| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/8/2006 5:46:24 PM | So how do you spot a nice girl then? Legs are closed?  (oh that's going to get me into trouble.) Maybe she's looking at the nice guy who's looking at the not so nice girl teasing him with her evil ways and basically luring him to the darkside.
*Waving her hand slighly*"This isn't the long term relationship you're looking for...."
"This isn't the long term relationship I've been looking for."
"You shall get me a beer...and pay for it without any expectations in return."
"I'm going to get you a beer....and pay for it."
"Yes....muahahahahhaahaha!!!" | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/8/2006 5:57:02 PM | Hoey that wasn't lint you just picked off her dress that was a snap holding her dress together!!
Now what you gonna say when her dress drops to her Feet.!!
Awmmmmm ! Sorry lady I thought it was lint ,But you sure looking perrrrrrrrdy good in them black lace panties !!! | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/8/2006 6:26:08 PM | well id like to change my answer to this question as I am not a nice guy at all....I am a TERRIFIC GUY!! 
there is a difference there so dont settle for "just nice guys" go for something even greater if you can spot it | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/9/2006 8:11:04 AM | A nice guy to me is someone who respects me. I truly believe in the saying "treat others as you want done onto you"
Just because a guy does'nt open the door or pulls the chair out, he doenst need to be judged by that.
Alot of times people are judged as not being nice, to me that person had a bad experience in their lives and have good reasons for their actions. They only need to let go of those harsh feelings.
Personally myself I'm not attracted to the bad boy type...some women are and I have no clue why! | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/9/2006 8:51:47 AM | here's a tip for you and you can always say it was a test and he failed or passed.
walk up to one you suspect is nice and whisper in his ear "why don't we leave here right now"
The ones that hesitate and go speechless are the good ones, they are trying to convince themselves to go against their morals and lose their integrity but are having difficulty doing it
I kid you not, the bad ones are on it like flies on   dung | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/9/2006 9:53:01 AM | The nice guy is also...
The guy with a track record...
Of staying with and looking after...
An ailing S/O...
Of helping friends without being asked...
Of being considered dull and predictable...
Because of these traits...
Of not looking for short term gratification...
And...
Of being used...
Not because he is a doormat, or spineless jellyfish, or a wuss...
But because he chooses to see the best in peeps...
Regardless of their history... | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/9/2006 11:44:46 AM | It's very easy for someone to claim they are the "nice" guy but in my eyes it's something they need to prove. Anyone can be nice right from the start but give it a little time and they can do a complete turn around... when their true colors start showing.
Unfortunately i've never really dated someone i'd consider to be the "nice" guy to me but i'm sure in other's eyes some of them have been considered to be nice guys.
I like to believe from the start that every guy I meet is a nice guy... but i've learned that hard way that only time will tell if they truly are a nice guy or not. I personally watch for certain things to determine for myself if they are the nice guy i'm looking for or not.
For example... Like Justastudent said, I will pay close attention to how they treat others around them. If they are respectful towards their family and friends... and others in the general public. I will also pay attention to how they are with me, especially when they think no one is looking. If they do those little things like not being afraid to wrap their arm around me, put their hand on my back and also have that proud look on their face showing they are proud to be with me, make me feel like in their eyes i'm the most beautiful woman in the room...that gives them brownie points for sure.
A big turn off for me is when a guy will be all nice to someones face but as soon as their backs are turned he has nasty things to say about that person. Or when it's very obvious that they look down on certain people they don't believe are worth their attention.
I'm very impressed with men who have no problem lending that helping hand.
I have dated plenty of men who wouldn't exactly be considered "nice" guys. Even they dropped me a text message out of the blue, opened doors for me, pulled my chairs out, called me to see how my day was going but guess what... some of them were the same guys who also talked down to me and cheated on me.
I don't believe you can spot a nice guy right on the spot, it's something that you will learn about them in time. Like I said, I like to believe that every guy I meet is a nice guy right from the start but since i've been proven wrong so many times I now leave it up to the guy to prove to me in his own way that he is the "nice" guy that I want.
I think what is considered to be a "nice" guy is different in everyone's eyes. Someone who is considered to be the nice guy in ones eyes might not be in anothers. To each their own... there is a "nice" guy out there for each "nice" girl. Ya just gotta find your perfect "nice" mate. | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/9/2006 12:34:14 PM | Its very easy to spot a nice guy..
Look at me. See the person standing next to me.. he's a nice guy. | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/10/2006 4:53:34 AM | /quote
Yes I thought he was a nice guy when I met him too Suzy
Still reminds me a little of Mike Meyers 
Have a nice Christmas both of you  | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/10/2006 8:04:47 AM | your kidding right?? nice guys?? ya at first till they show their true intentions ,
and believe me it does not take too long !!lol
I think that guys in general are all nice (expect the odd few) , they just need to go back and learn how to date /treat a girl /etc . let the pass go and dont compare | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/10/2006 8:44:48 AM | | MI...... I could not agree with you more... the nice guys don't have to "taught" how ... they know, as it is part of who they are..... it is called integrity..... and it applies to both men and women..... cuz, according to my male buddies, women do a lot of the "game playing stuff" too! | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/10/2006 8:46:44 AM | | Well I don't know if this will put me in the "nice guy" category or not. But last night I was invited to a small gathering of people from this site. The hostess was trying to make nachos and cheese but kept getting side tracked by other things, so I offered to help and pretty soon I was the one making the nachos and cheese for most of the night until the cheese ran out. But yeah thought I'd contribute a real life situation for evaluation | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/10/2006 10:48:25 AM | A really nice guy (respectful - loving guy) pulls the covers up over you when he notices you need to be tucked in as you sleep!!
a great (ex) boyfriend packs 'bob' for ya
Yeah he certainly doesn't keep them for use with some scank - 'cause if she agrees to let him use someone elses toys on her, she is trash!!!  | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/10/2006 12:26:46 PM | Nice guys do exist. They are hidden in a variety of men. The Azzhole, The Nerd, The Psycopath etc. Everyone can be nice - both genders. But as many have said, they want to see how he treats others - to see how he truly is. Being nice is only an extension of someone whos been taught manners. It goes both ways and there's always comprimise needed. Ive dated very nice men who were complete azzes - which is prob why I still like and care for them as friends just not my SO.
Im looking for a REAL man - one who doesnt lie, has manners and knows how to use them and is an all round human being - someone I can tolerate willingly for life.
However, manners and respect do play a huge role in attraction  Never had such a bigger turn on in life!  | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/10/2006 12:46:45 PM | Im looking for a REAL man - one who doesnt lie, has manners and knows how to use them and is an all round human being - someone I can tolerate willingly for life.
HAHAHA!
LOOK EVERYONE TELLS LIES EVEN WOMEN DO!!
As for manners even some women could use some manners as well.
So if your looking for a nice guy then look for one and don't show your nasty side ladies.
As first thing a nice looks for besides your looks is your personality .
Yes please reread some of the posts by some of these women and what their saying won't catch them a nice guy & if it does it probbly won't last too long .
And stop judging people you have never met or dated as thats the worst way of loosing out on a nice guy ladies !! | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/10/2006 2:06:13 PM | "And stop judging people you have never met or dated as thats the worst way of loosing out on a nice guy ladies !! "
firmbear8 my judgement DOES come from guys I have ALREADY MET!!! I always give every guy a fair chance before I make a judgement ,
and yes I know Im probly judge too ,
and thats all fair , but I dont put on a show ,
I have and always believe that Its best to be yourself ,
if Im not excepted for who I am so be it , like I tell ppl read my profile and testimonials as they come from ppl who DO know me well
but I do not jude anyone untill I have a chance to know them | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/10/2006 4:43:26 PM | Well then darn well SMILE THEN Retrogirl!!LMAO
So what your actually sayin there sweets is your meeting the wrong guys and that is a probblem right !!
Well not much I can do about whom you decide to meet or date but maybe if you relaxed a wee bit you'd see why you meet the wrong guys okay.
Yep I know alot think I am one crazy bugger and I just heard all of them say what who us !LMAO
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/10/2006 6:09:01 PM | lol ya but how can you tell if their the right or wrong guy ??
like i said I give them all a fair chance and yes some do pretty up their profiles a bit too much ,
so you can never Know for sure ??
but after 2 1/2 years on this site Im getting better at it and thats why I desided to host rather then worry about finding someone ,
when it happens then bonus till then , I am happy to get other ppl together (nicknamed the Match maker lol)
but we never know for sure ! | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/10/2006 6:44:29 PM | How to spot a nice guy....a useful tip in spotting men who are nice:
1) They say thinks like: "excuse me" "I beg your pardon" "May I get the door for you?" "I can't stand up right now...my erection won't let me."
2) Notice their un-sloped foreheads and wide eyed expressions. As if someone backslapped them across the face making them look totally oblivious to all people. Only those with sloped brows are evil and beady lil eyes give away their sinister nature. We don't make this stuff up.
3) He holds a door open not only for you, but for every single other person afterwards. He could be there for some time as the doorman.
4) If he tells you that you're "pretty" or "very attractive"...girls, that's the sign of not only a nice man, but a horny one at that. If you acknowledge his repsonse with a thankful nature...we can assure you more compliments are to be on the way. Let that be a warning to you.
5) Never look away from a nice man. They can sense you're fear and/or uneasy feeling of being with him. Much like the mighty animals of the forests...you must look them in the eye to show you are not going to be intimidated by his very nice attitude.
6) If a nice guy offers you a ride home...drop to the ground and play dead. Sudden movements might make him take out his keys to open the doors, or go back to get your coat for you.
7) If he declines your offer to enter your home for a late night coffee, this could be a nice guy. He'll no doubt be too nice to take up your free time by offering him a hot beverage with the open chance he might just "Get lucky" that night. Nice guys will not know how to react and may become fearful of what the phrase "Would you like to come in for some coffee" actually means. Note his shifting eyes and embarrassed expression as he suddenly gulps in fear.
8) A nice guy will not call you nasty names as he becomes more intoxicated during the night. Note his relaxed glare and non-stop laughing at everything you do. He'll also begin dancing in ways you can't even tell....if he does the robot on a slow song...it's quite possible this is a nice guy, or just a drunk acting very silly.
Yes...the nice guy could be anywhere and infront of you at any time. Remember, learn the signs and take care of yourself should a nice guy cross your path.
- This has been a "How to spot a nice guy" presentation. Look for the other "How to's" like: How to spot a complete Ass! How to spot a brainless beefcake! How to spot a Banana Dancer and run like hell! | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/10/2006 6:51:52 PM | A nice guy always has a hanky available on the off chance you don't swallow.... that's going beyond the call of duty.... 
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/10/2006 7:07:25 PM | | thanks MI..............and with that lovely thought going through my mind...........I'm off looking for a hankie..................LMAO | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 12/10/2006 8:43:05 PM | | Not to be an a$$hole here but I don't think you can simply spot a nice guy or a nice person for that matter. They have to be revealed (out of lack of a better word) to you with consistent actions (ex:. like that person who's always been there for you when you needed them). | |
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