online dating service
REGISTER | MAIL/PROFILE | HELP | NOW ONLINE | SEARCH | RATING | FORUMS | SUCCESS STORIES

 

Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest 100% free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > oral sex for her      Mod Threads Home login  
Page 7 of 8 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8
 Author Thread: oral sex for her
 MikeLaures

Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 151
view profile
History
oral sex for her
Posted: 11/11/2007 8:10:18 PM
Um....Hopefully...some of us men are good enough we dont need notes..lol...NEVER had a complaint yet...but im still reading the body language...i tend to take a few mental notes from how she positions herself...what she does with her body...then i take over from there...I ALWAYS give...its a MUST do in my book...mostly because i like it...lol

oral sex for her
Posted: 11/11/2007 8:32:24 PM
My favorite part is after my partner becomes unconscious. While she is lying limp and relaxed I begin lightly licking and suddenly (they all do this) sit straight up and gasp for air with their eye's wide open and pulling my face forward (that part tends to hurt just a bit). Then, they fall back for "more". I'm usually tipped off that they are ready for something different when I hear different versions of "come up here". LOL.

There's nothing better! Even if I were to lose the use of my everything else, as long as I have my lips and tongue, my partner will be quite satisfied and so will I.

An axiom of truth for many men is this statement, "Show me a woman who's man won't go down on her and I'll take her from him."





ACP
 mlsaarln

Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 153
oral sex for her
Posted: 11/11/2007 8:44:39 PM
No such thing as too long!
 passionate10101

Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 154
view profile
History
oral sex for her
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:03:04 AM
When she is begging for you to get on top of her, then a few more licks are just perfect. So I have been told.
 princess leigh

Joined: 4/20/2006
Msg: 155
view profile
History
oral sex for her
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:12:58 AM

HE'LL know when I want HIM to finish me off!!!!!!!!

Loss of breath, curling toes, nails digging into the mattress, my voice suddenly sounds like Linda Blair's in The Exorcist and a trembling body means..........Dinner's ready!!!!!

Hope he is a fast EATER because Dinner is over in 2 minutes!!!!!!.......Hahahahahaha!!!


brilliant Jo... gosh I miss your posts... couldn't have said it better.
 Anne32351

Joined: 10/18/2007
Msg: 156
oral sex for her
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:48:13 AM
WOW message 143, that is impressive. LMAO!!! I think you said it better than any sex advisor ever could. You better get that published before someone steals it.
 oohwe

Joined: 7/3/2007
Msg: 157
view profile
History
oral sex for her
Posted: 11/12/2007 6:13:51 AM
SIR..WOOHOO PLEASE WRITE A BOOK... SO MANY MEN OUT THERE COULD BENEFIT FROM YOUR WISDOM... YOUR WORDING WAS PERFECT...ROCK ON THANKS
 JasonDenver

Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 158
view profile
History
oral sex for her
Posted: 11/16/2007 7:55:48 AM
I think that's a great question. To tell you straight (and I have had numerous compliments..if I do say so myself).. the more aroused a woman is, the less time she will need to orgasm through oral sex. I find it best to turn on a woman - in different ways first.. light touching, talking dirty..telling her what I want to do to her, licking and touching her body...then and only then do I go for the kill. If you start to soon she will not be turned on enough..and you'll be down there for hours! (which is cool..but not when you or she is tired)..
check out this article I came across on google..
http://give-her-great-oral-sex.com/newblog2/category/uncategorized/

Jason
 sassy~n~sweet

Joined: 9/17/2007
Msg: 159
oral sex for her
Posted: 11/16/2007 8:45:58 AM
WOW!! All these men that LOVE to please their women!! And the reason your all single is because????????? hehe Ahhh you guys sound like ya know what you're all doing, just please keep up with the teasing!!! More I'm am teased the HARDER I cum and the MORE I cum!!! WooooHooooo!!
 stephaniezowie

Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 160
view profile
History
oral sex for her
Posted: 11/16/2007 8:52:41 AM
what a blunt question. i like it!!
therefore here is my opinion...
all women do not get an orgasm from oral sex.
i think most do though.
do it til she has an orgasm.
unless she is one of them multi-cummers(like me--shhhhh--that a secret!)
then u should do it until she has had her fill.
if u can't then most likely she will end up cheating on you.

also
ask her. most women be glad to tell u what to do!
 TheReason_

Joined: 9/19/2007
Msg: 161
oral sex for her
Posted: 11/16/2007 8:57:17 AM
once they are done moaning and screaming, and finished clawing the paint off the walls... it's a good time to let up.


 gibson L P

Joined: 7/24/2007
Msg: 162
oral sex for her
Posted: 1/19/2008 10:49:01 PM
ummmm why not just ask her... well when your mouth isn't full of course... but.. really.. thats the TRUE secret.... communication...
 stashn

Joined: 3/3/2005
Msg: 163
view profile
History
oral sex for her
Posted: 4/2/2008 2:19:35 PM
To start off you must start at the top with a long sensual massage working down her neck,her back,her outer thighs,legs,right down to her feet. Then work way up innner thighs massaging teasingly>>>>Comeon ladies, it winds u up, doesn't it<<<<. Kneading all the parts of a woman's body before even starting oral. Having a woman totally relaxed from a "GOOD" massage helps in the feeling of the exciting oral activity.

Then as far as stopping,lol, wrap ur arms around her legs and go and go and go until she just screams to stop. She will love it(er, at least I have never had any complaints after finished,lol. Usually asked what woman taught me to satisfy a woman that wayand they say that she should be given a medal for teaching me the tricks).
 Gators

Joined: 3/25/2007
Msg: 164
oral sex for her
Posted: 4/2/2008 2:41:40 PM
Wow .. good thread
I would say there is a ton that can "ride" on this answer .. most important , if she is into you and what you are doing and letting you know it , don't stop until she shivers and screams and sqeezes your head w/ her thighs ..until that happens don't stop .. (thats how I learned to breath through my ears )
If you are not doing what she likes, then I guess just until the rooster is ready to enter the hen house let's say ..lol
 One4Me?

Joined: 7/28/2005
Msg: 165
oral sex for her
Posted: 4/2/2008 2:53:55 PM
OMG I am laughing so hard at your responses! But true very true.
 mullynsculder

Joined: 3/18/2008
Msg: 166
oral sex for her
Posted: 4/2/2008 3:02:05 PM
You know, I'd like to say that I've never had any complaints, and every woman I've gone down on has turned into a multi-orgasmic cum beast, but....

this is really an "it depends" question. If I am really into the chick and I am super excited, I'll go at it like there's no tomorrow. But some women...meh. The receiver makes as much difference as the giver. Probably the same with women giving oral.
 cambridgetrent

Joined: 8/14/2008
Msg: 167
oral sex for her
Posted: 8/27/2008 4:18:04 AM
love giving a woman oral sex mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
shaved stuble or not its all yummy to me
 spicynicegirl

Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 168
view profile
History
oral sex for her
Posted: 8/27/2008 4:22:40 AM
When a woman is ready and you've done it right she will pull you up and tell you.........one way or the other.
 wiktor1985

Joined: 8/19/2008
Msg: 169
view profile
History
oral sex for her
Posted: 8/27/2008 6:17:38 AM
u do it till she gets an orgasm or fakes getting one.
 god-spiral

Joined: 8/25/2008
Msg: 170
view profile
History
oral sex for her
Posted: 9/30/2008 10:15:01 AM
143 ruled, but from jo

Same goes when I am pleasuring him.......

A little lick here and hot breath there.......


For guys, going at it like a hooker with another date in 5 minutes works well too. :) Teasing can be great and memorable, but keep it to times that striving for an orgasm would be against the rules, or as a very brief introduction to what is about to happen.
 corindan

Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 171
view profile
History
oral sex for her
Posted: 9/30/2008 11:06:04 AM
Do it until she tells you to stop, or don't do it at all. Why be half-assed about it, enough to set a time limit?
 BMcLeod

Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 172
view profile
History
oral sex for her
Posted: 9/30/2008 11:11:15 AM
As long as she wants it!!

Communication is KEY in oral sex.

Let's face, it's a messy job, either way around. It's up to the giver, ultimately, but taking forever is a turn off for both people.

It may just be me, I take for-freaking-EVER to climax orally. Half the time I am worried about her jaw, lol.

Again, if you're getting sore, let her know. If she doesn't like what you're doing, she should let you know.

Talk, talk, try, talk, try again, talk, SUCCEED!
 the_write_stuff

Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 173
oral sex for her
Posted: 9/30/2008 12:04:11 PM
Given that I am extremely orally inclined, I am happy to see that the majority of women have answered that receiving it can usually never go on too long. I would rather perform oral on my lady than breathe and no reciprocation is necessary or required!

On the flip side, for me personally, I have a very difficult time reaching an orgasm when receiving oral sex so yes, for me, it can go on too long (and don't venture anywhere near my balls!!!!!!!!).
 hyperfocus

Joined: 6/12/2007
Msg: 174
view profile
History
SIGNS
Posted: 9/30/2008 5:14:49 PM
I’m can’t read all the posts, so I am going back to the initial question. I’m not sure what would indicate too short for oral sex, but you may get some suggestions in the “dirty underwear” thread.
As one with a bit of patience, here are some signs that you have been giving too much oral sex:

1. Life threatening dehydration (either)
2. The alarm goes off for work, and your date was Friday
3. The ambulance crew that showed up for the screaming had time to go home and get their camera’s
4. Only one of you can feel your tongue
5. Your chin looks like your fingers do when you take a long bath
6. Although you appreciate her encouragement, your ears now hang low and you can tie them in a bow (still fine if you are into bondage).
7. Your Chiropractor gets a restraining order against her
8. That despite you insistence that you are still having fun, she stops saying “I want you inside me” and starts dragging you up by the hair.


There’s more, but those signs her easy for the newbies to spot.
 Blondecharmthe3rd

Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 175
SIGNS
Posted: 9/30/2008 7:19:13 PM
Too funny hyperfocus!!

I get sensitive fast so I would say that its a lovely part of the overall exerpience but I prefer variety, imagination, and simple communication.

Its not generally an issue when they discover I squirt. Most don't want a face full.
Page 7 of 8 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8
 
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > oral sex for her