| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 8/7/2006 8:29:25 AM | | I would have to agree with creamy * your joke was hilarious btw hun i bout fell out of my chair*, most if not alot of us women want a nice guy that can be a lil bad sometimes. We all can be a lil bad so there is nothing wrong in asking for that as well. Why is it that alot of guys wont take the time to get to know a woman when they meet her? If she doesnt look like barbie on the first meeting, forget it, date over and never hear from them again. Seems like alot of guys complain that all they want is a nice woman that will care about them, and yet when you dig deeper they want a nice woman, that looks like barbie, drives a jag, makes a billion dollars a year. I know I am cute, funny, attractive, love to make other people laugh, have a very good heart and yet finding a guy thats along the same lines is like trying to find water at polk cty jail *not that I have been there LOL*. Why do all the nice women and nice men have such a hard time hookin up with each other instead of the screwballs? | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 8/7/2006 9:25:01 PM | I apologize to OP but I had to run off topic plz forgive me.....
SO tell us marc .. please do tell us ...WHAT DO YOU WANT IN A WOMAN ???
because I have heard we as women want this.... and we as women want that ....
but I havent heard anything that seems to satisfy what you want
so plz tell us .. I for one am very curious to know
what YOU >>marc0003 wants in HIS woman....
 
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 8/13/2006 4:23:42 PM | younger women tend to date bad boys and jerks because they don't know any better....they think they can change them....then there are us older women who only want nice guys because we know u can't change a man, we've learned the hard way
i really would like to find a nice guy....one not hiding anything like alcoholism .... i can't seem to find them....
in fact i got stood up today, TWICE by the same guys from this site...yeah i was dumb to give him a second chance when he missed lunch...well he missed dinner too...and guess what now he's missed out on a really nice woman because there is no third chance...
and if any of u women are interested in who he is so you can avoid him like the plague let me know....because no one deserves that | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 8/13/2006 4:55:26 PM | and if any of u women are interested in who he is so you can avoid him like the plague let me know....because no one deserves that
well i was gonna ask whom it was in private but u except only mail from the opposite sex hahahahahahahaha so guess my curiosity will have to go unanswered ..geeze and I was really wanting to know who it was too ..
Jarbar you are to sweet  
I posted ^^^^^^^^ in the correct forum to lol | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 8/13/2006 5:41:37 PM | | Of course I do.....Im not gonna answer for all women cause most women say they want a nice guy and the guy ends up being "to nice" which is bs in my eyes. a man can never be to nice. My issue is that most ppl only see the outside not the inside. I am a full figured woman but im very sweet and im laid back and relaxed and i would give the world for a "nice guy that would treat me right. I myself hate trying to talk to someone i like. I guess you could say im alittle shy. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 8/13/2006 5:44:43 PM | | See....its the ones that you all pass by bc they arent perfect that could really make you happy. but instead you want a barbie that will treat u like shit and walk all over u. Bc they are "hot" well....a woman has more then a pair of tits to show how beautiful she really is. and if guys cant see that then they dont deserve a beautiful woman like me. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 8/13/2006 6:51:11 PM | scared 2 who are you addressing >???? you sound frustrated to a degree.. you did however say something that I would like to address...
you said>>
Im not gonna answer for all women cause most women say they want a nice guy and the guy ends up being "to nice" which is bs in my eyes. a man can never be to nice. My issue is that most ppl only see the outside not the inside.
I have never come across a "too nice of a guy" kinda man.. they are however sweet wonderful kind and very giving but none have been "too nice "not to want to be with..
I am sure tons of men pass me by because of me being a larger woman but then ;) they are the ones that missed out
so just stop take a deep breath and let it out and continue on dont let a man get to you in the way that has caused you to be so frustrated...
have a hug>>> | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 8/13/2006 7:25:31 PM | | I think women do and would like a nice guy who treats them with repect and that will make love to them and one that won't hert them at all i had a grilfriend who wanted a nice guy and she got me but some women are attracted to jerks sometime and are so hard headed to saty with them. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 8/13/2006 8:19:16 PM | | ok i'll accept messages from other women now...so we can compare notes and tell who the jerks are.... | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 8/15/2006 10:50:26 AM | Msg80...Absolutly BEAUTIFUL message...that is what most of the girls with lots of heart are looking for...I hope you find the one who deserves this from you.....they would have a very happy life, and so would you!!!!
~Micheline~ | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 8/15/2006 1:36:41 PM | | Im starting to believe no. Last couple of girls ive seen dont like nice too quick. It scares them off. Wish I could begin all over with both of them, but Ive already been too nice. And I didnt think it was any big deal. Tough to gauge whats proper when you meet someone. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 8/15/2006 1:49:26 PM | Dont know where you looking . but i do know there is few good honest decent woman out there like myshelf looking for a nice honest guy. i see over 22,895 plus men on here or so online . sometimes a person looking so hard trying to fine the person of there dream . because they already make up one in there head never the less not saying settle for less . but lower expectation a little bit Am from another country with a diffrence culture . living here in US i like dating interracial my ex his white . single divorce honest attractive own my business independ so what keeping a good guy from knowing more about me . i belive is the black and white thing dont see it like that i belive love come in all diffrence color. mabey if person open there mind just a little bit you might just fine yourshelf with a good woman inlove.  | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 9/22/2006 7:48:46 PM | Maybe you need to look at a woman that is not the normal kind of woman you know. Maybe it is the choice of woman that is the problem?
I adore a nice man that treats me right and I believe in a 50/50 relationship however nice guys are hard to find sometimes. Some nice guys have been soooooo hurt it is har to handle the stories and you almost have to hate the women who have hurt nice guys. But then again if a nice guy went for a nice girl then you would be doing good...
Nice guys are wonderful and well you will meet her one day. Dont give up on it. She is out there somewhere... :) Nice women do exist just give it time.. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 9/22/2006 8:07:38 PM | Yes, the ladies you would want that are nice. They want a nice guy to complement themselves. I have found that there are a lot of jerks, equally men and women. On the other side though. There are more nice men that are looking for a nice lady. Those that say that they want a bad boy, let them have the bad boy. After he beats the crap out of them a few times they will not know how to have a normal relationship. I mention this because I am a counselor and see it every day. They always say I thought I could make him change. They don't want to change. They will never change.
So, keep looking! There is a nice lady for each nice guy. You just have to go through a bunch of not so nice ones on the way to that soul mate. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 9/23/2006 6:30:26 PM | | I can't believe that this thread is still going. I still stand by my statement that women may say they want a nice guy but they are attracted to the bad boy. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 9/23/2006 7:15:36 PM | Let's REVERSE that question.. do men really want nice girls. NOT!!!!! I've seen time and time again guys who need that constant challenge, (although they deny it) The more a girl treats them like s.t (which I've never done and still won't do because it's just not me) the more they are "in love". So it works both ways. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 9/23/2006 8:14:33 PM | Thank you , LadysNcuffs. That is what I see as well. I want a nice guy but they seem to all want the bad girls who treats them like crap.
The so called nice guys are all in such a hurry they don't even let you catch your breath. WHat is wrong with nice and easy . Getting to know each other. When there is a need for rushing there is generally a need for bedding. Sorry guys but if a quick roll in the sack or a friend with benefits is what you are looking for , count me out !!!!!!
I am a good woman , yes I am divorced . I was married for 17 years and he was a nice guy too , at first. Tried to make it work because I took my vows seriously . But it takes two to work on a relationship. One person cannot save a marriage.
Am I looking for a nice guy ? Hell Yes !!!!!!!!!! Am I willing to compromise who I am and what I believe for a so called good guy who just wants some fun ?.....NO !!
I am a full figured woman, have been told I am attractive. But you know what ? Being told I am attractive does not woo me into bed. Feelings for the man , mutual respect and admiration that is what woo's me. Sex is an extension of love not a pre-requisite. Thank you very much . So when I meet a nice guy who is honestly looking for a nice woman. When I meet a decent guy who realy wants to get to know the lady and no tthe whore in the bedroom then and only then will you have a valid point. This entire threat is a moot point. I don't know who all the nice guys have been contacting but it certainly has not been me , lol.
So if there are any really nice guys out there who aren;t afraid to be with a full figured woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to say it . Let me know , cause I haven't met any yet 
And Dancer I have met a few who are like the one you describe. More than likely one of them is the one you speak of . However, I am sure there are more than a few to be found here. 
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 9/23/2006 8:43:38 PM | | Let me tell you about being a nice guy. we give til' there is no more and still try to give.and if we stop then we get called A-HOLES.I'm a nice guy that finally got tired of getting stepped on and now don'T know if it's worth the effert to look for some one else. I did all that I was asked of and more and ended up broken all ways.And no God is not going to help so don't even go there!!!!Oh I pick up the pieces as I already am trying toBut the saying "nice guys finish last" is pretty much true.Oh and ladys great lines like your to nice well that just finishs the answer before the question is finished. | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 9/23/2006 9:55:35 PM | | Yes a real women want a nice guy. I can't think any girl would want some one who wasn't nice. Candylee34 | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 9/24/2006 12:11:04 AM | Yeah the thread is still going lol
However she does pose a point. How many nice guys are really looking for a nice girl? For that matter a nice woman?
I have been doing the dating thing for about a few months now had I have had my fair share of men really only wanting sex. Dont get me wrong some may love that "one date lets have sex thing" but I am not built that way nor do I like after one date the option to going there with someone. I believe that it takes time and alot of dates to know someone. I am not saying that I am not picky. For I am. I would rather have a nice guy that can understand how I am wired. But there arent many nice men that I have met so far that really are nice. It would be great to find a nice guy... It would be ideal for me at least to have this. So I really I am looking for a nice guy. Yes I am. When I find him I will have to let you meet him...  | |
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| Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 9/24/2006 12:39:41 AM | | I know how it is to be a nice guy, and Ive always believed that nice guys finish last but atleast they finish. Unfortunatly Ive seen too many beautiful and attractive lady friends of mine(one rather recently) go for jerk-offs that would rather get stoned and thrown in jail than to truly cherrish the wonderful person whos right there infront of them. *sigh* I wish I could show her that she truly deserves a guy who will treat her the way any woman should truly be treated, maybe not me(though i would kill for a chance) but just someone halfway decent. Ive known her since we were in the 2nd grade, and even then i had a crush on her. Unfortunatly I let chance after chance slip until now when shes waiting for some dumb ass while hes waiting for his get-out-of-jail card. And the worst part is is that Im the one talkin to her tryin to find out what the hell is so right about someone who is only going to bring her down in the end. WTF!!!!! I wish someone could explain this crap to me as to why the smart ones always seem to do something stupid | |
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