah yeah... crucify me....why? b/c i don't believe that women should **** more than one guy at a time??? if you wish to justify slutting around, that's your prerogative...but, BuLLOCKS to the lot of you! If your current partner were aware of this type of promiscuous activity , I'm sure he/ she would be less than impressed. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/1/2006 12:47:39 AM | Not sure I'd be up for this myself, but I just wanted to say: Xenomancer, swanner, canibaljoe, and 2betterdays - I like the way you think!
BadMonkeyFinger - seriously, not surprised you're single. What other archaic notions are you holding about women? No, never mind, don't tell me, I don't care and I don't want to know. Have you ever considered the much more widely impacting health risks a man spreads around (i.e. diseases) if he's promiscuous? I'm sure you've never actually thought about that, though. And by the way, the men who sleep around with all those "ho's" you like to talk about, what are they? Innocent victims? No, they're "ho's" too (by your definition), sorry to say, plain and simple. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/1/2006 6:37:54 AM | I realize that whatever ppl want to do is none of my business.... but let me ask you this: If a girl is banging two guys at once, how much discrimination is she really displaying? Not a whole shitload.
There you go again, playing the promiscuity card. Have you read the testimonies that say "with the right guys"? PAY ATTENTION!!!
theoretically, would you want a woman who are currently seeing to tell you about her escapades with multiple guys at the same time? Somehow i doubt it.
How is it that you're able to presume what I would want? I'm a forum poster whom you have never met.
I would LOVE to hear about my girl's escapades, assuming she were willing and actually would have any to talk about. I think that would be SO HOT!
Are you shocked? Do you fear that my soul will burn in hell, your holiness? 
This is a major problem in this day and age... ppl seem to think that anything and everything is acceptable and fine and dandy. there are no boundaries or morals anymore. ... which are just more symptoms of the downward spiral of society.
Young man, there are numerous POF girls who have testified to either experiencing threesomes or fantasizing about them. You seem to be suggesting that each of them are promiscuous, indiscriminate whores who are not worthy of being loved? Would you tell that to their faces? How about it, girls, what do you think about this?
This is a thread that asks whether we would be interesting in participating in an MFM threesome. In response we have OPINIONS pro and con, and we have explained the rationale behind our takes.
But you've gone a step further. You've appointed yourself moral policeman of this thread. I vehemently resent your gratuitous assertions, and I'm offended by your condescending attitude. Get some more life experience & wisdom, and stop judging these wonderful POF ladies.  | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/1/2006 8:07:24 AM | Wow.
I certainly doesn't take much to get people riled up.
Let me put it plain and clear: If you wish to live a life devoid of morals, that's up to you. Although I admit to not possessing a halo, I prefer to live my life with a teeny, tiny bit of values, particularly surrounding sexual interaction.
There you go again, playing the promiscuity card. Have you read the testimonies that say "with the right guys"? PAY ATTENTION!!!
...and what's this? if we're not discussing promiscuous behaviour here, then what exactly ARE we discussing?
If find it amusing (yet utterly disturbing) that the same majority who seem to live by an 'anything goes' attitude jump down my throat for having a more conservative opinion on the subject.
Get some more life experience & wisdom, and stop judging these wonderful POF ladies.
Earlier, you spoke of my being presumptuous...what on Earth would you know of my life experience?
Oh, and please don't take offence - seriously. I honestly don't mean to be condescending (although having re-read my posts, I can understand why you'd think I am). Just remember - This is a virtual world. Posts should be taken w/ a grain of salt... no need to get bent out of shape. | |
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Posted: 12/1/2006 8:23:36 AM | not quite sure what i have started but there are hell of alot of people on here who are very judge mental  i am in no way actively seeking a 3 some. would never cheat on my husband was just interested on the male opinion on two men as some many would jump at two women.............has nothing to do with being gay or anul sex... think you judgemental twats should go and get your own forum and stay there  | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/1/2006 8:27:19 AM |
BadMonkeyFinger - seriously, not surprised you're single. What other archaic notions are you holding about women? No, never mind, don't tell me, I don't care and I don't want to know. Have you ever considered the much more widely impacting health risks a man spreads around (i.e. diseases) if he's promiscuous? I'm sure you've never actually thought about that, though. And by the way, the men who sleep around with all those "ho's" you like to talk about, what are they? Innocent victims? No, they're "ho's" too (by your definition), sorry to say, plain and simple.
Yes, it's an antiquated way of thinking that I would want the woman in my life to not have had group sex for pure, carnal pleasure. I would like to believe that having sex is slightly more meaningful than this. Is that so wrong of me? Must I be lambasted for having this type of thought? Btw...I never said it was morally acceptable for a man to sleep around (or have sex with multiple partners at once) either, so please refrain from suggesting I have a Neanderthal's mindset. But if you wish to look at all of this from a biological standpoint, well I could go on to say...
...on second thought, I'll stop w/ that...wouldn't want to offend anyone else on here.
oh, and ummm... are you suggesting that a female cannot spread disease as easily as a man? Perhaps I'm reading this incorrectly or something ...
P.S. I'm single because I choose to be single. It may appear that I have an abrasive personality from what I've posted online, but rest assured I'm far more easy-going in person... perhaps too much so. lol
anyhow, i've said it before and i'll say it once more - forums like these should not be taken so seriously. time to step away from your computers for a bit, guys. Holy shmoly! | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/1/2006 8:29:01 AM | i used to swing... first of all.. before you get all hot with the notion... think of the emotional challenges it will create... because it WILL create them in the most secure relationships.
But if its fantasy.. it should be fun.
Live it to its utmost.. and enjoy.
People thinking that women are hoes becuase they like a 3some better get some counselling...
Some people actually want more than just normal sex.. thats life... its not for any of us to tell anyone what they should do.
If you dont like it.. good for you... but thats just YOU... Live and let live. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/1/2006 8:50:20 AM |
Get some more life experience & wisdom...
btw - it's very ironic that you should say this b/c my life experience is exactly what has afforded me w/ this mindset. I've gone the full 360 degrees, buddy ... like I said, I never claimed to possess a halo, but at least I've straightened myself up a bit in order to regain my dignity and self-respect. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/1/2006 8:54:03 AM | ... Live and let live.
with this, I agree...i would never attempt to enforce my views on anyone, but at the same time, i should not be drawn and quartered for expressing my thoughts. As you said 'live and let live'. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/1/2006 11:49:36 AM |
2 men isn't sexy to me .. just not the same as 2 women somehow So Scorpion... Saturday?
Roo, again you give a good point. But to some a picture is not going to alter their judgment. And you really don't know who here has a real picture after all. 9 to 10 says they would not in a public place. Well at least the guy's admitting they would share guys. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/1/2006 12:35:51 PM | Well no, I don't think most people could stand on a soap box in the park and shout that out. Ah, the glory of the internet, but then if talking seriously about the topic with someone(s) odds are they would probably be somewhat honest. For me, my views are the same wether it's public or private, but then I don't think I could really be slammed for it either. Mayhaps it would be more for the reason that they wouldn't want to have to bother dealing with those who would take great offense.
Monkey, Yeah, your posts do sound a little nasty earlier. Name calling will usually illicit that response. The best way is think through what you want to say, then assume it will taken in the worst way possible, then edit accordingly*L*. However if you want to be rude, or start a slamming war, go at it unedited!
He does have a point, a good forum presents both sides and I do think he's intitled to his opinion. I suppose adopting a live and let live attitude has to go both ways. funny how hard that is eh?*L* | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/1/2006 12:41:55 PM | | seems like you have a little ambivoulence here. You say it is for her yet you are into the idea of coming out with her regarding you bisexuality here. She might feel insecure because you might enjoy the other man more than her. Just a thought. Sounds like a topic for extended converstation. The other part about these three way things that some of the literature mentions in that many folks that engage in a three way are afraid of committment. All I know is what I read in the funny papers ....that is what they say anyhow. | |
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Posted: 12/1/2006 12:51:27 PM | Just an observation here....seems to me that many of the posts here (like this one) have, as a principal objection, the idea of gender confusion. I mean if I have sex with a woman and we for example do the DP thing "does that make me gay of bisexual?" What the hell try it find out. Be a hell of a thing to go though life and not know your true sexual indenity. Wouldn't it?
Homophobic three ways are bound for failure. IMHO. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/1/2006 2:51:57 PM |
3somes has nothing to do with dignity and self respect. its about fantasy.
In all seriousness, how can you not see that the two are related? I realize you also state that 'it's about fantasy', but bear in mind, as an extreme example, pedophilic behaviour is also about 'fantasy'. Does that make it right? No. Does that make it moral? no. Not all fantasies have to be played out, and some should never even enter the imagination in the first place. | |
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Posted: 12/1/2006 2:55:19 PM |
In all seriousness, how can you not see that the two are related? I realize you also state that 'it's about fantasy', but bear in mind, as an extreme example, pedophilic behaviour is also about 'fantasy'. Does that make it right? No. Does that make it moral? no. Not all fantasies have to be played out, and some should never even enter the imagination in the first place.
You're assuming that people that have 3somes have bno respect for eeach other.. What is good for one person may not be good for another... Just because YOU cant deal with the GUILT of it doesnt make it morally reprehensible for others.
What other people may do that I wouldnt do doesnt mean its not good for THEM.. who am I to tell people what to do in their bedrooms! | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/1/2006 2:57:49 PM |
Monkey, Yeah, your posts do sound a little nasty earlier. Name calling will usually illicit that response
Yup, you're right...I did sound a bit nasty and crass. It was unintentional....and the use of derogatory remarks (calling certain women 'hoes') was simply written to use common vernacular. ...was just trying to be casual in my wording, but i know better now.
He does have a point, a good forum presents both sides and I do think he's intitled to his opinion. I suppose adopting a live and let live attitude has to go both ways. funny how hard that is eh?*L*
Thank you for the recognition. | |
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Posted: 12/1/2006 3:26:02 PM | oh, and ummm... are you suggesting that a female cannot spread disease as easily as a man? Perhaps I'm reading this incorrectly or something ...
As a matter of biological fact, women are actually much more vulnerable to STI's from men than men are from women, and men spread around STI's far easier than women do. A woman can get infected after one time of having sex with an infected male partner, whereas the reverse is not necessarily true (though I wouldn't recommend chancing it for either genders of course). It has to do with the fact that a large portion of a man's bodily fluids (ejaculate) actually stay inside a woman, during/after intercourse, whereas the woman's bodily fluids do not for the most part stay (or even get) inside the man, thereby allowing the infection to establish itself easier in a woman's body.
I don't want to bring biology into the "morality" of this, and I'm sure this would support your "reasons" for why women shouldn't be "slutty dirtbags" just because some men are. And at least you would say the same for men who participate in such behaviour, because it seems like a lot of guys out there are very quick to call women "hoes" for the very same behaviour they like to engage in.
As I mentioned before, something like this isn't my cup of tea, it's just too much for me. But that isn't to say if three consenting, disease-free, honest, respectful, and responsible adults make such a decision that I need to harangue them about it. It's their business as long as they are not in fact spreading STI's knowingly or unknowingly. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/1/2006 4:24:29 PM | I will say, i get what monkey is saying, and of course it could have been worded better, but he was making a point. Most people will call this point "old-fashioned" but to restate what he said, i dont think anyone should be angry at this guy for saying, i would not like a woman who is so open sexually to be someone i could have a serious relationship with. This could be for one of many reasons like wanting to feel he is the only one his woman may do things with. Seriously guys, dont act like you are right because you are not. If you really live by the "to each their own philosophy" then why are you bashing this guy?
I personally would engage in such activities, but would prefer someone who is a little less open to multiple partners when i want to settle because as much as i would like it for just sex and fun, when the heart is involved, it is not my cup of tea. T
The problem arises when a woman wonders why i dont want to commit to her when she has gone around having a very "open" sex life. I like mine to be mine! What is for everyone else, we can all share!!!  | |
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