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Posted: 1/19/2007 7:58:44 PM | | I've never had a Sugar Momma but one of my ex's was lookin' for a Sugar Daddy.....that relationship didn't last very long. | |
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Posted: 1/21/2007 12:05:51 AM | SURGAR MOMMIES?
Are there such a thing?
It’s hard enough trying to find a woman that isn’t looking for a Sugar Daddy.
Most the women on Match.com are looking for men who make over $100,000.
The rest of them, if you make 50 cents less than they do, they don’t want to have anything to do with you.
From what I’ve found from the computer dating field is that women are still looking for a man to support them and if you are not willing then don’t bother them.
This is why I have given up looking for a mate over the Internet.
Just think, all those so called liberated women still looking for a man to support them. I wouldn’t call that liberated would you? | |
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Posted: 7/19/2007 12:36:52 AM |
I could have married for money but that wasn't what I was looking for. What a distasteful motivation for being with someone.
I've heard it said that if you marry for money, you'll earn every penny of it... | |
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Posted: 4/6/2008 9:42:15 AM | Hey, I met 'some' sugar mommies, they are rare in my neck of the woods, but if there are
in Central Texas I hope to meet some. :) If there are some sugar mommies, and they want
to 'budget' me in, I hope they are cat lovers, and let me give her foot rubs, and shoulder
rubs. :) Are there any takers? :) Serious Reply only pretty please? :) | |
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Posted: 4/6/2008 9:53:13 AM | Y'know, you may be right. I work in Security making less than $26k (prison) and its like, I
can barely afford to keep my truck running. With gas prices the way they are, I'll bet a lot
of guy's can't afford a sustained long term relationship without some help. I keep striking
out due to "insufficient funds" being snubbed, ignored, and or blown off gets me depressed,
yet what can I do? I'm starting to give up also on finding a date, girlfriend, let alone a mate.
Most I met so far, been in jail, or in some trouble with the law with so much baggage, then
expect me to bail them out and take care of them with bills, charge accounts ect. I guess
the hidden expectations and failed mind reading courses that we as men were supposed
to take didn't help find a girlfriend. lol Oh well.. I got 'lucky' finding my ex-girlfriend on
here, but she hadn't changed much when we broke up. :( :( :( It's going to be a lonely life.. :(
I only ask Hashem to help be me a rich multi-million, billion, trillionaire to afford a wife. :)
Until then, I'll 'suffer' being single and "free" no woman for me... lol No Car, No Money,
Means... No Honey! :-P | |
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Posted: 4/6/2008 10:07:37 AM | That is true to some extent, by the way KayceeinTX I love your cat! miaow!
Siamese Cats got a sassy purr and miaow. :) Marriage in some extent is based on income,
and financial stability. Lower poor class marriages married for love, and passion and or
married for monetary gain to a "richer" mate.
Sadly with divorce, separation, and perverted diversions, marriage has gone through the
paces of political and social change. Take Titanic for instance. Caledon Hockley had met
Rose at the university and the conversation Rose's wicked mom mentioned "That is the
reason why they go to university to find a mate." (Paraphrased of course) Yet marriage
for money, marriage for lust, marriage for "greener grass" brings the worst or best in some people. Some marry to get out of a traditional family setting, some get married to
hack off mom and dad, some get married by shot gun, some get married at a party while
drunk. lol
The motives change the institution is the same.. The institution of marriage is or was to be designed for one man, one woman, a family unit. Despite liberal attempts to adapt or
to adopt non-christian, non-moral, or non-Jewish values, marriage nowadays is nothing
more than, how much do you make, and how much can I get out of you in divorce court.
That is is "LOVE" isn't the motive, but "GREED" is. Marriage based on monetary gain is always based on GREED no matter how you slice it. So, if you have GREED in your
heart, and you want to get married, be sure you are rich enough to afford the long term effects. Caledon tried to 'woo' Rose with the Heart Of The Ocean necklace, money, and
all the comforts of financial success, but Rose was smart, she wanted love, she wanted
passion, she wanted a man she can respect and admire, and enter in Jack Dawson! :)
Sometimes Money brings you some happiness and pays the bills, but love if it's a true
kind of love, not on mind games then both man and woman must strive for peace and
security based on love. :-) | |
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Posted: 4/6/2008 10:23:00 AM | | I am no sugar mama and I am not looking for a sugar daddy. I just want someone who can paddle his side of the canoe! | |
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Posted: 4/6/2008 3:30:56 PM | OOTD...
That was perfect!
My thoughts exactly! Yep.. uh-huh.. what she said!
Kaycee..
I love that saying.. as a matter of fact so much.. I plan to keep that one. Thank you! | |
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Posted: 4/6/2008 4:41:03 PM | I am to poor........so no never been a Sugar Mamma....... Blue | |
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Posted: 4/6/2008 6:02:41 PM | | never had one never wanted one,but ill be damned if there arent an awful lot of women out there looking for a guy with a fat wallet. | |
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Posted: 4/6/2008 6:05:59 PM | | ^^^^^^^^^^^just like the profession you listed on your profile, I work, I don't need your money. | |
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Posted: 4/7/2008 8:20:03 PM | | i dont need a sugar momma. but would like to have those sugaer boobs. i would love to hook up with a female in her late 60s. great sex | |
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Posted: 4/7/2008 9:45:07 PM | | When I was twenty and in graduate school I met a lady in her 40's whose husband made a ton of money but was never home. Apparently he had a younger "mistress" who had her own apartment that he paid for. It started with a ride in her Alfa Romeo and went on from there. I had no money, she paid for meals and other things I could not afford, it was all pretty exciting at the time. We did set some boundaries ... no expensive presents, no lunches with her friends. It did make it a bit hard to relate to girls my own age for a while after it ended, but I got the hang of it. I still miss driving that Alfa, though! | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 2:13:24 AM | WOW!!!! I would LUV to find someone to paddle their side of the canoe!
I haven't found a SUGAR MOMMA, I thought I had once...NOT THAT I AM LOOKING... but it turned out she played/USED me. Been there a few times...maybe someday I will learn that lesson! LMBO Money isn't everything!...I would just like to find a HELPMATE! And if she is a CUTIE!!! EVEN BETTER!!!  | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 4:59:27 AM | | I just want an equal partner..... | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 5:58:12 AM | | I have had several men tell me how much easier if they had someone to split the bills with.....that married life is easier because they had another partner that was bringing home money. These Men made a decent living. I know women are guilty of this also so it isn't a gender thing. It had never dawned on me to look for someone to help cover my bills or other expenses and to be honest it killed anything that I would have felt for them in a second. I have had men offer expensive things to myself....I wouldn't trade myself for anything no matter how pretty or charming it may look at the moment. But the other men that were looking for a bed partner and work partner weren't looking for the whole bang either. I work for a living and I work hard. Nor do I live the high life I live within a budget like everyone else. But it was insulting to myself that they suggested a relationship and named this as a perk whenever they were suggesting marriage or a commitment. Love came after this perk for them. Unless I find a partner that wants the whole thing I cut my ties and move on. And if this is the perk for them it isn't for myself.....I can pay my bills and take pride in doing so. I don't have as much as some of them.....but what I make probably wouldn't touch what they owe anyway.......so that lets me out of the loop........Blue | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 6:18:40 AM |
Men and women are supposedly equal in society these days.
Supposedly, marriage (without a prenup) is what made 2 partners equal in the relationship.
The problem with 'finding' equality is not to finding someone that makes as much or as little as you, it is how much are you are willing to share.
If you truly want equality, than you better accept the same things men have to. Men have accepted marriage as an equalizer for centuries and brought home the salaries while women took care of the house and kids. They didn't mind providing for a family and women did not feel inferior because of a lack of earning ability.
When a relationship confuses love with income and one of the partners is not contributing financially, then you will hear the rants about not wanting to be a sugar mommy/daddy because the relationship really had no love. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 8:00:14 AM |
The problem with 'finding' equality is not to finding someone that makes as much or as little as you, it is how much are you are willing to share.
Love this quote....
But alas....I still haven't found a Man that would take me as a Sugar Momma...
I offered one.......all the meals at Micky D's on the dollar Menu.....Garage sale clothes, a wonderful vacation ........ sleeping in a tent eating hot dogs........Regular TV.....A membership to the track........outdoor walking track.......plastic surgery.....I offered him my wrinkle cream.......so alas no takers.........now what to I have to do to find someone with all the great stuff I can offer? Blue | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 8:54:48 AM |
now what to I have to do to find someone with all the great stuff I can offer?
Send me your phone number..... | |
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Posted: 4/10/2008 8:39:29 AM | Didnt actually happen, but the guy was trying awfully hard.
A few years ago, I was chatting with a guy, in the next county over. He is on this sight. Single dad, 2 kids. On and on about how great he was, his job., He kept asking me out, over and over, and finally I agreed to meet him, at a restaurant that he picked, halfway between us. Then he pops up, his truck is broke down, could I come and pick him up. Hmmmmm. Okay. Then he comes up with, he's kind of broke this week, and didnt have any money, so we would have to go dutch.
I said, maybe we should go out another time. A couple weeks later, his truck is still broke down, doesnt have the $150 to get it fixed. Yet he is still asking me out. come to find out he worked on a farm as a tenant, got free rent but only worked with the seasons. he was looking for a sugar momma. | |
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Posted: 4/10/2008 9:20:50 AM | Yes - just paid the court the last of the money yesterday.
Last man I spend that sort of cash on  
But having said that will go dutch on every occasion from today forward. | |
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Posted: 4/10/2008 6:02:34 PM | Yes....I am a sugar mommy.......wait.....looking for a sugar mommy......wait........not looking for any mommy at all......just some "sugar"....... 
OT.......Just as I do not want to take care of another financially......I also do not want to be taken care of..........Now.....where is that "equality" icon???.......
Just my opinion........  | |
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Posted: 4/12/2008 11:24:02 AM | | What's next? A "Sugar Babies" thread? | |
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Posted: 4/12/2008 11:27:56 AM | | Perhaps a "Sugar Babes" thread? I could get interested in that one....:) | |
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Posted: 4/12/2008 12:23:14 PM | | Would never use a woman for money | |
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