| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/7/2006 6:12:40 PM | The difference is that the nice guys stay that way and the players turn off the act after a bit of time.
EXACTLY - that's why I have a six month rule. I add farting, belching and scratching of the nuts at the six month mark as well as loosing all the good stuff. If the bodily sounds start,you know it's done for!
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/7/2006 6:16:39 PM | | interesting thought, never looked at that point...I shall keep that in mind. | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/7/2006 6:23:25 PM | "Being a nice guy won't make a woman feel that powerful attraction to you"
the attraction is there or it isn't....I dont think it has to do with being nice or bad. I have met lots of "bad boys" I was not attracted to.....and I agree the gut is what tells me if that attraction is there...not because he is nice or bad!
"The only problem with being the nice guy is that you also become the boring, predictable guy"
I would prefer the predictable boring guy, the one who calls when he says he is going to. The one who is on time. The one who I know will say I love you at the end of the night...predictability goes a long way in my books............it is called being able to depend on that person cause you know you can......
I'm going to go out on a limb here.........maybe some can't accept the so called "nice guys" because they are so used to the "bad boys" that this is foreign to them and they dont know how to adjust and accept that the person is as genuine as they seem.......and so they run scared from the nice guy..............
I say give all the nice guys a chance............you will be so glad you did!
p.s. sorry I havent learned to "quote" yet...hope you all can tell which words were mine.........
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/7/2006 6:31:47 PM |
I'm going to go out on a limb here.........maybe some can't accept the so called "nice guys" because they are so used to the "bad boys" that this is foreign to them and they dont know how to adjust and accept that the person is as genuine as they seem.......and so they run scared from the nice guy..............
This is definitely true in some cases. Good point Mirage9. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 6:48:28 PM | | Yes I agree Mirage and Urban Wanderer - very valid and true point. Been there, had that happen, now they regret it but it's too late.(Being the nice gal that is!) | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 7:02:19 PM | A nice guy will buy you a hot chocolate on your first date at Timmies after you've already had 3 coffees and are getting the jitters, just to prolong the date...
A nice guy will cook you dinner now and then just so you can take a break from cooking. If you are lucky, he will even make something new so you are not always the one hunting for a new recipe. And before I get bashed, even a simple spaghetti counts as cooking dinner! LOL
A nice guy makes an effort to get the bathroom "girl clean" before you visit his home for the first time. | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/7/2006 7:03:12 PM | He calls home to let Mom know he will be late and if she can wait a little longer he will help her wash her back!!!
edit (below) hahahahahahahahahahaha | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/7/2006 7:16:46 PM | ^^^nice guys wash their moms backs? wth Leeanne...........lmao.........
"If the bodily sounds start,you know it's done for!"
I thought that was when the relationship moved to the next level............damn!
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/7/2006 7:34:24 PM | Every guy is someone's "nice guy"
Just like no ones perfect till you fall in love with them ..... | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 7:49:48 PM | hey guys it ok to be a nice guy look at all the great friends you've meet when you meet them at a pof get together they tell their friends what a great guy you are not that guy's a frigen ahole.To the ladys when anice guy meet you he is happy you took the time and will remember your name hopping you will do the same for him | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/7/2006 7:52:41 PM | wow some great answers guys and yeah i think that I am a nice guy lol 
Dont have much more to add but speaking of nice guys proving just that here on POF this is what i suggest:
stress the posirives in your profile and show confidence there.
also nice guys for the most part contrubute posts to put smiles on peoples faces and to make them laugh I think I do that well.
Didnt like my avatar I had before this as a smile will get people to view your profile | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/7/2006 8:01:33 PM |
also nice guys for the most part contrubute posts to put smiles on peoples faces and to make them laugh I think I do that well.
Yes Jay...You do do that!!! Go Red Wings!!!!
JJ
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/7/2006 8:04:37 PM | Nice guys can be players too... and have proven that.
I'd be more focused on finding an honest person. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 8:12:12 PM |
I'm going to go out on a limb here.........maybe some can't accept the so called "nice guys" because they are so used to the "bad boys" that this is foreign to them and they dont know how to adjust and accept that the person is as genuine as they seem.......and so they run scared from the nice guy..............
So very true, Mirage...... I know I have done it in the past, and almost did it again, recently... fortunately, I saw my mistake coming, and talked to him about it, worked thru it, and things could not be better..... but it isn't always easy.
MI.... If you are not honest, you are not a "nice guy".... honesty is the key to integrity... and no person (male or female) is "nice" in my books unless they are honest first.
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Posted: 12/7/2006 8:20:53 PM | | This is a funny question...all I could think of was....Holy cow...if I knew the answer to that question, I wouldn't be on an internet dating site at 43 years old...lol....I would be married to Mr. Nice Guy for about 16 years now, with my white picket fence, baking bread and making jam!!!!! .I would've picked Mr. Nice Guy the first time if I new how to spot him...instead of the Mr. Dud Guy I picked....... | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/7/2006 8:28:47 PM |
MI.... If you are not honest, you are not a "nice guy".... honesty is the key to integrity... and no person (male or female) is "nice" in my books unless they are honest first.
I think MI said that he would concentrate on finding an honest person.....Maybe you misunderstood what he said?
JJ
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/7/2006 8:35:15 PM | JJ coming from a nice guy here that just wasnt very nice
Saturday baby we rumble lol | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 9:23:22 PM | | <<< There! You've just spotted a nice guy. That wasn't so hard, was it? I know it's only one opinion. And yes, it's my own opinion. But it's one that I know can be backed up. | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/7/2006 9:49:55 PM | | i could be wrong, but i have heard rumors that , the toliet seat being down is a big indication of a nice guy. | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/7/2006 10:01:18 PM | | ^^^^^^ that's me, seat down. I grew up in a single mother home, she drilled it into my head, so ya. | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/7/2006 10:10:04 PM | I put a urinal across from the toilet so women would NEVER worry about the position of the toilet seat... regardless if the lights were on or off....
How nice is that??? | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/7/2006 10:29:39 PM | Opens doors.
Recognizes the 'women' first situations - regardless if it's his date or not. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 10:31:58 PM | you are all heart MI...
another fixture in the bathroom for HER to clean....thanx | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 10:36:41 PM | How to spot a nice guy:
The majority of people will always treat you nicely, especially in the beginning.
I gauge the nice guys on how I see them treat other people. If they're kind, polite, and charming to everyone, I'd judge much more on that then on any kind of front they would be putting on for a date.... | |
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