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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 12/7/2006 5:12:43 AM | I watched My LAte wife Deb, Die of smoking related Lung cancer Spread to all major organs. She was completely bald all over, from 6 rounds of chemotherapy and Maximum curative radiation. So weak she could barely walk or even sit up straight some days.
Spent 10,000 dollars over 3 years out of pocket to keep fighting and I HAD GOOD HEALTH INSURANCE. The insurance company spent a lot more.
The tumor was pressing on her vocal nerves and she good not talk most if the time adn carried a board and marker in case she could not talk. No smoking is NOT SEXY AT ALL. I do not preach eithher but am a Lung Cancer advocate. sorry hit a personal nerve there. | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 12/7/2006 5:31:55 PM | Whoa their big guy, we don't want to seem disrespectful or your belated wife. Please don't take it wrong, we mean no harm.
Well dude..... ya just pissed all over this thread...not sayin' in a bad way. But we're just talkin' bull. It is the sexiness that alot of newbies find appealing that makes them smoke. I'm not advocating it. I'm just sayin....yes it is sexy to watch. Maybe not do...kinda like well...porn ~ soft porn.
But let me tell ya....the art of the French inhale is awesome. But NOT for people with irritated or prone sinuses. But it is very, very, sexy. If you can do it right. It takes alot of smoke inhaled to do it, which probably isn't good.
Practice...I'll be back to check your work. | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 12/8/2006 2:40:18 AM | I wouldnt say anything bad about someone expericing a death of a loved one. My mother and my grandmother both died of cancer. My grandmother in fact of lung cancer, a woman who never smoked a cigarette in her entire life. While I am sure things like cigarettes easily contribute to things like cancer, it has alot to do with genes and herdity. Its a crap shoot no matter how you look at it. Some people dont smoke, die of lung cancer in smoke free homes, some people smoke heavily and live to be a 100 and healthy. Some people who smoke have terrible looking lungs, and some you wouldnt even know they smoke.
You hear people who say they smoke because of addiction, you hear some say they do it because they just love to smoke. Esp today people are aware of those risks and its a personal decision, you know the odds, you take the chance. I mean realistically speaking, you will never convince the world to give up the habbit, and with the now proven effects of second hand smoking, emissions from cars, smog, poulltants in the air from everything from factorys to aerosol, it doesnt really matter if your a smoker or not, you still have just as much a chance of devloping cancer. We dont live in a safe air enviroment so those who smoke might as well. Im saying a person should take up the habbit, but it is a personal choice for each individual to make, I dont condone it, Im not against it. Im strictly for the freedom for a person to make up their own mind. We can go with the arguement its my air as well, and I shouldnt suffer for someone else actions, but come on, everyone suffers for the actions of others in some way, but we split it into levels. I personally hate Wal Mart, but due to their corparate greed its the only department store in my town. Everything else is 30 minutes to an hour away. You say, if you dont like Wal Mart, go somewhere else, though I could easily say, if you dont like smokers when your eating out, or here or there, go somewhere else. Of course I think that throws up the, what about my rights question.
Ok well, my rights. I hate Wal Mart, everything they stand for, the way the drive mom and pop buisness's out of buisness. You go, but its not the same, your not going to die from hating Wal Mart. Though the concept stress's me out severly, and stress is a magor factor in things such as heart disease and heart attacks and such so there for over time, yes such a thing very well could lead to my death. I hate alot of things. Society and their set standards that we are supposed to follow. I have metal in my face, lots of piercings, this keeps me from getting this job, or if I do, I have to hide something that I feel is a part of me, even on a spirtual level because of others? However I am in a minority right, so my opinion doesnt mean as much. A non smoker who doesnt want smoke around them is somewhat of a magority so that makes their ideas, statements, and beliefs more valid, it works alot like religion. Here is the thing though, there really is no point in arguing it. Arguments are purposly taliored to fit whatever side of the argument your on. You cant change this sides beliefs, and they cant change yours. They have just as many pros as you have cons, but theirs are dismissed because you are strong to your beliefs and feel justifiablly right in your cause. The other side of the coin flips the same.
Well I dont think my rights should be infringed upon because another wants to express their own right to do something. Society deems it bad, and therefor it is, and so I shouldnt have to experience it. Life is a gamble all the way around isnt it. Murder is bad, but theres the chance your going to be a part of it, despite the odds being more or less. So yea, actually you are infringing on anothers rights by trying to take one away in order to make your life a little more peachy. Yet your not really accomplishing anything. Take an issue like smoking and lets give a best case scenrio. You make smoking the minority enough to the point it becomes outlawed. Oh well heres a good idea, because we all saw how outlawing drugs worked right? Peer pressures a **** and addiction starts in the teens. However you talk to enough teens and you will find one of the most common underlying but out noted reasons for their rebellion intos drugs and alcohol is the get pissed off at the parents. So you outlaw smoking and the number of people who do it goes up for a variety of reasons from rebellion to addiction. Now you have killed the progress you have made, still have the same problem, only now your tax dollars are going to funds to stop a person from doing something that we once taxed so atleast the money was being used to help America overall as oppossed to harming it. Its a simple theory that anyone can probally agree with is a possibility.
Im going on a rant I know, but you know, society is pretty ****ed up. Society shouldnt be able to deem something bad, and it automatically be everyone who is a part of it, no indiduality there, and I might be wrong but I kind of thought that was one of the ideas the country was founded on, the right to be your own person and make your own decisions. However we are all worried about everyone else and what they are doing and how it affects us, when maybe, and I know its possibly an inane concept that we cant very well be truly privy to, but lets say we just live our own lives, accept people for who they are, what they are, and let them do what they feel is best for them, and whether we condone it or not accept its their decision. One nation under god, in god we trust, but never once did those statements clarify that any specific god was being spoken of, we made that implication, otherwise the freedom of religion amendment would have been irrelevent. It kind of just say, you have the right to believe what you choose to believe. Express it, show it, I might not like it, it might make me angry, but do it, Ill respect you for it. We lose our primitive survival of the fittest insticts only to spend our life expressing one sided opinions in arguements that get us no where? Isnt life just a little too short for that? Let the people live as they please. You can reach that one soul here and there and change there lifes, but for every one, theres a million minds that cant be budged and probally a million more you segregate in the process. So as the constitution says let the people be free, quit worrying about them and what they do, and life your life. When you take an issue like smoking, once sexy because women werent supposed to do it and it made them bad, we have kind of readded the sex appeal because on a diffrent level but much the same, it makes them a bad girl to know the risks and still do it cuz its once again very frowned upon. As long as you label it bad, people are going to love it.
This really has nothing to do with the post of a mans wife who died because she was a smoker so dont take it that way. It was simply a rant I went on due to some of the things I have seen and heard.
In closing I have noticed one other trait among men in general. Both smoking and non smoking men say they tend to notice women that are smokers more often then those who arent.
In closing I have decided what I think. Is smoking sexy? It can be, it depends on a variety of things as I have analyized this. If they look nature doing it, if they do it emininely, the brand, as I do find the longer ciggarettes, the 120s I believed more attractive, the sensual way in which a woman does it, then again, some women look more natural and sexy with a brown filter then a white one. Some women are very much a turn off when smoking. Some women pull off a cigarette case, or even cigars, and some dont. Some seem a slave to the habbit and its sexy, in others its repulsive. So yes, I think smoking can be extremely sexy as well as alluring, but its its on an individually basis and there are a ton of factors to decide. In general I dont think you can go, oh any woman smoking a 120 is sexy. It can be a prefrence, but is smoking sexy? Thats a pointless question. You cant say yes, its more a typecast thing. You cant anymore say yes then no. You dont find everyone alive sexy, so you cant sexy that a woman smoking is sexy. Just as your probally attracted to certain types of people when you date, you are attracted to certain types of smokers when its a turn on.
With that said, if I were dating a non smoker who didnt smoke and I thought it would be a turn on, no I would not ask them to. I would state that I think the idea of them smoking is hot. I would tell them I did not want them to for me. I would not encourge them, and I would not try to discourge them. If they told me they were thinking about it. I would simply say, look at the facts, weigh the risks, then make your own decision. So please, tell me how wrong I am for that, should be fun. Yay me! | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 12/8/2006 3:54:24 AM | I smoked for 12 years, the habit is nasty. So glad I quit.
Anywho, I have read a bit about this before.. and can sorta relate to it. Seeing an attractive woman continually bring something to her shimmering, red lips is really stimulating. Trying to kiss that woman who tastes like an ashtray smells isn't so sexy.
My ex wanted to start smoking when I used to, and I wouldn't let her. After we broke up, she started ****ing around with some dude that smokes and now she does too... =/
Technically, smoking helps women curb weight and as sad as it sounds.. I know girls that insist this is the sole reason they smoke. So, I guess if being lean is sexy then yes.. smoking can be sexy. I for one find it a large turn off.
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 12/9/2006 6:02:30 AM | Well the subject is all about interputation and likes and dislikes anyway. Tons love the smell of smoke, tons hate it. Though personally I cant say kissing someone after they smoke has ever bothered me. Now kissing someone first thing in the morning, ugh, thats when breath is rank, smoker or not.
I will say Ive actually had girlfriends pick up the habbit while dating me, never really understood it, then we would break up and some of them would give it up. Long live personal freedom and taste! | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 8/31/2007 9:11:08 PM | | Met a lady once (was moving her possesssions from one place to another...) and I asked her "do ya mind if I smoke?" she said no, that she liked to watch people smoke, how they flicked the ash/how they held it etc..thought it was crazy sexy cool of her... | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 8/31/2007 9:24:31 PM | | The woman in the apartment below me goes outside to smoke on her patio wearing only panties and a bra; just about every day. Now every time I smell cigarette smoke, I run to my window. Does that count as a smoking fetish? | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 8/31/2007 10:42:58 PM | | I have just recently acquired the smoking fetish, for some reason I thinks its sexy when a women is smoking.....wierd huh? | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 8/31/2007 11:02:26 PM | Ew. Smoking is yuck. I don't really care if someone smokes as long as they don't do it near me, or smell nasty.
I could literally die from being around someone while they are smoking. I have super bad athsma and if I breath in too much smoke it will set it off and Weee I'll be literally high on life!  | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 9/1/2007 10:55:30 AM | Well, maybe you'll grow out of it. Some kiddos do, not that you'll ever accept it, but it's gonna be around, everywhere you go.
Most smokers won't insist you stand still and breathe it in. That's not what we want either.
Are there other airborn matters that effect you, like grasses, hay, perfumes? | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 9/1/2007 11:12:52 AM | omg! smoking is sexy? what world does she live in? what world do those people with smoking fetishes live in that any of that is remotely sexy?
i quit 4 years ago. i was an awful habit. i knew it the whole time and i still did it. its the only habit i know of where its acceptable pull out someone else's half burnt ciggie from an ashcan in plain site of anyone walking by and finish it off. with the germ factor being thought of the whole time, knowing how risky it is, and going ahead with the "borrowing" of the used ciggie, how is that even a sexy act for anyone? you might as well be licking the door handle of a porta-johnnie!
and how hypocritical of smokers to tell children not to pick things up off the floor and put it in their mouths because its germy? smokers do it all the time when their cig drops onto the floor of even the dirtiest restraunts or public sidewalks (did this a few times)....and no one gives that a second thought!
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 9/1/2007 4:34:08 PM | | couldn't of said it better myself ther sunny. I'm a smoker but I won't let anyone i'm seeing smoke because of some fetish, I mean if she is a smoker and wants to smoke during sex by all means she can *shrugs* You all know the saying diffrent strokes for diffrent folks lol. | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 9/1/2007 4:54:03 PM | "ts the only habit i know of where its acceptable pull out someone else's half burnt ciggie from an ashcan in plain site of anyone walking by and finish it off"
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maybe that would be ok if you are homeless, smokes are sold in all gas staions who would smoke some butt when you could get a pack of your own right done the street. thats sick!!!! only ok if you are a bum.
and lots of addictions are worse, junkies sharing needals.
some on par with sharing a dart with a friend or giving a drag. all pot smokers share pipes bongs and joints, if you are drinking you will pass the bottle around, pretty much if your thinking like that everything in the world is sick.
god so sick anyone that smokes other peoples butts.
and smoking can be sexy its why its in the movies. sometimes an actress/actor can pull it off and make that dart look so damn good. more people like smoking and wacthing it then dont, its why its done in the movies to please to majority of wacthers. not all or even most on a fethish leval but enough of a jolt to enjoy wacthing.
and once again ewww, smoking other peoples butts. | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 10/12/2007 3:55:21 PM | | i hate to say itbut everyone has their vices and i personally take offense to you saying that smokers are dumb. i would like to ask you what your faults are and then call you a dumb-ass because you- i.e. bite ur nails or drink red-bull. have a nice day! | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 10/12/2007 4:11:46 PM | | I knew a girl who had a fetish for smoking... she used to take pictures of me smoking and would sometimes pleasure herself while I sat there, doing nothing other than smoking slowly, blowing smoke in her direction. | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 10/13/2007 4:15:32 PM | I don't have a fetish. I have an addiction. I sound like a barking seal from the moment I wake up in the morning till the minute I hit the sack at night. My clothes reek and I generally find myself to be disgusting...when it comes to smoking anyway.
I keep saying I'll quit if it's the last thing I do and it probably will be. Sure does seem like I've chosen my poison. I know this post is rock bottom when it comes to self-promotion and begs questions along the lines of "how fat was she?" [never mind that I'm a few extra pounds as well]
Trouble is that even if I dropped dead from nicotine right now at my computer terminal there's some other wacko who's going to be turned on by that too. | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 10/13/2007 4:34:25 PM | I like watching a man in a tux puff on a cigar, but would not want to see it evey day. There is something rather sexy and kinda classy about the long cigarette holders that came from ages long ago... but don't think there is anything at all sexy about kissing someone after they just lit up.
Once in awhie I like a cigarello when having spiced rum or cignac, but only once in awhile, and find I have to brush my teeth right afterwards! | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 3/23/2008 11:25:57 AM | | I have had a smoking fetish since I was a young man. I love to watch a pretty lady smoke. At one time it was rampant on the silver screen and perhaps that popularized it. Nothing better than to make love while smoking a dubie or a cigarette. The orgasms are awesome! | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 3/23/2008 11:53:22 AM | there's a fetish for EVERY thing, if you dig enough.
smoking, heels, feet, earlobes....hamsters that smoke, lol
this is not unique when compared to all that's out there to "fetish" about. | |
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 3/23/2008 2:48:00 PM | Oooooookay...smoking as a "fetish"? Nope. I smoke, certainly don't think it's in any way, shape or form "sexy". But it does keep those around me alive and well....
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| Ever Heard of a smoking fetish?
Posted: 3/23/2008 3:16:48 PM | | Smoking for the sake of smoking is not erotic . Yellow fingers, yellow teeth, bad smell...not its not sexy. However done with finesse, dressed to kill, long red nails, perhaps gloves, red full lips and a super long slim cigarette,cigarella with a silver filter etc etc, yes it can be exotic and erotic | |
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