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| Are women afraid to meet guys online?
Posted: 7/17/2007 3:26:44 PM | I don't understand how im any different from anyone else. I really can't. Other than that im so much of a gentleman and so considerate that I can't grab a woman and do what most guys do in those places. I kind of want to see a hint of acceptance of my approach first because I don't like looking like a pervert. It's not from lack of confidence in my opinion but because I have a lot of respect for women. I don't want to grab or touch a woman that won't welcome it. It feels very morally wrong to me.
This OP,To Me, is a Proper way to be with women...Period.
So there's nothing Wrong with you in that respect.
i pretty much do the same, but guess some show an interest
sooner and are more outgoing about it.
So Keep your Chin up Dude, You Got the main issue down.
The right one for you will Come around When it's time, have Faith!! | |
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| Are women afraid to meet guys online?
Posted: 7/17/2007 4:10:27 PM | I see pictures of really good looking women on here, their profile says they are looking for honesty, fun etc. Ya look at the bottom and see 177 friends and testimonials of what wonderfull people they are. So my burning question is this , If this is all true, good looking , wonderful, great to be with has a list of 177 friends .. Why the hell are they on here? A woman like that must have plenty of offers of dates, they only need walk into a pub or club on a girls night out and would be chatted up in no time.
I came on here cos i thought , well i'm having no luck out there in the real world as i'm quite shy and i seem to say the wrong thing, where as on here the woman could chat for a while and get to know my real charactor first. Hmmm that don't seem to work either.
I start an email convo by telling them that they look good or nice or stunning in the pic and would look forward to a reply
i get a one liner .. "oh thanks that's nice" Looking for rich REALLY good looking stud that will spend Your fortune "
I'll bet if i put in my profile i was a lottery winner i'd never cope with the amount of emails.... ha ha .. didn't say i won a tenner. | |
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| Are women afraid to meet guys online?
Posted: 7/17/2007 4:15:25 PM | hmmm half of that went missing....
i get a one liner .. "oh thanks that's nice"
So why don't they be honest and put in to their profile that they are
Looking for rich REALLY good looking stud that will spend Your fortune
I'll bet if i put in my profile i was a lottery winner i'd never cope with the amount of emails.... ha ha .. didn't say i won a tenner. | |
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| Are women afraid to meet guys online?
Posted: 7/17/2007 7:01:07 PM |
I don't understand how im any different from anyone else. I really can't.
maybe this is the problem. What makes you different from anyone else? I have been to a few clubs recently and for the most part I just watch and see what is going on. I have noticed guys coming up to women and just grabbing them, and start grinding on them. Then I notice the lady turning around to her friend and rolling her eyes at her friend seemingly saying what is this guy thinking. So I dont think you would have much luck with that approach either. You have got to be yourself, and not play the game. Dont be something that you are not, because they will pick up on it as well. Look for someone who has the same interest as you. I see someone with I like to go 4 wheeling, and I like to go horseback riding, Or other interest that doesnt interest me. I dont even bother writing them for the most part, because what are we going to talk about? We have nothing in common. First you need to become satisfied with who you are, and be happy with who you are. You cant make someone else happy if you are not happy. I was married for 14 years and right after my divorce I thought that I needed someone to make me happy, so I went right out and started looking. I discovered that when you start looking that you will have no luck, but when you stop looking and least expect it, that is when things will change. You sound almost like I did at first, I was bitter, and angry at all women. They can sense this so deal with those issues first and then you will find someone. | |
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| Are women afraid to meet guys online?
Posted: 7/17/2007 8:08:20 PM | | For whatever reason you lost their interest. Most likely someone else came along and stole the attention from you. There is not much you can do about it. It's the way the game is played. Don't let it get to you. Make sure you are choosing women who have similar interests as you so you will have things to talk about. | |
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| Are women afraid to meet guys online?
Posted: 7/17/2007 8:20:51 PM | I'm not afraid, yet I am. I've met many guys online, but they all seem to turn out to be exactly the same. Even the ones who claim to be "not like most guys". They've all been exactly the same, no matter what they say. They might as well just all be clones of one another, because that's how they seem to be anyway. So it doesn't give me much hope for meeting new people.  | |
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| Are women afraid to meet guys online?
Posted: 7/25/2007 12:18:12 PM | Have you ever gone fishin'? Let me walk you through it...
Well, first you have to some decent fishing ground. Knowledge or experience is thus required. You also need supplies, unless you are a bear. Sometimes, if you are indeed hungry enough, you must wade through muck, progress through wilderness, protect against ticks and, of course, leeches. You must thus be of some physical capacity, and of some cunning if predators are in your territory. And with human overpopulation, be mindful of competing fishers.
How you fish depends on environmental factors. In some waters you cast out a line and wait for a nibble until a bite. You then carefully hook your fish and reel it in. And the struggle begins. If your rod and lines are efficient enough for your fish, if your hook job was appropriate, then you will successful at tugging your fishy out of its environment and into the airless air. Then what do you do? Do you have a bucket of water to plunk it in? Do you stand and stare at the desperate battle for life? Do you toss it back in and let it deal with the memories? There's also fly-fishing, net-fishing and cage-fishing. The efficiency of what you do and what bait you use depends the nature of the water. | |
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| Are women afraid to meet guys online?
Posted: 7/25/2007 7:40:14 PM | Hello there,
Well, I never received a single response, lol. I don't know why, and I don't really care anymore. and it's not only this site, I tried lavalife, and a site called meetmeinto.com a while back, it's all the same. Just by sending the messages I learned some stuff about myself. Just becoming creative and sometimes I surprise myself with what I do to impress a lady. But chances online, at our age, are VERY VERY VERY slim. Some women read the messages, some women keep them and others delete them, others don't even bother reading the messages, they just delete. So, if u want advice, here's what I got for ya:
Use this site to learn about urself and about other ppl, use what u learn out in the real world.
If you want a place to meet ppl, try ur local transit system. I had 2 girlfriends I met on the bus, and I dated another 3. Not to say it's the perfect place, but it's a place you can take advantage of.
And to answer ur question, there is some truth to it. Talk to the girls you know, and they will tell you that, yes, they are afraid of meeting ppl online because they think that guys lie. I'm only saying this because this is what I was told by the ladies I know.
So, anyway, just take it easy, it's part of life, u live u learn. life is good, go out and meet the live fish out there.
Cheers | |
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| Are women afraid to meet guys online?
Posted: 7/26/2007 12:19:01 PM |
I see pictures of really good looking women on here, their profile says they are looking for honesty, fun etc. Ya look at the bottom and see 177 friends and testimonials of what wonderfull people they are. So my burning question is this , If this is all true, good looking , wonderful, great to be with has a list of 177 friends .. Why the hell are they on here? A woman like that must have plenty of offers of dates, they only need walk into a pub or club on a girls night out and would be chatted up in no time.
The problem with this statement is that you're assuming online dating is a last-ditch effort for somebody. Maybe they're sick of walking into a club and getting hit on right away - because I can tell you for certain, guys don't put any emotional effort into that. Online dating forces them to impress you with conversation before they start trying to grab your ass. It's a higher standard of dating, really, even if many people do look at online dating as a last ditch effort. And, telling a woman with a great picture that she has a great picture is really a waste of a message - you think she hasn't heard it a thousand times before? Originality is your friend. | |
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