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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 10/30/2006 5:24:05 PM | I find that some nice guys are really nice...but then they are boring. As in they are trying so hard to be polite and sensitive to me that they do not say anything interesting unless probed really hard. And that is too much work.
Everytime I say anything about the weather being too cold they apologize. If I say I had a bad day they apologize. If I tell them they don't have to apologize, they apologize. Try to tell me that isn't a boring conversation? | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 10/30/2006 8:35:00 PM | I find that some nice guys are really nice and they're anything but boring. As in they're great conversationlists and they have manners, as well. And that's just right!
Every single time I see 'em, they chime in with some interesting tidbit or whatnot. If I've had a bad day, they offer a friendly smile and possibly a shoulder. They don't apologize, but I know they're not happy that I'm upset. Try to tell me that isn't a lovely dudefeller? | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 10/30/2006 10:23:15 PM | What I need to know from you, is what do you consider in a man to be REAL. Women on this site are very PLASTIC and they don't even look like Barbie. Most women live in a fantasy world like most of the men looking for something they can't have. Reality is fantasies are not real, they only exist in a person's mind and whoever it is will never find that person to share life with.
Please tell me what a REAL woman consists of?
I am a nice guy and what do I receive from women, write to them and what do I receive, nothing at all, not even a thank you for viewing or am not interested, just no response at all. Then look at the pictures posted and look close, how many years difference was the pictures from there actual age are they?
I can only speak from the male side, but there are always 2 sides to any story.
For example, read mine and tell me what you think, I would be interested in how you describe me to give some knowledge as to how to make my profile better than how it is now.
I only have the basics without a picture so to stimulate your mind to know what is actually inside instead of what you see on the outside. Most people are very shallow, only attracted to the outer shell, not what's really inside.
As the saying goes,,,, opposites attract,,, the down side to that is when the attractive part goes away, what do you have left to hang on to? Probably not much, so another breakup is coming to pass.
If both men and women would go deeper and look for what is in the heart and in the mind besides the attractiveness then when the attractiveness goes away, there is still some part of the relationship to fall back on to let it survive.
Everyone has a life and a schedule to follow, most don't know how to compromise in a relationship to make it work for years to come.
Please let me know what you think and what knowledge you can share with me to give me a greater understanding on how a woman thinks. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 10/31/2006 5:26:32 AM |
And that is too much work.
That little bit of fluff stayed on my mind. Too much work? I don't really understand why it's too much work to engage a nice guy. Consider how much more effort and energy a relationship would require with a guy who isn't nice... Why not invest your effort wisely? | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 10/31/2006 6:59:26 AM |
I find that some nice guys are really nice...but then they are boring. As in they are trying so hard to be polite and sensitive to me that they do not say anything interesting unless probed really hard. And that is too much work.
Everytime I say anything about the weather being too cold they apologize. If I say I had a bad day they apologize. If I tell them they don't have to apologize, they apologize. Try to tell me that isn't a boring conversation?
You are much more likely to get a nice guy to loosen up and be more open and lively, simply by letting him know. And a lot less likely to have a jerk show you respect and manners, and give you a more polite and pleasant conversation and atmosphere. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 10/31/2006 7:01:21 AM |
That little bit of fluff stayed on my mind. Too much work? I don't really understand why it's too much work to engage a nice guy. Consider how much more effort and energy a relationship would require with a guy who isn't nice... Why not invest your effort wisely?
Very well said Kloey!  | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 10/31/2006 8:35:01 AM | | Most of the men I've dated we're nice guys. I have seen enough bad relationship with guys who are the bad boys, and no thank you. Prefer my nice guy type anyday lol. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 10/31/2006 12:17:38 PM | No, I am speaking of an extreme here.
Nice guys that can actually give a balanced conversation without probing are fine. But I only know two of those...actually make it one and a half
And Kind spirit, most guys think they are nice guys, but a lot of the women I know would classify them as jerks. FYI | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 10/31/2006 1:31:18 PM | well belly dancer you can say what you think that is good .....i am not bitter at all i think women are great for having fun with thats what life is all about .....women do not like it when a man knows all thei crap....
women cheat to attract men they wear spandex ...lycra to hold in the excess whatever .....push up brash ..and hair extensions and when you take them home ........it is wrong to see all those things on the bedroom floor it looks like the women has leprocy.....
if all men saw women first thing in the morning they would not be seen in restaraunt with them ......i mean hally berry and selma hayek are one of the few that can get up in the morning and a mna would bone .....but women go out and buy control tops push ups glue on fake eyelashes ..spanx and they take hoursd to get ready and you expect us to be faithful .....
women lie so much it is unbearable and when they get over 25 and have had a child thats when they start to wear the attachment.....i have seen a woman with hair extension ....that stuff is nasty.....
guys wear after shave and a smile thats all it is just the way it is when a gvuy look rough ( not yeeeha!!!!redneck geoff foxworthy trailer park knuckled dragging bar fly rough ) i mena rugged women dig it but women have to do all sorts of stuff to get a guys attention
it is the way it is a women get a rough deal but som of them take it too far....so i am not bitter belly dancer i am just honest .....by the way you must have a nice belly  | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 10/31/2006 3:27:07 PM | | dude,,women want a combination of bad and good,,,first thing you have to think of with a pretty ltl lady is that she hears she is pretty all the time,,,,and she just might be,,but she isnt aroused by it any more,,,,next time you tell a woman she is cute,,,,add,,,,but those shoes are not,,and say it with a smile,,,treat her like you treat a buddy when your messing around,,,attractive women hear it all day long,,,but for a fella to come over and tell her she is BUT,,,,its always the butt that gets everybody on every level,,from work to play,,,women are very smart and men,,well we can be a ltl slow,,,,women love to smile,,,and they love to joke around,,,,you see a woman with awsome eyes,,,what do you do,,,,,compliment her eyes,,,just like the last 500 fellas have done before,,,whats exciting about that,,,,change it up a ltl bit,,,,tell her that her eyebrows set off those deep blue eyes or that you like how her eyes enhance her check bones,,,,you hold a door open for a lady and she says thanks,,,tell no prob,,,I was wantin a good look at that behind of yours,,you know you are gonna be lookin at it any ways and so does she,,,,,women love honesty,,,people can tell when your up to something usually and women are no different,,,try not to be so serious and just have fun,,,and remember its a 50/50 chance that if you ask her out,,she will say yes,,,do yourself a favor tho,,,if you do ask her out and she does say yes,,,dont do the dinner and movie thing,,,not on the first couple of dates,,,,be different,,stand out in the crowd,,make her tell her friends that you asked her out for lunch,,had her get all dressed up( you know she will) then take her out to the local play ground or your fav spot outside,,,,a place where theres other ppl so she feels safe,,,but a place where you two can chat a ltl,,,dont just bring food either,,bring a game of some sorts,,cards,,,yahtzee,,,,pop o matic,,,,something for the two of you to play to help you talk to her,,,fellas that are nice,,,have a hard time bringing up things to talk about and the game opens up all kinds of windows for you,,,and remember,,,she isnt the only woman on the planet,,so dont treat her like she is,,,make her earn your trust and respect,,,,pretty is only that,,pretty,,,and just a ltl something I do myself now adays,,,after the date and you go your diff ways,,,,call her and say,,,I got a quick question for ya,,,,,,,do you miss yet? hint,,dont do that if you got a feeling she was bored out of her mind while with you,,because your not gonna want to hear her answer lol,,,,,keep the date casual keep her grinning and she will miss you,,,,but dont by any means tell her anything about how cute she is or how sweet she is or crap like that on this date,,,,,like I said earlier,,she hears it all the time,,,,instead,,tell her its time for her to get her ass kicked at yahtzee,,,and by the way,,,it will be a pleasure kickin such a sexy ass too,,,no ya wont get smacked,,,she will grin and if your lucky and havent messed up at this point,,she will say we will see whos ass gets kicked,,,just remember to have fun,,and if she does something that bothers you,,tell her,,if she does something you like,,tell her it was ok lol,,,,you will be surprised how much fun you will have,,as well as how many dates you will be going on,,,confidence is worth more then any sports car or wallet when it comes to a real woman,,,women can buy thier own cars and have thier own money now adays,,,give them something they dont wake up with in the morning,,,,a big grin,,,,and she will let you make her grin every chance she gets,,good luck,,,,and remember to be nice,,,not a sissy ass mommas boy,,but old fashion nice,,, | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 10/31/2006 3:58:45 PM | glasgowguerilla...ha ha...I don't know what women you've been seeing but poor you!!!
I belly dance and I don't wear prosthetic anything, I don't even wear make-up unless it's a special occasion.
And experiencedme!!! Yah...what he said...
Although if you really want to know if you are a nice guy...this is the question. If you were in a place in your life, where you knew you could not handle a commitment with ANYONE, yet you meet this super sultry femme fetale. Cannot get her out of your mind. She would probably sleep with you on your next date, but you KNOW she wants a serious relationship. At the risk that you may lose any kind of relationship with her at all, or at the very least an intimate relationship. Could you tell her that you are not ready to commit? The ability to do the right thing is what defines "the nice guy." | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 11/1/2006 4:41:17 PM | listen guys are all full of crap they say all that stuff to let the women think they are nice i am honest thats all i tell it like it is you have guys here lying through ther teeth standing in front of their houses,and their harley davidson and their boats .......thats because they are trying to attract a broad they have no self esteem if all you have is a corvette to attract a women then a guy is shallow than a poop ditch .
i have been to a plenty of fish meeting and the guys are full of it .....cut the crap and say whats on your mind .
men are born liars they get it form their dads when they are growing up....i find in the USA people hate the truth they cannot stand it ...it makes them very uncomfortable( thats why republicans are winning in politics all liars all of them).... coupled that with sexual opression and you have problems .
hey my point is ,you tell woman what you are thinking most of them do not want to hear it but one or two will listen and give you a reward.
these guys with their bikes and their boats and hugging their dogs this is all an act ......knock of the crap ...be yourself
the reason a guy gets a flash car is he needs to attract a woman if you have confidence you can get a chick witrh a rusty old jeep .....and a girl who falls for a man becasue he has a nice car is a materialistic one sentenced peroxide bimbo ...thats all ........buy the way i have a rusty old jeep for sale ....any guys in here want to buy it .....  | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 11/1/2006 4:50:00 PM | | i am actually looking for a nice guy, someone who isn't a asshol- and stuck on themselves, like most of the guys here in the town where i live. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 11/1/2006 6:40:06 PM | No, women don't want a nice guy.
A womans idea of romance is totally different than a mans.
A women's idea of romance is a challenge to get the man to fall in love with her.
If a man is kissing a woman's ass, she thinks its no problem to easily have him, and loses interest right away.
Treat a woman like shit, play hard to get, and they are in love with you.
Tip your hand show her that you are into her, and you are toast!!
Guys, treat em like shit, and you will be "King of the World!" as Leonardo so eloquently put it!
L8r days, and better lays, L. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 11/3/2006 6:09:16 PM | here is a list of ten things that make women liars in no special order
1.control top hose
2.fake eyelashes
3.spanx
4.silicone filled push -up bras
5.false nails
6.hair extensions
7.spandex clothing
8.lycra clothing
9.make-up
10.....fake orgasms...................this is one all women have done ........ | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 11/3/2006 9:37:46 PM | | Answering purely from my own experience: Yes, women love nice guys. We have better flavor when they chew us up and spit us out. Not that I'm bitter or anything. Just getting resigned to it. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 11/3/2006 9:40:28 PM | What to tell a woman if she ever tells you she faked her orgasm: "You should have said something and I'd have tried harder." Of course, if she tells you this, she's probably lying and it was a real one! | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 11/3/2006 11:42:06 PM | | nolesfan, you do live in the wrong town. Of course, I could be a little biased against the town being a FSU and Tennessee fan. But, my experience has been that in general, the attitudes around there are very bad. There are some nice people, but I think too many people around there have become self-centered and that's where the problem is. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 11/4/2006 12:38:12 AM | Truth is for me....................that if a woman truly LOVES herself - she will only tolerate a decent "nice guy"....................
If a woman is attracted to someone who treats her "poorly".............it's because she doesn't have much self respect/esteem.
And.................same as a guy - so often the "bad boys" are better looking - and in some respects............JERKS - because they haven't HAD to show up being nice - and learn to be decent - their looks have spoiled them.
And lest not forget - women have SPOILED men................they sleep with them on a dime and then wonder why they are not treated with romance and specialness???? Duh - they don't require it.
and it does still exist - ROMANCE - but I believe - it takes a woman who knows she's special and is - to bring out the specialness in her man.................. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 11/4/2006 1:34:22 AM | | It's a shame, women have lowered the bar over the years, when seeking men. A shame for both sexes...most men feel as though in order to gain approval, they have to be bad boys, AKA jerks....and the woman who havent lowered their standards are stuck, with little to fish from in da pond! Personally I think such bad boy behavior should be boycotted, men will eventually return to the polite, suitors their mothers, hopefully, raised! | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 11/4/2006 1:51:04 PM | I so agree with you Dancingqueena...it actually surprises me when I do meet a gentleman these days. But they are out there. There is a difference there too between a gentleman and a nice guy.
I did think the days of chilvalry were gone for a looonnng time, but it's all dependant on who and what kind of people you date and allow into your life.
A woman that believes she deserves to be special, will be treated that way. There is a difference between being confident, knowing what you want, and being conceited and a priss. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 11/5/2006 2:59:19 PM | Message 240: here is a list of ten things that make women liars in no special order 1.control top hose 2.fake eyelashes 3.spanx 4.silicone filled push -up bras 5.false nails 6.hair extensions 7.spandex clothing 8.lycra clothing 9.make-up 10.....fake orgasms...................this is one all women have done ........
Sorry to have to ask, but what is a spanx????? Need to know if I lied about it.
As far as the fake orgasms (#10 in your post)......well, I suppose that's because some men just can't satisfy a woman??????? Sorry, Sweetie! Just work harder at it!  | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 11/5/2006 3:28:55 PM | | In turn yuletide, do men really want a nice woman? Seems to me that most guys on here are looking for the barbie dolls.....they talk about wanting a woman who'll be honest and loyal...one who will want to be with them only....and then they turn around and and reach for the "barbie"....so go figure. | |
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