| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 2/16/2008 5:56:20 PM | hears what i know about women and the hole "BAD " NICE " guy intrist
women r more atracted to bad guys more of the time then nice guys 4 a reason,
that one week out of the month youl hav a better chance of being a nice guy and getting a date,,,,,,,y you ask? wen women r ovulating thayd rather hav a man that can cunfert them through the emotinal proses of having a chield, alsoe wen a women is ovulating thear face slightly becoms more semetrical and more flush
the rest of those 3 weeks women wont a man that can provide and ceep her famly safe , wen man used to liv of the land we had to be tough and in a scenc " STREET SMART"
"NICE GUYS" all i hav to say is ceep dooing what your dooing, jus work out or do somthing that makes you produce more testosterone, men with more of this harmone r usualy the "BAD GUYS" | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 2/21/2008 3:03:25 PM | ^^^^^^ huh? Did ANY of that make ANY "cents" ???
Women want a man. A man can be nice and a man can be a bad boy. Real men know the difference and know when to take each role.
Women dont want a pushover, a lap dog nor a doormat. Too often men act like loosing her would be the end of his life so they do anything to keep her and when they sacrafice themselves she looses respect and moves on to another guy.
Relationships are give and take and if the woman you're with cant give and take gracefully then you have no hope of growing old with her... in which case you just continue:
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 2/21/2008 9:09:22 PM | aprincelyfrog is right...WOMEN WANT REAL MEN!
Like I've said before...a bit of naughty & nice is a great combination . That doesn't mean he should ever be mean , act arrogant or think he's God's gift to women...on the other hand there is no greater turn off than a man who allows a woman to walk all over him.
There has got to be a happy medium & if he's bald...send him my way!!
Peace, Love & Fat Girl Smooches,
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Lisa | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 2/21/2008 11:48:44 PM | what i rote was the partal scienc of the game , but to be onist every girl is diffrent and being both dad and good wont work all the time just like being good all the time or bad all the time wont work , just be yourself , if thay dont like you who fcuken cears , thats what this site is based on "" there is plenty of fish out there""
so be a bad guy  be a good guy be a lil of both
theres a women or girl foreach one of you  | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 2/22/2008 2:29:44 PM | Chris,
are you saying I can't have what I want!! 
I'm greedy...I WANT BOTH  & 
Peace, Love & Fat Girl Smooches,
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Lisa | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/2/2008 8:37:58 AM | A quote that was on TV last night;
"I used to be the nice guy, but nice guys finish last - so no more mister ****ing nice guy"
It just about sums it up... | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/2/2008 10:58:36 AM | "what i rote was the partal scienc of the game"
for F sake........use a spellchecker before you post any more.........you make yourself look like you dropped out of 5th grade.
"onist"...........thats not even close.
everyone makes the occasional typo, but damn youre bad. i hope you are just a really bad speller, and not typing that way on purpose, because that would be idiotic. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/10/2008 10:30:28 PM | I think women do want a nice guy, but just like some men, they are looking for the perfect male model too. you know ,tall, dark, good looking, mussles, rich. the bad boy image goes with that . but as the years pass for men as well as women bodies change, childern appear but they are all still looking for perfection. They still want the bad boy because they think they can tame them, instead of going with the nice guy. There is no challenge with the nice guy and it gets boring. maybe that was all good and exciting when we where all 21 years old . Now it is time to re-think and go with less of the bad boy and more of the nice guy. Exert the energy having fun togather instead of the thrill of tring to change someone that's not going to change and end up getting hurt in the end. just a thought | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/13/2008 8:29:19 AM | | I agree to a certain extend and also disagree. Men do the same thing. They have in their mind what they want and do not want also. I have talked with several men on this subject and when they found the nice girl, they either ran from it or wanted to see what else they were missing out on. I have not meet one guy on here that cannot really make up his mind on what he is really after. I think we all have a misperception in the mind at times. I personally want a nice guy....not looking for Mr. Universe just a down right honest nice guy. I am very specific in what I wrote, but I have found that most are bored or looking to just go from one to he next. These things are what I have experienced from this site. That is why I have remained single. If you say it be it. Most will have a come back on this and that is ok. We all have our thoughts and that is ok also. Hope everyone is having a nice day! | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/13/2008 3:38:16 PM | Women dont want predictability and thats what most nice guys tend to be. They have no sense of loss, there not scared of kicking you to the curb because theres a million others groveling men at there feet.
Give a woman her space, respect, love and enough attention to keep her happy but love yourself first and get your respect, your space and your attention too. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/15/2008 1:10:53 PM |
AM THE NICE GUY....................
.............one of many who always end up losing her to the jerks who'll treat her like crap.
I seem to be one of the guys who are "TOO GOOD OF A FRIEND" to date.
I'm the guy who will text you every single morning and tell you good morning and every single night to tell you sweet dreams.
I'm the guy who will hold you when you're crying and wipe away your tears.
I'm the guy who still thinks you're beautiful with no makeup on wearing sweats and a big t-shirt.
I'm the guy who won't pressure you to do things you don’t want to.
I'm the guy who will show up at your house with soup and a movie when you aren't feeling well.
I'm the guy who kisses you on the forehead.
I'm the guy who doesn’t kiss and tell.
I'm the guy who actually listens to you when you talk.
I'm the guy who's excited all day because I’m looking forward to our date that night.
I'm the guy who's just as happy holding your hand if you don't feel like kissing.
I'm the guy who is content to just be able to hold you and wants nothing more.
I'm the guy who can't help but smile when you walk into the room.
I'm the guy who's perfectly content with staying in and watching movies and cuddling.
I'm the guy who won't lie to you about where he's going or where he's been or who he's been with.
I'm the guy who gets butterflies when he hears your name.
I'm the guy who's not afraid to tell his friends he loves you.
I'm the guy who doesn't care about your imperfections and loves you more for them.
I'm the guy who will hold you while we watch the sunset.
I'M THE GUY WHO REALLY WANTS TO MAKE YOU THE HAPPIEST GIRL IN THE WORLD.
I'm the guy who will screw you blind while he does all that! | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/17/2008 2:29:29 PM | Woman always SAY they want a nice guy, but in reality they don't.
There is nice guy (2 words) = good guy, morals, funny, cool.
Then there is niceguy (1 word)= boring & wet, limp, soft, wussy.
Unfortunately women & girls get the two mixed up, there are plenty of nice guy's (the former) out there, but you overlook them or see them as a "friend" (yeah right) or misktake them for the "niceguy" the latter..... & then you complain when you end up with an abusive jerk....
It's a shame... for you that is...lol. There is a quote from a movie that I find myself using quite a lot "I used to be a nice guy, but nice guys finish last, so no more mister f**kin' nice guy". | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/17/2008 6:28:49 PM | Nice guys do a lot more listening than blasting thier big mouth. As a nice guy, I have confirmed that women allways say they want a nice guy but will go with an abusive loosed in a N.Y. minute.
Must be the brain damage from some bad boy beatings.!! | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/21/2008 11:02:56 AM |
hears what i know about women and the hole "BAD " NICE " guy intrist
women r more atracted to bad guys more of the time then nice guys 4 a reason,
that one week out of the month youl hav a better chance of being a nice guy and getting a date,,,,,,,y you ask? wen women r ovulating thayd rather hav a man that can cunfert them through the emotinal proses of having a chield, alsoe wen a women is ovulating thear face slightly becoms more semetrical and more flush
the rest of those 3 weeks women wont a man that can provide and ceep her famly safe , wen man used to liv of the land we had to be tough and in a scenc " STREET SMART"
"NICE GUYS" all i hav to say is ceep dooing what your dooing, jus work out or do somthing that makes you produce more testosterone, men with more of this harmone r usualy the "BAD GUYS"
I think women really want someone who can SPELL... | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/22/2008 6:09:39 AM | my first pof forum post ever----
gosh, i would like to think we do want to meet nice guys.
who honestly is okay with being treated poorly by a person youve decided to date.
yes i know there are those that have issues (on both sides) and let themselves get into those types of relationships.
you have to consider chemistry, as far as I'm concerned it's quite important. being attracted to a person is somewhat instant. if you realize that person isnt "nice", hopefully you make a decision for yourself and move on.
or there's this explanation... nice guys are USUALLY considered less attractive and they tend to compensate in some way. bad boys are USUALLY considered attractive and think they can do whatever they want because some girls will fall for cute and excuse behavior. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/23/2008 11:59:04 AM | | I can only speak for myself ... I like a man that is a good guy .. that shows care and concern to his partner, friends and family .... but, have to admit bad boys always seem to come my way .. and are more fun cause they live life with gusto ... But for me never work out cause they are reckless ... So Can I have the best of all things and get a good guy that lives life with some gusto ... | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/23/2008 5:55:29 PM | I was with a nice guy for years and yes, I really really do want another nice guy! He wasn't boring. There were no head games. He was kind, considerate, caring, lots of fun, good sense of humor...........
I think the dividing line there is that he wasn't attached at the hip to me. His world didn't circle around me...........He had a life........He had interests of his own.......He supported my interests and encouraged me to have a life, too. I think too often guys think they are nice guys when they are actually dependant..............
Give me a nice guy any day! | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/26/2008 2:46:06 AM | >Women dont want predictability and thats what most nice guys tend to be. They have >no sense of loss, there not scared of kicking you to the curb because theres a million >others groveling men at there feet.
No predictable is good but you won't find that. Guys aren't what they appear to be...it is just a mask to get your guard down. After two months of bliss and opening doors for you and pulling out chairs and being wonderful you discover something. This guy is not REAL. You realize one day when you are crying yourself to sleep every night you'll wonder why you are so lonely. Because he COLD and has no feelings. One day he will turn his back on you and say the most HORRIBLE things and then you will find yourself in a padded cell. YUP
I think I would prefer a guy who was screwed up in a different way. Perhaps he is bizarre that is ok. Maybe he has tantrums...could be because he cares. As long as he is loyal and affectionate he can be whatever else.
Woman have needs btw and I wonder if men even care. Most of the time they just want what they can get and they move on they don't care about where you are at in your life.
Nice guy isn't so nice... that is an act. It is some type of Murphy's law a guy will only be nice if you an alcholic or if you beat him daily or you restrict him.
In my experience the more you respect someone's space and try to be generous the more of an Azzhole they become. Yeah..when all else fails stay single and sane. Men and their drama pfffttt | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/26/2008 9:03:28 AM |
In my experience the more you respect someone's space and try to be generous the more of an Azzhole they become. Yeah..when all else fails stay single and sane. Men and their drama pfffttt
WOW......Who kicked your puppy dog?????????.... | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/26/2008 9:29:36 AM | By her age and what she posted, she probably went through a good relationship that turned bad. I will have to agree with her that people put on their best show when first meeting somebody, but, she has a long way to go. Heck, I've been down that road too. Any of us here that have "divorced" got together with the person for life and it did not work out. Reasons................people do change, but, we should all adapt to that change unless it's for a very bad reason.
Keep your head up. One bad experience does not make all men and women bad. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/26/2008 9:33:41 AM |
what i rote was the partal scienc of the game , but to be onist every girl is diffrent and being both dad and good wont work all the time just like being good all the time or bad all the time wont work , just be yourself , if thay dont like you who fcuken cears , thats what this site is based on "" there is plenty of fish out there""
Whatever the hell you're smoking it is not working for you. Put the pipe down and use both hands on a dictionary...My god dude, you're an embarrassment to every male in this forum....
Women want what they want. There is no rhyme or reason to the genetic make up of a womans mind, they are who they are. Living in South Florida the last few years I have never observed so many emotionally distressed human beings as I have here. I've said this before, if it wasn't for the sun, water and the beaches my dumb A$$ would the hell outta here.....LOL.....Give me a good old midwest girl anyday..... | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 3/26/2008 10:35:40 AM | | Cajun, there are other places that are warm year round besides Florida....LOL...For now I'll go hang out in the estuaries and remote beaches on the kayak to hide from the whackos, gang bangers, sickos, lunatic drivers, and the emotionally challenged men and women......Just so I'm not off subject. I do believe most intelligent women want a nice guy, it's just that the pickens are so slim that when they do find one they think there's something wrong....lol | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 4/3/2008 12:05:04 AM | I feel there HAS to be a mix of nice and bad in every guy...woman need to know there is SOME kind of mystery to a man....... or else it is a boring chase......
Being nice at core values is GREAT...loyalty, honesty... etc... BUT when you want to do something SPECIAL...then you MIGHT want to get out the "bad" part of you, guys...... make the women WANT TO KNOW whats up next..... tease them...flirt with them...and make them ASK.....get them WANTING you...hehehehe!
Of course you have to know what is best for the woman.....get to know her likes and dislikes.......KNOW what makes her smile.......and take it from there..... don't lead them to a large cliff with their eyes blindfolded and then just tell them to step off........ you will never see them again!! | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 4/6/2008 8:57:59 PM |
Do women really want a nice guy?
Simply put, yes. I'd prefer a nice guy over an ***hole.
That being said, though, I don't want a man who has no backbone who responds with "how high?" when I say "jump!"
*grin* | |
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