| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/1/2006 4:27:22 PM | | Oh by the way, i meant two women and one man, not the other way round. Thats why i find two women that want the same thing so no one feels like the other person is being selfish. That is also why it is just for fun and would not do this with someone i am in a serious relationship with because you should be considerate to your partner, and i would not want to complicate things. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/2/2006 7:53:08 AM | As a matter of biological fact, women are actually much more vulnerable to STI's from men than men are from women, and men spread around STI's far easier than women do. A woman can get infected after one time of having sex with an infected male partner, whereas the reverse is not necessarily true (though I wouldn't recommend chancing it for either genders of course). It has to do with the fact that a large portion of a man's bodily fluids (ejaculate) actually stay inside a woman, during/after intercourse, whereas the woman's bodily fluids do not for the most part stay (or even get) inside the man, thereby allowing the infection to establish itself easier in a woman's body.
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As I mentioned before, something like this isn't my cup of tea, it's just too much for me. But that isn't to say if three consenting, disease-free, honest, respectful, and responsible adults make such a decision that I need to harangue them about it. It's their business as long as they are not in fact spreading STI's knowingly or unknowingly.
What you said about transmission of diseases applies in many cases (I already know women are more susceptible than men to acquiring certain diseases), however, as I'm certain I don't have to tell you, a good number of STIs occur simply from skin to skin contact (which can just as easily be transmitted / acquired by either gender). This is all somewhat irrelevant to the point I was making, though.
I'd also like to point out that I wasn't harassing anyone. This was even mentioned in one of my posts where I stated that I would never attempt to 'enforce' my views on anyone. However, this doesn't mean I don't have the right to form an opinion of an individual's actions and, as Cron said, make a decision on whether or not I would want to be in a serious relationship w/ them based on said opinion(s). | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/2/2006 1:31:06 PM | Well now, I really have something to think about? This fantasy has been in my mind for awhile now. I have been dating a man and this has been discussed. I would like to think this would be as erotic to him as it seems it would be to me..and would increase our respect, tolerance of each other. However, if it means that he wouldn't be interested in anything further with me, I guess I need to step back and think about it more carefully.
Appreciate both sides of this argument. Some valid points made.
Guess more discussion is necessary? | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/2/2006 4:25:03 PM | Been there and done it. I know how much I enjoy multiple women at the same time, and think it would be selfish not to be open to that same experience for any woman I was with.
That said outside of a relationship it is very easy and has few drawbacks, within a relationship an extremely open communication between partners about any fears and so on is a must. The relationship is what is important experiences like that are just gravy. No fanyasy is worth sabotaging a relationship, but in idea circumstances it can bring you closer. In the end it is mostly about trust. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/4/2006 6:50:02 AM |
I'd also like to point out that I wasn't harassing anyone. This was even mentioned in one of my posts where I stated that I would never attempt to 'enforce' my views on anyone. However, this doesn't mean I don't have the right to form an opinion of an individual's actions and, as Cron said, make a decision on whether or not I would want to be in a serious relationship w/ them based on said opinion(s).
Yes that's true enough, when done respectfully. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/4/2006 7:17:39 AM |
Jealousy is human nature...sounds like You've never been with anyone long enough to know...or let your self get close to you for that matter...
Actually--its EXACTLY as a result of my long term relationships that went south for ZERO REASON that I've arrived with the outlook I have now.
I was The Good Guy-Prince Charming who took care of his women/was loyal/was very good in bed/had good tatste in clothing/looked good /wasn't jealous or possessive/and backed my women in whatever ambitions she had in life.
And it was never enough to make the "relationship" work.
As I said before--I'd LOVE to live in a world where being faithful in a solid "relationship" or marriage is seen as VALID thing.
I'd also like World Peace.
But thats just not happening. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/4/2006 7:19:51 AM |
Jealousy is human nature...sounds like You've never been with anyone long enough to know...or let your self get close to you for that matter...
Actually--its EXACTLY as a result of my long term relationships that went south for ZERO REASON that I've arrived with the outlook I have now.
I was The Good Guy-Prince Charming who took care of his women/was loyal/intelligent-thoughtful/was very good in bed/had good taste-style in clothing/looked good&fit /wasn't jealous or possessive/and backed my women in whatever ambitions she had in life.
And it was never enough to make the "relationship" work.
As I said before--I'd LOVE to live in a world where being faithful in a solid "relationship" or marriage is seen as VALID thing.
I'd also like World Peace.
But thats just not happening. | |
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Posted: 12/4/2006 7:50:07 AM | ^^^^Sorry to hear that, I hope you find the one that's right for you.
I'd LOVE to live in a world where being faithful in a solid "relationship" or marriage is seen as VALID thing.
That is not only valid, but possible, as much as stats show it isn't. I guess I've just seen way too many successful marriages and partnerships out there to believe that you can't find it if you want it.
By the way, Cron you do realize this thread was about two guys and a woman and not two women and a guy don't you? There are other threads for what you're talking about, just for your information, if you didn't know. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/4/2006 8:53:38 AM | Enjoy being with one man.........That to me is the ultimate and am more then satisfied being with one.......Different strokes for different folks........I like to make my man feel like he is the center of the universe when we are making love........MMMmmmmmmmmm.......HE is all I need!!!!! | |
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Posted: 12/4/2006 9:14:35 AM | | LOL, I agree with BadMonkeyFinger (what a handle!!!). I think it's something way more women think about than will admit it, but something lots of us wouldn't do. Not only would I expect the man to lose any respect for me beyond that act, but I'd lose respect for him because he was willing to share. I'm such a hypocrite. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/4/2006 10:53:38 AM |
women are actually much more vulnerable to STI's
How did that even get into the discussion?
We are talking about the desire of women vs the desire of men.
And the perceived reality by people not connected to a situation.
STI's?
From THINKING about sex? Maybe where you live..... here we have to actually DO something. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/4/2006 11:15:02 AM | | no names need mentioning haha ..... i have to laugh at all this truely your more than welcome to your own ideals of sexuality but for real man the 18th century i'm guessing we must count out the royal figures in this, who induluge in multiple partners read up on your history, as for everyone else rock on. cold mac and cheese at midnight feels great too but we dont all run around smacking and chomping on that either do we ? horny is as horny does | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/4/2006 11:49:28 AM | ABSOLUTELY, as long as they did what I wanted them to do...not what THEY thought I wanted them to do.
One would have breast and mouth duty and the other would never come up for air. | |
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Posted: 12/4/2006 4:51:11 PM |
I guess I've just seen way too many successful marriages and partnerships out there to believe that you can't find it if you want it.
Dang-I wish I lived in that galaxy.
Here on planet earth-most of the beautiful/intelligent women worth by time are either knocked up with some dyckheads/absentee "dad" or refuse to have "chemistry with me after a 10 minute conversation.
Especially the atractive/"intelligent well educated women.
They seem to think that NO MAN is worth their time because the last boyfriend was a dyck.
So they sneak away with some jock goof for a weekend here and there and wait it out for marriage with a rich hockey player or weasel lawyer.
My disappointment in women used to limited to skanky hoes at the bar.
But these days--the "intelligent" women are coming with some BS games too.
The kind that say they won't have sex unless you marry them---pppff--
Hello!--control issues.. | |
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Posted: 12/4/2006 4:55:41 PM |
My moral, value and ethics triangle wouldnt allow me to do such thing. I dont live my life that way.
Does the average women care what your "morals" are ?
Nope--they just want someone to pay the bills,raise the children,buy them a car/house/cottage/retirement policy and then devorce you/collect alimony.
If you don't know this--you'll soon find out. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/4/2006 5:52:05 PM | Hello!--control issues..
Hello! Embitterment issues.. I guess you've never heard of self-fulfilling prophecies. I was just wishing you well in the sense of I hope you find what you're looking for in terms of relationships after getting hurt, but I didn't realize that all you were hoping for was to get laid or in a threesome. Well good luck with that anyway.
How did that even get into the discussion?
We are talking about the desire of women vs the desire of men.
And the perceived reality by people not connected to a situation.
STI's?
From THINKING about sex? Maybe where you live..... here we have to actually DO something.
You missed that whole part of the thread where this was actually being discussed. I would suggest you actually check that out and understand what it was about, before making comments or quoting out of context. | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/4/2006 6:01:43 PM | Does the average women care what your "morals" are ?
Nope--they just want someone to pay the bills,raise the children,buy them a car/house/cottage/retirement policy and then devorce you/collect alimony.
If you don't know this--you'll soon find out.
Bitter, party of one, you're table is ready.
Wow, you know one could really take offence to that. However, I've got a feeling that it was typed simply to be rude and to cause an argument. If you actually ment this............. that's even worse. Sorry for you dude. However this has nothing to do with the thread that was started so you might want to learn where to put your postings. You might want to check for a thread under "whinners" to re-post this.
"Being jaded is for people who don't have enough imagination to keep life interesting." | |
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| do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 12/4/2006 7:28:53 PM | Y'all do realise the OP enquired about "willingness", this doesn't even mean that you would decide to do it... just that if this was your partners fantasy if it would be entertained as an idea seriously . And for most actually following through is impractical for various reasons.
The ability and willingness to openly discuss even our darker desires I have found to be essential to building a deep meaningful relationship (not exactly a 2nd date topic), but maybe that is why I am "not single/not looking". | |
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Posted: 12/4/2006 7:54:49 PM |
I was just wishing you well in the sense of I hope you find what you're looking for in terms of relationships after getting hurt, but I didn't realize that all you were hoping for was to get laid or in a threesome.
Thanks for the well wishes.
"Embitterment"?
Yeah- a little -but if you knew ME-you'd be VERY bitter in my stead.
Straight up-I'm prince charming.PERIOD.
I just spent $40k on a music studio for my EX-girfriend so she can pursue her musical ambitions.
(nope-I'm not trying to get back with her-I gave up on that years ago.)
Oh-yeah.She dropped me for a guy that had hygiene issues (smelled like a pissy fart),was pro'lly closet gay,chain smoked and didn't have a job.
This is a women that looks like a Vivica Fox or Tyra Banks..
(I look like a Mark Messier-you'll see-I'll put some pics up soon)
Hows that for STUPID?
The gyal that wanted me to marry her before we had sex went on to get knocked up with some guy in another province (nope-they didn't get married) and is now a single mother.
If you can exlain that one and a few dozen others -then your "embitterment" comment might stick to something.
I see this happening all around me.Its the norm.
Strange,sad,pathetic,irritating...but TRUE. | |
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Posted: 12/4/2006 8:08:08 PM |
Wow, you know one could really take offence to that. However, I've got a feeling that it was typed simply to be rude and to cause an argument. If you knew how many times I wished and prayed that it was "just me" or that I'm an azzhole or whatever...wow. You'd be saying "wow-what is UP with these STUPID women from all walks of life and educational status?" But I've met them ALL.(just a little hyperbole). I've met the smart ones with the degree in Commerce or Engineering. I've met "home girls" working for a crappy hourly wage. I've met the single mothers. I've met the misfit-druggy/border line whores. I've met the one from the "right side of the track". I've met the one from the "wrong side of the track" I've met the young ones at the club. I've met the older ones at the coffee shop. We are living in a world of madness and ignorance and there is definitely some Jungian sycronicity going on between the phuked up psychy of the female mind and --lets say IRAQ and George Bush. But-hey. If it makes you feel better to think I'm "embittered"...play on playa.  | |
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