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yna6
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Joined: 5/2/2004
Msg: 28 | |
| Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/10/2004 8:08:38 AM | Yeah...drinking! Good answer! Everything looks better through the bottom of a bottle! So ya get hammered up, pass out...go through the hangover...and move on....
Try respecting yourself and your body enough to NOT put yourself through this...it might turn out a bit better.... | |
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| Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/10/2004 9:14:56 PM | | Velocity, drinking is a huge turn off for me. I recently dumped a guy because he called me when he was pretty sloshed...so I may not want to do that while trying to impress the ladies. ;-) | |
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| Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/11/2004 9:33:28 AM | The thing you are all should be proud of is you are trying to find ways to move on with your life, not hold on to the things that should be droped. You are all finding strength some where, be it beer or what not but its a way so keep looking. Soon you will find it and be able to live life again.
Gado
Cant never Could, Wont never Will ! | |
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| Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/11/2004 6:03:56 PM | broken hearts are a misery that were allowed to endure. Without heartache, how would we know what we really want? When were young, we tend to think that the person that were with is the "love of our life", but after the games and the heartache, we tend to be more focused.
Im sure that the subject has strayed a bit, but this is just my take on heart aches. Like anyone else, I have had my fair share. | |
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| Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/12/2004 9:36:19 AM | | I've had a few terrible break ups in my time. I lose about fifteen pounds or so because I don't feel like eating and I just sit in my room and play video games. After a while the pain simmers down to a minor heartwound and I make sure to read books with happy endings in them. Rather childish, I suppose...but I see nothing wrong with it. Just surround myself with what I like and try to outlast the hurt. I don't deal with a broken heart...I try to survive them. | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 36 | |
| Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/12/2004 10:57:04 AM | you go on...cry a bit..count your blessings..take it as a learning experince.. as long as you are a strong person you wont let it get you down.
If you beleive that that person lost the best thing they ever had..( YOU) then you can make it through..and find soemne else who will worship you. | |
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| Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/12/2004 1:58:09 PM | i am dealing with a broken heart too. i've been w/ her for almost 7 years. we were going to get married in feb 2005. she said she left cause she THOUGHT i chaeted in the beginning of our relationship, which is b/s. i think she left cause she wants to date other people, and doesn't want to feel guilty about leaving. i find myself talking to myself as if i'm talking to her. it kills me, it's been almost 5 months since we split, i should be over it by now, but i just love her so much, i cant let it go. i have'nt talk to her in a month. i want to call and tell her what a mistake shes making. i guess its my fault for going out w/ her she was 17 when i meet her i was 25. i'm 32 now, we had a great relationship i'd cook she'd clean. sex was off the hook. she would do anything for me as i would her. she was 5 ft tall 34 dd natural, small waist. and a great ass. lol. we fought 1 time in 7 yrs. i'll never find a girl like that again. i just need someone to talk to .... a shoulder to cry on, i dont have anyone to talk to, i'm all alone. i talk to my dog, but no advice. somedays i'm ok... then a week later i'm in tears for 2 days.
anyway thanks for letting me vent, there is comfort in complete strangers.
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 39 | |
| Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/12/2004 2:38:19 PM | you are so right..i have been here for 5 months and seen and listened to so many pls problems.
we all come together to help those i n need.. just watch and wait...yer gona love it. | |
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| Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/12/2004 5:36:55 PM | I am sorry dude 2 hear that.
It's really awful 2 know that the 1 u love thinks u cheated when u never did.
If u love something, let it go..........let her have her space.
@ b honest, no u will never find some1 like her cause that was her....u following me ?
U will have different relationships with different women, it's like a growing thing...well at least that what I found...
U will find ur eyes dry again 1 day and u will feel happy in love 1 more day.
trip thru the rain 2 appreciate the sunshine.
Peace! | |
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| Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/12/2004 11:19:31 PM | | I thought I am always very strong but didnt know how fragile I am when my heart was broken. All I can say, time dont really heal the hurt but it helps us to deal with that hurt and that time can be a very, very long time.... | |
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Headdy
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Joined: 7/15/2004
Msg: 44 | |
| Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/16/2004 9:48:32 AM | I've had my heart broken so many times, it sometimes feels like I don't have one left, I know it's my heart because I feel numb inside most of the time.
But, what's helped me keep going was something that I read somewhere a long time ago (paraphrased): if you can't have something right now, then don't worry because something better is waiting. It gets harder to imagine who could be better than the person who rejected you, but trust me (as someone you don't know) it does work. | |
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| Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/24/2004 1:51:55 PM | Well pastelpinkgirly that is one way of coping with it but after all of that the pain is still there.
One thing that I have found that works just a little bit is to write about it. I know you are asking yourself what does he mean? Well what ever the situation is or how it all started doesn't matter I know when my heart hurts I write as if I was writing to that person. That person will never get the letter but for some reason it seems to take away some of the hurt that I'm experiencing at the time. The rest of the healing process is just time. I hope that this will help you in your search pain relief for a broken heart. | |
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| Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/24/2004 2:38:58 PM | Doesn't anyone see the fact that all of these seemingly awful events in our lives are actually good? Can you imagine how stupid a person would be if they could wake up in the morning close there eyes and drive to work--and not have an accident. Isn't it these hard situations that give us the ability to really live? Making bad choices in your life ie. picking the wrong mate, always will have a consequence to show you the fact you screwed up. The funnier thing is normally we are given so many clues that we screwed up during yet we tend to ignore them. When the situation finally blows up we get upset that our lives must change even though we had the choice/chance to fix them. Alternately why should I get upset over someone elses bad choices. I have no control over them. All I can do is try to make the best choices I can and ride the wave. Has anyone ever heard the saying we are given what we need - not what we want. Besides most of us don't even have a clue about suffering- what we go through is normal s#@$. You have the here and now-
So live it.
Thats my opnion. | |
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| Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/27/2004 8:38:23 AM | | thats true Brundle...as I go through life, I realised making mistakes is not that bad afterall...its through those mistakes that your found new discoveries.... | |
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| Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/29/2004 7:00:09 PM | | still workin on it......still in love .......still want her back.....still livin each day as though there is no tomorow.....i'll let you know as soon as i'm cured.....but i think it will be some time yet if ever | |
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| Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/30/2004 8:06:02 AM | | Take that time lonedoc....sometime there is really nothing that we could do...they say time dont heal those hurts but it surely helps us deal with that hurt....believe me..you will.. | |
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