| | Would you ever get married again?Page 4 of 6 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6) | Oh, Jan will see your $1.50 and raise you about 10K...cause there's NO WAY !!!!
( and.....your dating advice sucks )  
And...furthermore....even if I did meeet Mr Wonderful....no way I'd move that fast...especially now that I have kids involved, even if they are older. Would never get engaged after less than a year of knowing someone. | |
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| Would you ever get married again?
Posted: 1/4/2009 12:52:23 PM | I could be wrong here...but I do believe that in order to get married....one actually has to DATE someone first.
No??
Am I wrong???? | |
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Posted: 1/4/2009 3:03:48 PM | Married.. lmao... right guy (does he exist???) right time.... maybe if the guy
who can live with my faults. big Maybe... probably - NOT!
I know I will never get engaged again, somehow I don't think fifth times a charm.
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| Would you ever get married again?
Posted: 1/4/2009 3:58:16 PM | simple answer for me - no.....I will not get married again. Not in the traditional sense. Committment should be there with or without a piece of paper.  | |
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Posted: 2/5/2009 10:53:52 PM | Well folks.. That was a good question...
For me.. Most likely not.. After being Fleeced twice.. House money kids. , then
House money, kids, reputation, and livlihood.
Humm me thinks there just might be a bit of a trust issue there?
Ya 1st ex took up with Best buddy, 2nd ex couldn't get her highschool- sweet heart out of mind 25 years later. She carried on the affair with him for a year before disclosing her love interest to me. Ya that was a relationship terminator. HA!
Get this 1 week after meeting him, bed time.. 2 weeks after dating. They are engaged. And now I'm waiting to hear of the wedding date. In a month or two. Wow. So people at 40 can still be ?? As silly as they were at 16 eh? So Get married.. again ? You got to be kidding. No way in h.....
Anyway.. Committment sure..
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Posted: 2/6/2009 12:57:35 AM | the issue of finding someone crazy enough is mute , we are all crazy ..finding some one
that will tolerate your crazy whilst you tolerate their crazy , now there is the quest for the holy grail .
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Posted: 2/6/2009 5:42:01 AM | | Been married once, don't think I'd do it again. Or at least I'm saying this now...I guess you can never say never. | |
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| Would you ever get married again?
Posted: 2/6/2009 7:16:38 AM | have to be once married to do it again .....
they'll soon lock me behind glass as an indangerd species :) | |
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Posted: 2/6/2009 7:31:57 AM | | haha I'm with you! I would get married though even though I've never been. I don't feel the need to be married any more so just being together would be enough for me. Don't get me wrong though - I'm not saying I wouldn't like to be married if I was in a committed relationship. I think if someone is good enough to be with then they should be good enough to marry. I would hope the person I marry would be as committed to making the relationship work as I would be. | |
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Posted: 2/6/2009 8:46:35 AM | Sure I would. I think I'm probably in the minority with people my age who have been married already. I was married once and for only 11 months. We didn't even have one anniversary. I want an anniversary! LOL
I agree, if someone is good enough to be with, they should be good enough to marry. For all the rhetoric about marriage being nothing but a piece of paper, it seems to be a pretty scary piece of paper for some people!
IMO nothing says I love you like Will you marry me? lol | |
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Posted: 2/6/2009 8:53:39 AM | | I've got no interest in getting married again, but if I found the right person, and she insisted, then certainly I would do it other than lose her. To me though, it wouldn't mean much. I already took an oath saying “til death do us part" once. It wasn't. So that kind of trivializes the entire sacrament of marriage in my eyes (or in my eye ha ha). | |
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Posted: 2/6/2009 7:19:45 PM | | That's exactly it...it's pretty well just a piece of paper for legal purposes, not a binding agreement that someone will love you no matter what. | |
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Posted: 2/6/2009 7:29:57 PM | I would do it again just to get a house full of new appliances again. I could use a new blender and toaster.
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Posted: 2/6/2009 8:43:43 PM | yes , If I met the right person. I may not be the best catch here in the hatchery, but I hold on to the belief that there is someone for me .I was married for 23 years and though it has come to it's conclusion , It has not soured me on the belief that I should have to spend the rest of my life alone. Now this is for me not necessarily for everyone, and we all have our own reasons for our existence , but the comfort of having some there is really quite pleasant . Even when your minds are at different planes you still have a common bond .
It is nice to come home and have some one there , to talk with , to explore life with , to share the majestic feeling of belonging to something other than the sound of silence and solitude that so many end up with . The biggest problem I think I have seen here in my whole 2 weeks is that so many have chosen to stay locked in to a way of existence that does
not let them open up and want to share feelings , or emotions that are needed to go forward.
It is not easy to step out of a routine that has been evolved over a number of years and jump into a complete new world.
When you were in school you had common interests, when you were in your 20's you were
still involved with people of a common background , but now we are older and here on pof
or other dating sites you are hoping that the creature on the other side of your screen is at the very least , polite , and to me there seems to be a lot of lack of common courtesy ,
might be I think differently , I wish I was more successful , more goal orientated, better
listener , had more exciting interests, worked less, was more involved in the community , but I am not perfect , never was probably never will be. So what is the common thread that has brought us all to this site, height , weight , age , birth sign , divorce
free meal, love for coffee, the need to be entertained, nope . None of us really want
to be alone till our dieing days. Yes we all have some sort of family , we all have our friends, but we do not have the bond of a friend that is our lover,our mate , our confident
some one that does not judge the little things harshly and loves the feeling that at the end of the day , your not alone .
There are 6 billion people on this planet , but there is no pain worse than knowing you are not with one of them .
Ok , I need a tissue now.
dustin | |
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