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Posted: 5/17/2004 5:59:33 PM | I would have to say... hummm...No. LOL
I can't say the samething unfortunaly, We haven't even had the chance to touch each other....... yet!
He gets to come home on leave soon....when were not sure, but I do know that when he does it will be amazing.
I love him so much it hurts when I think about him. I can't stop thinking about him, it seems everything I do now involves him in one way or another.....If something were to happen to him, I know it would kill me.
Neither one of us is looking forward to his leave, b/c we know that he is going back to that hell hole......I miss him already
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| Re: HELP!!!
Posted: 5/18/2004 5:43:23 AM | Dear hughjretion,
To me trust between two people should be treated with the greatest care.
Once it is broken,it takes years,if ever to rebuild that trust.
Always stand by your beliefs on trust. | |
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ya472
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| Re: HELP!!!
Posted: 11/10/2006 4:51:24 PM | I just wanted to find the oldest listed thread. 
However, after reading these forums for about a year, it seems none of these topics change much.
People want a relationship, and the same people want to abuse the relationship. Maybe the CHILD in some people never grows up and needs a MOMMY or DADDY relationship, but still have the need to play HOUSE.
I think it is great to set up a STING operation to determine if your S/O is faithful, but if in doubt, why even bother ?
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| HELP!!!
Posted: 11/10/2006 5:01:56 PM | | Are you out of your head girl ? Or just that stupied ? YOU MARRIED HIM , now live with it . Your are black mailing this poor guy , you keep up the stuff your doing now .. I would cheer him on if he cheated on you . | |
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Posted: 11/10/2006 7:03:57 PM | WHAT A HORRIBLE PLAN, THAT IS SO DISHONEST AND SNEAKY! YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED.
Maybe he really loves you and is sincere in all he is telling you and you are going to ruin it and lose him by doing this.
I feel sorry for you and for him!!! You because you're so insecure and dishonest and him for what you are going to do to him. You are passing judgement on him for something he hasn't even done to you, and may never do.
That is like labeling a child a theif into adulthood for stealing a few times as a child. We do grow up and learn by past mistakes........ give he guy a chance to do the right thing. Believe me I am sure he has plenty of temptation daily you don't need to set him up.
If you are spending all your time dwelling on this, think of all the wonderful sharing you are missing with him. What a shame ........... | |
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Posted: 11/10/2006 7:19:15 PM | ya472:
I think you win the born-again prize - a true resurrection of an old thread. (Funny how many threads there are on this same subject, don't you think?)
I think it is great to set up a STING operation to determine if your S/O is faithful, but if in doubt, why even bother ?
If the person doesn't want to be with me and I know it, why do I want the proof shoved in my face? If you baited the hook and dangled it in his face, why be surprised when he takes the bait? Communicating your fear and insecurity in the relationship is the key - not hiring a flirt to see if your man takes her bait.  | |
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| HELP!!!
Posted: 11/14/2006 6:43:26 PM |
I figure a good way to do this is find someone out there who could email him and just start talking to him that way,..get his interest for abotu 5 or more days,..see what his feed back is then I can see what he is really up to. Or if he would cheat if he had the option.
THAT is NOT a good idea, take it from me, i sware, i wouldnt say it wasnt if i hadnt tried it. my ex, we were together a short time, and i felt like things were falling apart, and im a bit coneviouse (bad speller too sorry) and i thought of this exellent idea to see what he would do, same thing you said actually. and i did!! that was my bad mistake. he found out i had planned it, and he found out why, and we ended up fighting AND braking up, and i was in the wrong because he didnt even do it. on the other hand i did find out what i wanted to know, but lost him in doing so. if you havent already done it yet, i wouldnt advise you to do it! | |
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