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Posted: 6/24/2004 1:14:23 PM | | me either i think kids today are great. i mean dawson saved my life and i think thats what kids are for, to save some one before they go to far | |
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alura2
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| Re: Is 14 to young to be a MOMMY
Posted: 6/24/2004 1:16:28 PM | | we can only hope.....if my kids we'rnt here after my breakup..i wouldnt be here. I saw no reason to live after except for them. | |
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| Re: Is 14 to young to be a MOMMY
Posted: 6/24/2004 1:25:45 PM | 1. Kids
2. Dog
3. House
4. Self
5. Husbond
That’s that the Ex’s priority list was.
But I believe that a mans role in a relationship is:
1. kids
2. Keep wife as happy as possible
3. Finance (This one always gets blended in to 1 and 2)
4. House
5. Cars
6. Self
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 29 | |
| Re: Is 14 to young to be a MOMMY
Posted: 6/24/2004 1:28:33 PM | my ex...
1 me...
2 me..
3 me...
4 kids playtime
5 beer
6 beer
7 movies
8 friends
9credit cards..
10 oh yah i got a wife?? | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 32 | |
| Re: Is 14 to young to be a MOMMY
Posted: 6/24/2004 1:53:02 PM | i remember driving the day after he left... i was so upset...i was driving too fast...and not caring..
there was the busiest intersection on that highway and i didnt stop...i sped through it hoping someone would hit me. I closed my eyes but the light turend green and soemone ran the red but slammed o nthe brakes and stopped at the crosswalk. I was hoping i would of died there.
a few months later...i found out he had a gf...i had a bottle of t 3's i n my hands.. ready to down the bottle..my baby started crying at 2 am...and i snapped out of it.
I thoguth of my kids and then told my parents i needed to go back to chioces to teach. I had to imerse myself i nhelping ppl thus helping myself.
I realized...screw him...the best thing i can do is to be better than him... | |
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| Re: Is 14 to young to be a MOMMY
Posted: 6/24/2004 2:00:12 PM | Sooo glad to hear you quit that SH*T Dawson. It’s just so bad for you and defiantly bad for kids.
I found a bag of meth in my brother in laws room once while I was fixing his window for him. My Ex’s son stays over there every other weekend. I hauled my brother in laws butt outside and was proceeding to kick it between his shoulder blades when the Ex literally had to wrap herself around me to stop me. I’m not a violent man at all. But the thought of this A$ having that stuff around the kid I was helping to raise just made me see red. All I could see was the coroner telling me that my son died from the SH*T that my brother in law brought into the house.
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| Re: Is 14 to young to be a MOMMY
Posted: 6/24/2004 2:13:36 PM | | i got in with the wrong crowd and found myself trying everything i could get my hands on but i found out i was pregnant i quit everything | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 35 | |
| Re: Is 14 to young to be a MOMMY
Posted: 6/24/2004 2:20:28 PM | my dad in law smokes like a smoke stack and so does my ex... i hate it...my ex is smart enoough to do it in his room but my dad i nlaw does it all over the house.
when they were babies he took it to his room or outside but now hes fukin lazy and doesnt move..it makes me mad as hell...andi tell hi mto get out of the room but its his house.
Im afraid its harmed the kids already. My kids are there all day while im at work. He almost always smokes in his room but forgets and wanders around with that stick in his bloody hand | |
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| Re: Is 14 to young to be a MOMMY
Posted: 6/24/2004 2:58:42 PM | Oooo So not good Alura. I wish you could get the little ones away from that. I would hate to think that they would suffer in there lives from someone that was too much of a butthead to keep it away from them.
I smoke cigarettes and go to the garage to do it. I won’t let anyone smoke in my house not even myself. I’ll put it out if the kids are around or go somewhere where the kids are not around. And that’s just cigarettes.
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| Re: Is 14 to young to be a MOMMY
Posted: 6/24/2004 3:02:33 PM | | i got in with the wrong crowd and found myself trying everything i could get my hands on but i found out i was pregnant i quit everything.. so i give dawson credit for saving me | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 38 | |
| Re: Is 14 to young to be a MOMMY
Posted: 6/24/2004 3:16:46 PM | thats realy good...
i used to smoke lots but now i only do it evry few weeks i had stopped for 5 yrs.
Im stricly social only. I hate smking but soemtimes im super stressed or im out at a club and bum one.
it makes me mad when my in law smokes around them...i ask him to move and soemtimes he puts it out. It like a 3rd arm for him...he fogets its there.
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| Re: Is 14 to young to be a MOMMY
Posted: 6/24/2004 3:25:40 PM | | i never really smoked that many cigerettes it was worse for me.. i hate it when people smoke around children and pregnant woman mostly everyone. i had this shirt when i was pregnant with dawson and my brother got it for me it said i'm pregnant, i'm in a bad mood, so if i was you i'd take all your food and run. there's another one that says pregnant woman make way. | |
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alura2
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| Is 14 to young to be a MOMMY
Posted: 11/21/2004 4:34:40 PM | | hi dawson04 hey it is to young to be a mother cause ur losing all ur fun life to join my cousin 14 now n a mother n she does a good job at it everywhere u see her u see the baby only when she at school but its ur life to have a baby so young but things happen ok | |
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| Re: Is 14 to young to be a MOMMY
Posted: 11/21/2004 6:35:17 PM | | hey dawson, how goes it?? i didn't have my son til i was 21 and i don't know. 14 is young but it makes a person grow up waaay too fast and you lose out on being a "teen". growing up fast sucks. but now you i am sure that your hubby loves him as his own, i hope and everything is good!! | |
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| Re: Is 14 to young to be a MOMMY
Posted: 11/22/2004 3:09:26 PM | | yea i think so. he taught him to play baseball and to play soccer. dawson is the team and kyle is a assiant coach. you do grow up fast but that doesn't always have to be bad. if i didin;t get pregannat i don't know where i would be today i was drinking and smoking and on my way down a terrible road and dawson saved me | |
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| Is 14 to young to be a MOMMY
Posted: 11/27/2004 8:28:51 PM | | 14 is too young to be a mommy. One of the biggest problems in this country is kids having kids. Most are too immature to care for themselves, and the babies are often raised by the grandparents. At 14, you're still a kid. You're not at the physical or emotional maturity level to jump into adulthood overnight. That being said, if you put your heart and soul into being a good parent, it will make you a better person later in life. | |
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| Re: Is 14 to young to be a MOMMY
Posted: 12/2/2004 3:02:56 AM | i was quite a young mum but not as young as u...i had my little girl when i was 19......i love bein a mum but sometimes i wonder if she is gettin everything she needs from me..
her dad isnt around & has never been & she has now started playschool & she sees all the dads picking their kids up & she always asks where her dad is & it beaks my heart as i have no idea where he is ......
i try 2 give her as much of my time as possible & i give her all my love, & all my money goes 2 her but i still wonder if she is gettin what she needs.....
we will never truly know the answer 2 this until they grow in 2 adults & we can watch how they live their lives ... then we will truly know how a good a job we r doing xxx
good luck babe xxxx | |
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