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Posted: 12/18/2006 7:55:11 PM | LOL onceasanta-- I think I could budget you in!!! 
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Posted: 1/17/2007 8:30:33 AM | When I was 22 I had a 44 year old lover, who could and did budget me in.
This woman when we went out, would never let me pay for anything, not for her and not for myself. The first time or 2 it was ok, but eventually I started to feel like a prostitute. I eventually stopped being her lover, I just couldn't get over the feeling I was bought and paid for.
No Sugar Mommies guys, you'll end up feeling like crap, if you have some morals.
Cheers
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Posted: 1/17/2007 8:40:31 AM | I'm 50 now, so how old would the sugar mummy have to be!!!!! Don't bring a mental image of that up in my mind please. It's enough to drive you to drink isn't it? 
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Posted: 1/17/2007 8:56:30 AM | | Its always been my fondest fantasy to find a rich nymphomaniac who would keep me as her sexual slave in the style to which I would rapidly become accustomed. Say a 50 year old fitness enthusiast with a beach house on the California coast and a skiing lodge in Vail. E-mail me if you are out there...:) | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 9:11:30 AM | What makes you think he's after an adventure with an older lady
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Posted: 1/17/2007 9:41:47 AM | | Good grief! I'm already Mommy to enough people!!!! I need my extra money to buy more SHOES!!!!! | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 10:08:34 AM | | Indeed, but does that mean you are a rich nymphomaniac? | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 11:56:55 AM | | Every time I see the words "Sugar Momma" or "Sugar Daddy" I laugh to myself and think about what someone once called "The Golden Rule" which,translated, means "he/she who has the gold - rules". I will never ever put myself in a position where I am financially dependant upon anyone. That, for me, is a MAJOR trust issue. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 12:04:42 PM | | As fa as I can tell, you are always financially dependant on someone or other, be it your spouse, your family, your boss, your customers, your community or your relationship. People who are ecnomically challenged typically have relationship problems that dominate their lives. The only people who are not dependant on anyone are those who are living in abject poverty subsisting off the land. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 12:09:03 PM | Once but it didn't start out that way. He moved in with me and a year later quit his job. After two years of not working he had an opportunity to work overseas that would have set him up for life. He was waffling on whether or not to go so I "created" a big fight and asked him to move out. We broke up, he took the job and is doing great. Would I do it again? No.
I'm another Queen Bee and I like being able to do the things I like when I want to and be in control of my own finances. I'm not financially responsible for anyone but myself and I love it that way. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 12:40:19 PM |
if you have some morals
there you go!
I've had a few try, but I won't be a Sugar Momma either! I have 2 sons, who needs a 3rd child? I want a man | |
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Posted: 1/18/2007 12:49:44 PM | I'm one of those who bought the hard luck story, but luckily I've never had enough money to really become a Sugar Mommy. I did pay off my ex's old debts, after I'd spent my entire savings getting us free and clear so we could get on with our lives, he kicked me to the curb. But since he did work most of the time, I don't think that qualifies, except as another stupid move on my part.
Sugar Daddy, no, but did have one boyfriend who bought me nice presents, but then wanted to rule every aspect of my life. I would kind of think it would be that way with any "Sugar".
Don't need a Daddy, and had waaaay too much of having been a Mommy to another adult. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2007 12:59:24 PM | | LOL Rearguard - I think Pamela Anderson is looking right now!!!! | |
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Posted: 1/18/2007 1:04:15 PM | | I find Pam to be singularly unattractive, although her balloon boobs definitely attract my eye when I see pics of her. Besides, I want to be kept for more than a couple of weeks. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2007 1:48:00 PM | After seeing what her last two choices in men were, I wonder how you plan to match all those tatoos? Ouch! Will be the word for you being a Sugar Baby to Sugar Mommie.
Whatever you do, make sure you don't suffocate getting lost in her chest. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2007 1:48:07 PM | Never had a sugar mommie... never want to have one either.
I'm proud of what I have and have achieved... with my own hands.
I would feel dependent, and don't like that feeling at all. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2007 1:48:34 PM | | I dated a lady for about 2 years, she was an ex-doctors wife with a huge alimony payment each year. All of our mutual friends said I was lucky to find someone with "lots" of money. They didn't seem to believe that the majority of dates we went on were paid for by me. Now when we traveled we would put a few hundred dollars into a purse and all expenses came out of that and we split what was left when we got home. My problem was she considered me her "Handy Man" no pun intended. The breaking point finally was her introducing me as her handy man and her expecting me to be at her house at her beck and call, after all I did and still do have my own home (paid for) and I had to work for a living. I decided I had enough. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2007 4:58:10 PM | | Henna. Lasts 2 weeks, more than enough for an enduring relationship with Pam. As to suffocation, some ways to die are preferable than others. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2007 5:33:59 PM | Yes, death from silicone suffocation probably is a lot of old guy's dream... | |
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Posted: 1/18/2007 5:36:56 PM |
I'm 50 now, so how old would the sugar mummy have to be!!!!! Don't bring a mental image of that up in my mind please. It's enough to drive you to drink isn't it?
The girls all get prettier at closing time...
Well that and the fact that at 60 you can't see 'em well anyways and they're trying to figure out where they left their teeth. IN the bathroom or at the bar...  | |
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Posted: 1/18/2007 10:44:48 PM | | Oh, I agree! Pamela Anderson does nothing for me. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2007 1:21:36 AM | how the heck did pamela anderson get into this thread....
hmmm..... sugar mommas...big boobs? I don't see the connection
back to what the question was..
I was a sugar momma once, many years ago in my younger and vulnerable days. he was the first guy i dated after my marriage ended and it was time for me to have some fun, something I didnt get a chance to do much of when I was younger cause I married very young. But, i had to kick the guy to the curb after 7mths. of mooching cause I had some serious future plans set for myself and he was getting in the way. All he wanted to do is play and I needed to figure out where my life was going to go now that I was no longer married, but damn, he knew how to please a lady..... | |
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Posted: 1/19/2007 2:06:37 AM | Many of my friends who had their own place that was very nice, completely furnished w/ all the creature comforts (myself included) have had men who just got kicked out of their "old lady's place" w/ nothing but a few things that they owned try to move in w/ them.
These men go from woman to woman over the years. They don't have to look for an apartment, put down a security deposit, buy a stick of furniture, deal w/ utilities or put a deposit on that either.
They'd find some woman to bunk with & throw her a few bucks a week. Some women who are struggling financially & lonely will accept this. I'd rather get a room mate! LOL!
In between "gigs" these guys will crash on someone's couch, until they find their next prey.
I USED TO HAVE a friend that went through men like that like a revolving door. Once, one left (w/ his 4 daughters, who trashed her place) on a weekend, & the following weekend, she had a new one move in.
She had a young daughter living w/ her all the time this was going on. Not a good role model.
She got the names of her men mixed up sometimes!!!
Goes to show you, there's a sock for every foot!
Gold digging, IMHO is more predominant among men, as the women are more commonly the ones who are custodial parents & therefore have to have a home environment. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2007 12:19:22 PM | Of course...if someone's goal from the onset is to aquire a 'sugar mama'... thats no good. Works on the other side of the coin, by the way...sugar daddies. this, obviously, should not be any kind of main criteria in searching for a partner. duh. No brainer. for those of you who got duped...and are bitter about it happening again....wise up. Get smart. For every con artist to be successful it requires a dumb victim. !! so, We are largely responsible for this happening to us.
Now...speaking for myself. If I happen to fall in love with somebody, (and the feeling is mutual)...who has a great deal more material wealth than I do.... I am not going to be complaining. ha!! | |
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Posted: 1/19/2007 7:44:07 PM | 1) lets say I have tons of money, the man I want to buy unlikely would sell himself to me. My philosophy is that if money can buy what you want, buy it, you may never have another chance. Only the user - you, need to and can determine of its worth.
2) During the 26 years I married to my husband, he had only worked a total of less than 6 years. We had businesses, and I was the one who run it. When he needed cash, he went in the till and ding, opened, got what he wanted, and left the employees to report to me how much he had took. 25 years ago, he wanted to throw a New Year party, and spent $3,000 on it, and I didn't even blink an eye or ask the details of the bill. So talking about sugar mommy.....hmmm....but then I need to tell you, he was my sugar daddy before I married him, he supported me for 3 years before I came to Canada....he sure got a good deal out of it. His famous words was "I have been supported women all my life, now I would like to see a woman who support me, and what is your problem?". Boy, was he spoiled. | |
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