| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/31/2005 4:07:59 PM | Go For It! Go! Go!
I think the reason folks assumed that you were a guy is that it is stereotypical in our culture that men would want sex-as-recreation, because women are only seeking love and marriage. This paradigm is of course hoowy, an idea that should have gone the way of the corseted-bustle.
So good for you, assert your sexual side. It’s very therapeutic, to get over a bad relationship with good sex. It will boost your sexual confidence (which may have taken a sub-conscious nosedive due to Mr. Loser-boy Ex). Biologically sex has the wonderful residual effect of boosting your endorphins and making you feel so much better. Plus it is great exercise, that doesn’t require gym membership fees.
I would reiterate the need for protection. While in a married relationship, you might have gone into a contraceptive lull, assuming both you and your partner were monogamous. Well the dating pool isn’t monogamous. Consequently, there are hundreds of awful bugs that the unsuspecting could catch while out fishing.
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