| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 2/22/2008 9:44:07 PM |
I kissed them and grabbed their c0cks, but I was initially nervous about having sex with them.
That you for being so straightforward about this. But I'm trying to make a point here.
Why did you grab their**** if you were not interested in having sex with them? Was it because you felt it was the "thing to do" there? Or did you get SOME pleasure out of checking out a strange man's package, and then being able to move on with no strings attached? | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 2/23/2008 7:58:26 PM |
Personally, I don't care if others want to lust or swing, whatever. I just don't think they need to push their values, or lack of them on others. To each his own. And yes, it sounds like Jerry Springer to me, but hey, maybe that is real life, just not the life I want.
It almost looks as if you are the one forcing values on others. Almost...
Thank goodness for messages 13 and 14 to restore my faith in humanity. | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 3/2/2008 12:22:44 AM | All the swingers I've ever known have been repellent and creepy...sort of like Federico Fellini's film characters.
The leering, the bad taste in clothes, the heavy BLING , the dumb conversation makes you want to steer clear of swingers and remain monogamous. | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 3/2/2008 5:47:03 PM |
Personally, I don't care if others want to lust or swing, whatever. I just don't think they need to push their values, or lack of them on others. To each his own. And yes, it sounds like Jerry Springer to me, but hey, maybe that is real life, just not the life I want.
It almost looks as if you are the one forcing values on others. Almost...
I don't force my values on anyone, and can't see how it could be even "almost"!!
Of 204 posts, I wonder why you choose to respond to this one.
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 3/3/2008 11:18:56 AM | After a brief read through this forum, it does seem to me that there is a lot of typcasting being done on here.
First off, no, I don't swing. My reasons tend to be more along the lines of believing in one person while I am in a relationship.
Now outside of a relationship I will admit to having thoughts about 2 ladies to satisfy! But not all swingers are "creepy" as some have attested to. Not all of them wear a bunch of "bling" and dress bad. Come on people, that is really sad that there are those out there who believe that. Funny thing is, those same people seem to be the ones having difficulty meeting someone.
My thoughts have always been that what two consenting adults agree on is fine.
I'd be interested in what you all think about "friends with benifits". | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 3/3/2008 4:56:36 PM | | I agree with you, Ageless Wonder. It's not for me....to each their own. | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 3/4/2008 4:44:42 PM |
I'd be interested in what you all think about "friends with benifits".
I have to be in love with someone to enjoy their "benefits". That's not a morale statement, though; it's just the way that I'm made. I understand that everyone is made differently. | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 3/4/2008 7:00:28 PM | Whenever I feel that tingle....and want to do the Wild Thing......it had better be with someone that makes my heart tingle also... Blue | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 3/5/2008 1:38:54 PM | Why did you grab their**** if you were not interested in having sex with them? Was it because you felt it was the "thing to do" there? Or did you get SOME pleasure out of checking out a strange man's package, and then being able to move on with no strings attached?
Both of the reasons you mentioned are factors. But I was also initially nervous at because it was my first swinger's party. I wanted to gradually become more comfortable before having sex. Having sex is more intimitate than kissing and feeling a man's c0ck. | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 3/6/2008 5:35:44 PM |
Both of the reasons you mentioned are factors. But I was also initially nervous at because it was my first swinger's party. I wanted to gradually become more comfortable before having sex. Having sex is more intimitate than kissing and feeling a man's c0ck.
Hmm, I don't even like to shake hands with people when being introduced, I can't imagine grabbing their privates! LOL | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 3/7/2008 7:26:40 AM | | I can't imagine having sex with someone I don't know from a can of house paint..... | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 3/7/2008 8:49:24 PM | Boy, do I agree with u!! I decided on a different career, trucking . I have never met
such a bunch of people. Now, I mean both women and men in this. I have always
lived with old fashioned values, one guy/one gal and boy did I get my eyes opened
up. I have never, ever,ever, been propositioned as much. Quickies,swinging, you
name it. Each to their own, but I have now left that career for dispatching as I am
sick and tired of getting propositioned like a prostitute. I have also met some
really 'family' oriented men and women to their credit. I guess I have lived a very
sheltered life and expected to meet someone eligible and one who would take it
slow and easy, not so. Its open up the door lady, Im gonna park my 'big rig' in ya!!
When you dont, its what the hell is the matter with you!?  | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 4/6/2008 10:43:08 PM |
I guess I expected to meet someone eligible and one who would take it slow and easy, not so
Chelsea, they're out there. They're not easy to find, and some women wouldn't know a respectful gentleman if he bit her on her ear. It's called respect, plain and simple. If they're not going to respect you, then they're not worth your time. All I can say is "be patient". | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 4/12/2008 11:09:17 AM | For the record . . . I know of two men that have AIDS. One of them looks 10 years younger than he is and totally healthy. Condoms do break and can leak sometimes. As AIDS patients they are told that even if they have sex with another sick lover the strain of the virus that they have may not be the same as their partners. Otherwise, they can pass an additional complications with a new strain of the virus to the lover.
I can understand the curiousity factor with "swinging". Personally, I think anyone engaging in such activity in this day is nuts.
The Big E | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 4/13/2008 5:51:36 PM | Wow! I couldn't have said it better myself! I liked your reply, then I saw your name! ROTFLMAO! Same as mine!
I don't like to judge anybody for their opinions or lifestyles, preferences, etc. I have seen things from a lot of different perspectives and you would be surprised how many swingers are living next door, working with you, etc. The stereo types are really kinda funny, 'cause most of those that posted against them wouldn't know them if they walked right up and said hello! 
Another thought (and I saw a show on PBS today that confirmed this): How many animals in nature actually mate for life? If we are truly honest we must admit that the majority of us have urges or fantasies, most just don't ever let them leave their brain. Society and Religion are the reasons people "marry until death do us part". Yes, I would love to have a long term relationship if and when that person comes along, but it also has to be open and honest and they are out there. I have experienced an open, honest relationship with love.
Okay, just my 2 cents! | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 4/15/2008 8:07:23 AM | | I have no idea "how many animals in nature mate for life..." How many "animals in nature" have HIV/AIDS???????? | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 4/15/2008 9:48:16 AM |
How many animals in nature actually mate for life?
How many animals are as intelligent as people?
How many animals have been to the moon?
How many animals can read and or write?
How many animals have languages?
How many animals build complex tools?
How many animals eat their own droppings?
How many animals lick their own genitalia?
Rats have been known to gang-rape female rats.
Comparing oneself to animals is a bit silly. Swans mate for life, they can also fly.
Some birds can fly, but don't mate for life.
Some animlas have lifespans measured in days, some in decades.
Some animals kill their mtes after sex, until the advent of AIDS, this was not usual for people.
Please let's not compare people and animals. They're not the same thing no matter how many times people use this argument to justify swinging. | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 4/18/2008 7:33:14 AM | | I say to each there own. W are not put on this earth to judge anyone. Life is to short to not be happy and to do what ever it is that makes you happy long as you are not hurting anyone in the process. No one peeks in my bedroom windows and I for sure do not peek in theres. So enjoy your life and do wqhat makes ya smile | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 4/23/2008 4:02:58 AM | I think it is simply said "each to their own". I have known people who are swingers, they are attractive, well to do, enjoy varied and sunstantial interests, well educated good parents, church going, and love one another to death. This counters many of the comments made on this thread.
Looking at this from my perseptive though, sex is something I enjoy more with someone I have a connection with emotionally as well as physically. That is when it is the best. | |
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| middle aged swingers ;0p
Posted: 7/6/2008 5:26:01 AM | | I HAD ONE GUY I MET ON HERE ASK ME ON THE FIRST DATE IF I HAD EVER WANTED TO GO TO A SWINGERS CLUB. I TALKED TO HIS SON ON LINE , HE TOLD ME HIS FATHER HAD WOMEN IN EVERY TOWN HIS JOB SENT HIM TOO. AND THAT HE HAD CHEATED ON HIS WIFE AND THAT WAS THE REASON HE WAS DIVCORED .AND THAT HE ONLY DATED A WOMAN TO GET HER IN BED . MEN ARE PIGS .I'VE HAD ONE ASK IF I LIKED SEX IN THE FIRST CHAT. THATS A BIG RED FLAG TO ME . | |
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