| Seven days after a break up! WHAT THE HELL
Posted: 12/7/2006 2:29:31 PM | Halletti,
I feel bad for you and hope it works out for you, she must be someone like the writer Psssst, she needs a attitude adjustment, I bet she is real ugly thats why she hates men.
She has never had a man she could dump. Psssst, enjoy your life alone or should I say ugly where do you get off writing that kind of stuff. You are a real | |
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| Seven days after a break up! WHAT THE HELL
Posted: 12/7/2006 2:32:00 PM |
Well,
Im not hanging from her string anymore, im cutting off all contact with this girl....i care..she don't...
Then i say to myself..
Why the hell should i care? if she don't?
Sooooo with that said, im gonna re-read my first topic i posted and take everyones advice to heart to benifit me...it's all about me now..
Im not getting played no more, im done with her games.....
Hows that for confidence so far?
Not good. Confidence is not lost overnight nor is it gained overnight. It takes months of CBT to get yourself back to healthy levels.
CBT= Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (You feel how you think....) | |
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safron
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Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 27 | |
| Seven days after a break up! WHAT THE HELL
Posted: 12/7/2006 3:05:40 PM | It's only been seven days after my ex broke up with me and she's going to another dude's house for the second time!
“Seven days, by now you should have removed all pictures and anything that can remind you of her, because out of site, out of mind.”
she's going to another dude's house for the second time!
You shouldn’t stop you girlfriend from hanging out with any friends PERIOD… and as far as your EX goes “You shouldn’t stop her from hanging out with any one PERIOD”
She says she still loves me!
“Of course she does” You spend enough time with some one, open up to some one, be with someone, and you gradually love some one. It gradually goes away too. Removing love takes as much time as building love.
She broke up with you, she wants to be friends because she values the friendship, but the relationship… something missing or getting in the way. That’s why you two broke up.
Now is the time to take this as a learning experience, find ways to improve your self.
If you truly think that you are not a controlling person, reread your letter, it says it all. If you truly want to know what the hell is going on here. YOU BECAME CONTROLLING, YOU ARE JEALOUS. It’s not your job to care any more. People pass though your life all the time, as they will continue to do so. It’s time for you to let go | |
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| Seven days after a break up! WHAT THE HELL
Posted: 12/7/2006 3:26:43 PM | Not to be totally insensitive (never been accused of that) Man up and move on.....................try to maintain some self respect....................I wouldn't take her goodnight calls.....or anything else......find another gal to be with. | |
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| Seven days after a break up! WHAT THE HELL
Posted: 12/8/2006 3:26:53 PM | To LadyC4 Mess. 15 - This type of behaviour is unfortunately not limited to the fair sex.
Just call me "The Voice of Experience" aka Plan B. My situation was almost identical to OP's. | |
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Tracks
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Joined: 8/23/2006
Msg: 31 | |
| Seven days after a break up! WHAT THE HELL
Posted: 12/8/2006 3:37:42 PM | Break Contact seems to be the theme and I couldnt agree more........I am a month strong now....lol. Sounds like a AA meeting. However hard it is, its the only way to go, life does go on.
I should have started reading these forums a month ago it might have saved me some sad time. | |
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| Seven days after a break up! WHAT THE HELL
Posted: 12/8/2006 7:17:46 PM | | ^^^^^^ I think your analogy might be closer than you think. Congratulations and stay strong. Maybe it's a case of "when the student is ready, the teacher appears". | |
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| Seven days after a break up! WHAT THE HELL
Posted: 12/8/2006 9:50:24 PM | | Drop it and her.. You need not concern yourself with what she does, and who she sees. Get out and meet some new people. You cannot be friends with someone you still love. You are so clearly jealous of other people in her life. If you still love this girl you can't be her friend. | |
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| Seven days after a break up! WHAT THE HELL
Posted: 6/14/2009 12:14:00 AM | "The truth is regardless of how u feel,if the other person doesn't feel the same way nothing you say or do is going to change the outcome."
I agree, how many of us have given our all to someone to never even see a fraction of that back. If you feel they don't give back to you just as much (as you deserve) you have a right to ask yourself if it's even worth it.
I pray you aren't too attached to this person. | |
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