| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/6/2008 2:23:22 PM | Oh yes, women can be shallow... sure, some of them. They cannot hold a candle to men in this particular regard, as men are pretty much hard wired to be much more visual than women to begin with.
But if you are not looking for substance to begin with, you are shallow as well. | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/6/2008 3:01:21 PM | I believe you're too shallow and immature to understand that she is not even 20 yrs old and young. Why don't you look for someone your own age or are you afraid to? My advice is that you should focus on your problems and flaws before you point the fingers toward other people. then you will find your answers to what is wrong with you. If you care that is. And when you begin to mature and grow then you will meet a good woman.Oh and by the way my man is 5'10 thin and doesn't have the greatest income and I'm content. I've had many opportunities to be with men that were over 6'tall,muscle bound,and loads of cash like you stated but they lacked good character and liked to point fingers at others. A big turn off! lol!good luck | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/6/2008 3:13:08 PM | Women can be really shallow. - Tex Mex
> I shake my head in bewilderment after reading your posting.
> Nevertheless, there are fragments of intelligence here and thin strands of wisdom amongst all this astonishing generalization.
> You are focussing outside of yourself for happiness and comparing your life with other people's habits. "She goes," "She moved," "She hasn't give me a - ," "She claims she's not - ," etc.
> What on earth has this woman's life and her actions got to do with your happiness?
> I think you need to centre yourself, ask what you really want, and, with a little help from the 'gods', you may find what you seek.
> As for, "If you're not 6 feet, muscle-bound, and have a wad of cash in your pocket that could choke a horse, you may as well not leave the house," you have only to read the Testimonials on this website and you will discover how erroneous your thinking is. You are insulting the genuine and authentic women - those who are far and beyond this shallow and materialistic assumption.
> It all starts with your thinking, Tex Mex. I wish you all the best.
> - Peter. | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/6/2008 3:29:13 PM | A 33 year old bragging about a wad of cash in his pocket (and she thought you were just happy to see her) pine-ing over a 19 year old. Now who's shallow? I guess you'll have to settle for a woman your own age that also has money. Then your little wad won't seem so impressive. | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/6/2008 3:30:13 PM | Well you know when a guy has the same behaviour he's the man but when a girl does it ,shes a slut?I also don't agree with the part that if the guy has money and the car what ever girls only go for that,I am yet to meet a guy whos cute but simple funny and doesn't mind a girl whos not hung up on materialistic stuff and is not so high on themselfs I find those types ugly cause of their attitudes do you have a pic of yourself nice guy? | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/6/2008 3:33:30 PM | and by the way i'm 33 and your playing stupid if you think 33 is old its the new 20 and too nice can be nerdyand just maybe your not her type | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/6/2008 3:46:44 PM | | you're too old for her and a co-worker...not a good mix....and she's not any where near ready. she's still trying to find herself. if she hasn't given u an answer it's because she doesn't have one. move on...there's nothing wrong with you...you're just after and attracting the wrong kind of women. lol | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/6/2008 4:18:24 PM | You know what I suggest to the FAT OLD ZOMBIES who approach me on POF?
I add the age difference to their age and tell them to find a lovely toothless granny for themselves. Hey OP why don't you find yourself a really 47-50+ year old honey for yourself? What fun! Gosh men have amazing egos! If you are expecting her to forgo all the great times her youth entitles her too, you sure better have enough money and lots of it so she doesn't regret that she threw her life away. Great a woman this age can expect you to not only die 10 years sooner than someone her own age, she can look forward to being a widow for for 24 years - great! Don't forget you are going to get Alzhiemers and old age a lot lot faster than a woman even your own age......
Life with a pompous, patronising, judgemental, arrogant, selfish, conceited, perverted, jealous, undateable, loser, dinosaur and OLD FART great! How DARE SHE refuse!
Be thankful and grateful she didn't start laughing at the very absurdity of it! Hell I would have! | |
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eddy02
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Joined: 11/11/2007
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/8/2008 2:52:54 PM | Try pheromones.
Maybe just ignore this chick for awhile & maybe she'll come your way.
But, haven't you heard-NEVER mix business & pleasure.
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/8/2008 3:08:57 PM | hey buddy.. let me set you straight.. shes not shallow.. shallow would entail someone who knows better.. shes immature.. and sorry to say but she and a gazillion other little girls her age don't wise up until they are 30 something 50 lbs overweight and/or one divorce and 2.3 kids later.. that is if the jerk shes attracted to doesn't beat her into the ground first.
I would try to stick to women your own age or slightly less than.. because from where
I stand.. If your only attracted to the youngest possible putang fresh from the the gate then my friend.. (YOU are the shallow one.)
just calling it like I see it. | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/8/2008 4:39:35 PM | 30 lbs???
Jeesh....you'd be killer, alright...probably dead!! : (
What's with these guys??
Laurie | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/8/2008 5:39:26 PM | We all have our youth. We all make mistakes and live our life and learn and that is what shes doing. She doesnt find you attractive. Shes young and carefree and is into hotties and why not? She'll get her heart broked like most of us have and probably learn some lessons along the way. You are not her knight in shining armour and im sure youve made mistakes in life.
No 33 is not old but to her it may be, shes just 19. Youve been there done that and she's only just started out. I certainly dont see her as shallow but shes findin her feet in the world.
I would be ery careful passin opinions on her life if you work with her as someone pointed it it could be perceived as creepy. Its ok to like someone but you have to get the message, take it on the chin and move on. Your sounding bitter to me. not every one finds us attractive yu know! | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/8/2008 5:54:13 PM | Yes, you ARE WAY TOO OLD.
I'm 52, have both a daughter and granddaughter, if you had approached my daughter when she was 19, I would have put a stop to it.
What could a 19 year old possibly offer to a healthy, normal 33 year old man?
I don't know about where you live and work, but where I live this would probably be considered sexual harassment, you'd lose your job. | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/8/2008 6:13:30 PM | I hate to say it but there are many shallow people in this world both male and female and you arent gonna change their mind, no matter how well your intentions are.
besides why do you care that she is shallow, You seem to want to date her but she already told you that you are too old for her, Why would you want to date her anyway. You can not go around being the loan ranger and save every cowgirl in distress. She does not know what she wants, and besides it is unethical to date her anyways. I sure bet she is cute but that is niether here nor there. She is still a child, she has to make her mistakes and if she doesnt learn she never will.
Let her be. | |
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Joined: 1/10/2008
Msg: 117 | |
| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/8/2008 6:27:36 PM | Sounds to me like you have a thingfor her and since she rejected you, you are being incredibly childish by lashing out at her.
Grow up.
By your own admission, she works under you. Do you REALLY think dating a woman that much younger than you when you are her boss a good idea? Do you REALLY want to open up the door for a sexual harassment lawsuit? Who do you think would win in that situation? The 33 year old male boss or the 20 year old female employee??
Leave her alone and get a life of your own. | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/8/2008 6:31:40 PM | wow, so let me get this straight.....from what you describe of this girl, she sounds like she is immature and has ALOT of growing up to do. not neccesarily shallow, just not on this planet long enough to make the best decisions yet. Do you remember your thought process at 20?
I think both of you are being equally shallow......but her excuse is that she is YOUNG!!! & I really think you are upset because you want to date a young hottie and she is not interested. there is probably some great 30 years olds walking by you every day and you are not even paying attention..........
namaste.....best of luck | |
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Joined: 8/16/2007
Msg: 119 | |
| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/8/2008 9:23:42 PM | Do you have this young lady's number? I, for one, would like to discuss the implications of her decisions with her. In private.
...eew, what's this 33 year-old guy doing here? | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/9/2008 2:03:40 AM | Let us not forget, Men sleep around, it's all okay, women sleep around, we're all sluts.
First point in how OP is shallow.
Second point:
She turned you down because she's nineTEEN. I'M nineTEEN. I WOULD TURN YOU DOWN ON AGE ALONE. No, you may not be old enough to be my dad, but in my eyes, you've seen enough in your life that to me, that is too old. I draw the line at 24 until I turn 20 [and 24 is even pushing it].
Not all 19 year olds are shallow, and that's a shallow statement as well. If that's how you choose to handle being turned down and starting a sexual harassment lawsuit, you are the shallow one. | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/9/2008 5:11:57 AM | Wow, how did this post go for so long, it started late 2006. Op is probably not even around anymore.
Really disgusting a man of that age belittling a young thing because she wont date him and to keep asking is harrassment. You should be brought up on charges. She should be able to work in a safe environment and not have to put up with your silliness.
Some idiot on here claimed women play the Im Helpless game by making a complaint. Have you any idea how horrible it is to work with a superior and have to smile and say "your nice" "thank you for the compliment" because you fear you may lose your job.
Its abuse of power to make themselves feel better and in reality, these women are meeting gf's for lunch saying ewww he makes my skin crawl.
Alot of harrassment goes unreported, the women simply finds another job.
Op my personal opinion of what you wrote and did is that your not a nice person at all. | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/9/2008 2:27:28 PM | | Never dip your quill in the company inkwell. As the other poster said, at 19, 33 is OLD. To me, 33 is too young. It is not a matter of being shallow, it is a matter of mathematics. | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/9/2008 2:48:11 PM | | I hope you don't accuse every woman who won't go out with you of having a character flaw. That sounds like a red flag to me. Some might call your obsession with a hot young girl shallow. The pot is calling the kettle black. Is there anything besides her being hot that makes you want to go out with her? | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/9/2008 3:03:04 PM |
i too just noticed, that not 1 woman stood on tex mex's side on this at all.
just a bunch of insults. nobody really tried to help him see things for what they are.
"help" being the key word here. this girl he talks of might not be shallow minded, shes just not interested it sounds. but if ya read, guys are on both sides of the fence on this.
all the girls are on one side. lol go figure.
Women are first and foremost...........MOTHERS........who give BIRTH to children and hate to see them prey on by men who should have more respect for themselves and leave children and youngsters to enjoy their youth.........They had their young years and had fun with them...........allow another generation to have theirs also without messing it up......................
I am very outspoken on this because I see too many adults (mostly men) prey on younger women and mess their lives up........They try to reach them just outside of the legal limit as if that makes it ok........ In most cases they have deep insecurity issues that make it difficult for them to relate to another adult so the much younger generation makes them feel manly.......its like "see! I can date a much younger girl....dont you think I look hot??" Looks so pitiful to me...........lol | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/9/2008 3:08:25 PM | | It goes both ways you know. But I refuse to believe that all men (or women) are that bad. | |
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