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 HeartStar2

Joined: 1/5/2007
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Posted: 1/10/2007 10:05:59 PM
I like when a man takes control. I like to be submissve during sex, i;m always the one in control of myself most times. I like to not be in control for a little while, its more fun for me.
 leroyhenders

Joined: 10/27/2006
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Posted: 1/13/2007 3:04:18 AM
well if it was a lady like trop007 would let her
 jo~

Joined: 1/2/2007
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Posted: 1/13/2007 3:13:35 AM
At the moment..............MY RIGHT HAND!!!!!!!!!!!
 Wolves-Lower

Joined: 9/9/2006
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Posted: 1/13/2007 6:49:05 AM
Alpha is better!
 Alpha Wolf

Joined: 1/9/2007
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Posted: 1/13/2007 7:08:04 AM
i usually take the lead, but it is a big turn on to have the woman take charge as well. any guy that has been tied down and teased can relate to this. ;-)
 mysticrogue

Joined: 11/17/2005
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Posted: 1/13/2007 11:36:50 AM
hmmm.... I am picturing a tall blonde Scandinavian dominotrix throwing me on the bed and raping me...Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm delisciouso.

If she she was a muscle bound woman with a starving libido...that would be a way big turn on. It would look funny...we would look like thus: a Jack Russel Terrier (me) and the muscular Pitt Bull (her). I would proudly provide pleasure to my Xenia Warrior Princess..just to her here do that famous yell as she cliimaxes.. or if she was a this tall redneck girl..YEEHAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! as she gyrates up and down...ie she is saving a horse and riding her cowboy.
 dragonshungry

Joined: 1/5/2007
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Posted: 1/13/2007 12:59:10 PM
well I am of course....but i would love anothe dom to woo me for a change!
 *buzz*

Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 1/13/2007 1:35:48 PM
Oh - oh ... 'lion share' we both get in our own ways
 WayTooNiceGirl

Joined: 12/6/2006
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Posted: 1/13/2007 9:25:18 PM
Sorry, don't see any logic at all in your case. Submission is submission, and domination is domination. Straightforward. Maybe you're thinking of control, not domination.

Professional submissives? I think that's what escorts/prostitutes are to an extent. In the eyes of the consumer.

Also, being submissive is no more selfish than being dominant is. Think about it. Both are very giving. What would be selfish would be pursuing your wants/needs at the expense of your partner's wants/needs. I'm talking about a two-way relationship though, not a "hybrid" where one person is neither dominant nor submissive.


1. Women whom are submissive inside the bedroom are more likely to be dominant in everyday life.

Which translates into less sexual effort on their part and thus, they are really once again being dominant, in terms of getting what they want/demand sexually.

2. Women whom are dominant inside the bedroom, are more likely to be submissive in everyday life. Which really means less effort for me. hehe not that I mind. GRIN But it still means they are more submissive.

There is a reason why there are so many Professional Dominatrixes while I don't think I've ever heard of a professional submissive. ie. men pay for the SERVICES of a Dominatrix (which is an oxymoron in itself). While there are no professional submissives, ... just regular prostitutes whom I imagine once again do most of the "work".

hehe modern lipstick feminism gone awry and confusing real power with sexual power because they are still playing by the rules of a mans world.

After all is said and done. I much prefer balance in a real relationship. It's selfish to want to be submissive all the time.
 mari_sam

Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 1/15/2007 12:03:20 PM
Damn there must be alot of Gemini's on this site, lol

Good to see so many people that share the same thoughts!!

Sam
 Bubbles1979

Joined: 7/5/2006
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Posted: 1/15/2007 12:11:08 PM
I LOVE to be dominated although it's fun to switch it up every once in a while...
 Mr.1234

Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 87
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Posted: 1/15/2007 1:02:02 PM
ME! but i wish just once she would...
 chemistrymajor8

Joined: 12/23/2006
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Posted: 1/15/2007 2:05:38 PM
I love lots of foreplay including pleasing my partner...hearing her and watching her pleasure. Once she is right there I love to make love using one of many dominant positions. Communication is key and she may even want to see what is causing so much pleasure...close up...
 Algy

Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 89
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Posted: 1/15/2007 2:28:59 PM
Tiffany Fallon. I’d put up posters of other women but there just isn’t any room left on my wall.
 69_dude

Joined: 10/30/2006
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Posted: 1/15/2007 2:41:19 PM
Yes I think it is very fair to switch it up...
that being said sometimes you have to push the other person into being more dominant...sounds odd but it is true. I actually like getting dominated... but it really happens fairly rarely...
don't get me wrong I like being take charge guy... I just want to change it up now and then, that is all
so switch it up and have fun!
 dit007

Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 91
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Posted: 1/15/2007 3:12:19 PM
I agree it is more pleasurable to take turns.
 BusterUK

Joined: 1/8/2007
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Posted: 1/15/2007 3:37:47 PM
She does if shes cleaning, i do if i'm sleeping
 originaltoyou

Joined: 11/20/2006
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Posted: 1/15/2007 4:44:20 PM
Me unless she turns into miss Bobbitt !
 ~Amoré~

Joined: 1/17/2006
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Posted: 1/15/2007 4:52:26 PM
I like to take control equally - but only if he "lets" me and is not being submissive. I like him to be the aggressor too.
 fwblooking

Joined: 12/15/2006
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Posted: 1/17/2007 12:37:47 AM
Well, I\'ve had psychiatrist friends tell me that the reason I am somewhat submissive in bed, is because I am in a high-stress career field. I can see their logic...

I\'ve had normal friends tell me that I\'m too effing apathetic and lazy to get off my back and be on top once in a while. Their logic is also clear to me...

But sometimes, it\'s just too much fun to be tied up and abused until the wee hours of the morning.

Besides... the scars make for interesting conversation.
 Ravager

Joined: 2/1/2004
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Posted: 1/17/2007 1:24:21 AM
Eh....It doesn't take much of a guess to know that I am not submissive.

Of course, I would love for it to be an equal thing.

Just never seems to turn out that way.
 lypiphera

Joined: 1/8/2007
Msg: 97
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Posted: 1/17/2007 1:32:01 AM
The man! Themanthemantheman!

<--- sexually submissive and proud of it.
 ReddCurrlz

Joined: 10/6/2005
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Posted: 1/17/2007 5:42:31 AM
I have to agree with FWB, I've heard that as well about being in such a high stress career field, or those that are high ranking in their jobs, loving to be dominated. I have a friend who is a Lieutenant in the military. Welll, I love calling a man by his title, doctor, Lieutenant, Colonel - it's so hot, but he wont let me call him Lt. He likes me to dominate him.

I can't be demeaning or anything like that but I can def. be in control, but it is nice to be dominated as well. I could never be into bdsm because i like both roles too much. LOL

Great topic btw.
 Algy

Joined: 11/3/2006
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Posted: 1/17/2007 10:33:07 AM
Redd: Lieutenants are generally not perceived as being high ranking or in high stress positions. And if he likes to be dominated, then the military is a good place for him.

OT: Me. I’m a blanket hog.
 k.kong

Joined: 1/4/2006
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Posted: 1/17/2007 12:22:05 PM
Whoever is holding the whip (yes--all permutations)
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