| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 1/22/2007 10:40:51 AM | | Awwwww tanks Mirage!!!! you are a nice lady. Not too nice though. I don't think I'm too nice either. Ohhhhhhhhh man moving on. It's so dang confusing sometimes though. Being nice can be a good thing, but also a bad thing. Here is my solution. I'm going to be me. Bad, good, sad, happy, warts and all. | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 1/22/2007 10:57:46 AM | lonelypozguy, the use of the word *an* when *a* should be used is really annoying. It's hard to decipher what you are trying to write. Also, the miss use of and lack of periods after sentences makes your readng material all that more irritating.
That coupled with the obvious marked jealousy that wreaks from your statements. Let's just agree to disagreee about the difference between nice guys and your warped perception of them is...k? mmm k
shanks ;) | |
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.Lisa
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Joined: 1/13/2007
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 1/22/2007 11:14:04 AM | ^^^^^ I'd cook for you but you would have to help clean. I'm no ones maid lmao
Holy smokes lonely you seem to be a tad bit bitter. It's dripping from your writings. Suggestion, don't be so generalistic or angry. If you are going to make a point at least do so by specifying what it is you are trying to say without going on a rant that makes no sense. | |
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.Lisa
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Joined: 1/13/2007
Msg: 206 | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 1/22/2007 11:27:08 AM | | Ok deal, but if I do all the cooking, then all the laundry, you do all the grass cutting and driveway shovelling. Only fair ... Ya can't have me do both laundry and all cooking. Or I will do the cooking, you do the laundry, I do the shovelling, you mow the lawn? Fair deal I say. BTW, we split being on top in the bedroom half and half. | |
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Joined: 4/23/2005
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 1/22/2007 11:29:24 AM | How to Spot a Nice Guy
Lesson #1
OPEN YOUR EYES !!!!!
#2
Don't picture him or think he will be like your ex
#3
When he wants to get serious, only ride him in the act of a sexual position and not like a savior | |
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Posted: 1/22/2007 11:36:00 AM | I tried to make it easy to spot a nice guy once.... Wore a big NG on my forehead. Seems that depending on how I was dressed... people thought it meant "No Good, "Nerdy Goof", or "Nasty Guy". 
Yeah right. Did not. | |
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Posted: 1/22/2007 11:52:53 AM | Nice guys do finnish last. I don't know what it is but for some reason nice guys are concidered pushovers. Anyways I've been walked on so many times that I'm slowly becoming a PRICK. What makes a guy nice is on the inside and can not be seen from across the room. I guess that's just too bad for me. BOO-HOO
Too bad I don't let it get to me.   | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 1/22/2007 12:37:38 PM | Nice guys whine about women liking bad boys because it gives validity to their sniveling ways!!!
You live by extremes lady must have depression problems or full of resentment....
hahahahahahahahaha that sure is WRONG!!!!!!! Obviously you have never met me or you would never have said that!!! hehehehehehehehe
Never have I ever been resentful nor am I dealing with depression - especially now!!! hehehe
My observation of the 'Nice Guy' in this statement has come from what I have seen in many men over time!!! Men who are true cads, that hide behind the 'nice guy' persona, only to continue to be scoundrals - never admitting it nor seeing it in themselves!! They view themselves as nice guys as they insult - use and abuse women and others around them. It's like the mother who states her baby could never do no wrong and he grows up to believe that!!!
Funny how you completely agreed with me in msg 195!! Hum!! | |
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Enig
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Joined: 4/30/2006
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 1/22/2007 2:11:18 PM | It's the guys who come to you when their gf's/wives just don't do it for them! 
Seriously it's the ones who break deals n can't live with the repercussions so they make you an even better deal...shoot forget how that saying goes now.LOL I can't be bought but shared investments don't fall in that category...some things really are priceless. God that was rich..kinda like I feel right now. | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 1/22/2007 3:20:56 PM | | How do you spot a nice guy?? You can't. Nobody believes we exist, so why bother looking?? | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 1/22/2007 3:50:34 PM | | He always helps you move when your abusive boyfriends throw you out of the apartment. | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 1/22/2007 4:41:41 PM | 1-Time
2-Communication
3-Time
4-Communication
5-Time........etc..... | |
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Posted: 1/22/2007 4:48:19 PM | He does what ever you ask....almost like a genie! "As you wish..."
He brightens your day when you're feelin' low
He always listens to you
He does "nice" things for ya when you least expect it.
He doesn't mind giving you his coat...in the dead of the deep freeze of winter.
He wears the gimp outfit without any fuss...oh wait...that comes later. Heh! | |
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Posted: 1/22/2007 5:03:29 PM | (1) Responds to messages
(2) Don't only want to talk about sex or expect sex on the first date.
(3) Knows how to communicate (you can see they are listening when you are talking) | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 1/22/2007 5:08:32 PM | A nice guy is one who will quietly slip away rather than saying..."OMG You're fat and ugly!!" | |
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Posted: 1/22/2007 6:49:33 PM |
A nice guy is one who will quietly slip away rather than saying..."OMG You're fat and ugly!!"
A nice guy isn't shallow and will be willing to give someone a chance, no matter what someone looks like. It is ok for them to be ugly and fat, but they still have to be selective about who they talk to. The ugliest guys on the planet are more shallow than the guys who are actually good looking. | |
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| how to spot a nice guy!
Posted: 1/22/2007 6:53:02 PM |
A nice guy isn't shallow and will be willing to give someone a chance, no matter what someone looks like.
Good Answer 
In other words... a nice guy isn't quite so superficial when it comes to looks. He is attracted to the beauty within a person. We all have preferences but a good person can see the beauty that lays within.... doesn't care as much what his 'buddies' think of his woman. If he's attracted to her then that's all that matters.
Sooo.... a nice guy isn't always looking for High 5's from his boys but instead follows his heart. | |
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Posted: 1/22/2007 6:59:02 PM | I just have one thing to say to all the nice guys that say women don't want a nice guy. The problem is that we DO want a nice guy. The jerks we end up with TELL us they are nice guys and at first, they are. THEN they turn into the jerks they really are. You see, those jerks have got our number and know we are looking for a good guy. It's only until later their true identity comes out. This makes us women gun-shy and question when a man tells us he's one of the good ones. I will forever have optimism that out of all these jerks at least ONE will end up to be truly a nice guy. Until then, I'm still fishing for him!  | |
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Posted: 1/22/2007 6:59:40 PM |
A nice guy isn't shallow and will be willing to give someone a chance, no matter what someone looks like.
WRONG. Nice Guys have personal preferences just like anyone else; and that includes preferences for personality, intelligence, appearance, attitude, demeanor...etc, etc. Nobody I've ever met has been so selfless as to accept someone regardless of appearance... and no, I haven't lived in a broom closet all my life.
a nice guy isn't always looking for High 5's from his boys but instead follows his heart.
Very true. A nice Guy is true to himself and sticks with his own ideals and preferences. He does not deceive people by accepting things he doesn't want, just because someone else thinks he should. Nor does he seek out partners that his pals would approve of. And when not interested... he attempts to avoid being rude, particularly in cases where persistant attention is unwanted, by making a quiet exit. Just my opinion, but I think dissappearing is gentler than having to tell someone why you aren't interested at times.
tell them flat out that you just are not that interested in them VVVVVV
OK PATCH...I agree with you on that one, and will freely admit, that at times, I have been quite cowardly in such cases. I never did claim to be perfect. I have been in a few very awkward situations where it's been difficult to get away with a simple "I'm not interested"....the parties involved insisting that I tell them WHY I wasn't interested. Difficult to do at times. And for the record.... I DO NOT re-call ever uttering the phrase "OMG You're fat and ugly". I'm sure if I did, my 80 year old mother would magically appear and beat me to death for being so impolite. The phrase was used more to stir the pot, so to speak....or as an extreme statement that even Nice Guys have preferences. Being Nice doesn't mean that you accept everyone and everything. That assumption is ridiculous. Naughty me. | |
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Posted: 1/22/2007 7:14:43 PM | HAHA jeep... I agreed with you wall the way up until you said
"but I think dissappearing is gentler than having to tell someone why you aren't interested at times."
In my opinion... pulling a disappearing act on someone is called being a "coward". It is a very hurtful move to pull on someone. Honesty is the best answer in that case. Everyone deserves the truth... it's simply depends on how good you are with giving it to them.
If someone is quite persistant... I agree that pulling the disappearing act is usually the easiest move to make but is still quite hurtful. It's called having compassion towards others feelings. If the person just wont back off and take a hint then be honest and say you don't feel the chemistry with them. IF they still wont back off then by all means... get a little more harsh with them. Sometimes even the smartest need a bonk on the head to make them realize. (NO don't actually bonk someone on the head... that's considered abuse) lol
But I mean... tell them flat out that you just are not that interested in them, you arn't feeling the chemistry (no need to tell them they are fat and ugly in your eyes...unless of course you have the mentality state of a 2 year old) and make it clear that if they don't back off then this WILL be the last time they will hear from you. Atleast then you have given them fair warning. Then... it isn't considered pulling a disappearing act on them. | |
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