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Posted: 7/15/2009 11:44:37 PM | Thank you! That is exactly what kind of experiences I am having. I keep hearing the same thing....looking for a good guy, looking for a nice guy....blah, blah, blah. In reality, you find that the only ones that TRULY are looking for the "good guys" have been in so many bad relationships that they have just given up.
In my last relationship, she often was in tears over the simplest surprises and told me daily how she couldn't believe that she had finally found someone that spoiled her so much. I guess it took those 8 months to repair her self-esteem just enough for her to cheat on me with yet another a$$hole who she had to support and currently sees only on Sundays when she visits his sorry a$$ in jail! Yep.....these ladies really want the good guys. Give me a break! | |
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| do good guys get the girl?
Posted: 7/21/2009 9:02:41 AM | Im a nice guy. no girl
there was a time where i created the jerk/***hole persona and every woman seemed interested. But i wasnt happy do to the fact that i wasnt being myself. so went back to being the nice guy and went back to no women being interested. Im getting ready to put on the jerk persona again for a little while. i like doing little social experiments like this it tells me a lot about people. Usually when i turn on the jerk personna im so disgusted at the fact that a person finds something attracted by that behavior that im not even attracted to them anymore which in the end still leaves me by myself....paradox personified. | |
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| do good guys get the girl?
Posted: 11/6/2009 1:38:03 PM | | Sorry u were treated so bad. i went thru the same thing with my x. he never appreciated anything i did for him. i treated him like a king. guys do it too! | |
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| do good guys get the girl?
Posted: 11/13/2009 12:05:25 AM | That's very true. They always go for the pricks. That's why I've never had a g/f before.........oh well, I'm used to it.  | |
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Posted: 11/13/2009 11:05:11 AM | Maybe if you go in with the attitude "good guys never win" it may affect the outcome of the situation. Don't psych yourselves out before you get there.
Don't try to be "a nice guy". Just be yourself. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2009 1:34:06 PM | | Yer absolutely right. I'm just saying that I'm not dissappoilted any more no matter what the outcome. Everything happens for a reason..........and theres some sort of reason why I havnt been in a relationship yet. Time will tell. | |
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Posted: 11/15/2009 4:38:26 PM | Provided the nice guy is looking for the right woman. I'll use my brother as an example... he is a nice guy, but he looks for the model or cheerleader type... gorgeous, outgoing, thin, blonde, a little b*itchy, who really is very full of herself. Time and time again he's rejected. He's a good looking guy, but looking for the wrong type of woman. If he tweaked his preferences just a bit, I am sure beyond a shadow of doubt he would find someone.
As for me, I am looking for the nice guy. But I hate to say it... there are not too many around, and all those bad apples really do spoil the bunch. Still, I'm not closing the door... just being very particular about how far I open it, and to whom. | |
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