| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/9/2008 3:03:04 PM |
i too just noticed, that not 1 woman stood on tex mex's side on this at all.
just a bunch of insults. nobody really tried to help him see things for what they are.
"help" being the key word here. this girl he talks of might not be shallow minded, shes just not interested it sounds. but if ya read, guys are on both sides of the fence on this.
all the girls are on one side. lol go figure.
Women are first and foremost...........MOTHERS........who give BIRTH to children and hate to see them prey on by men who should have more respect for themselves and leave children and youngsters to enjoy their youth.........They had their young years and had fun with them...........allow another generation to have theirs also without messing it up......................
I am very outspoken on this because I see too many adults (mostly men) prey on younger women and mess their lives up........They try to reach them just outside of the legal limit as if that makes it ok........ In most cases they have deep insecurity issues that make it difficult for them to relate to another adult so the much younger generation makes them feel manly.......its like "see! I can date a much younger girl....dont you think I look hot??" Looks so pitiful to me...........lol | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/9/2008 3:08:25 PM | | It goes both ways you know. But I refuse to believe that all men (or women) are that bad. | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/9/2008 3:34:04 PM | | 33 is alot older than 19 or 20. you said she seems to only go after the hotties. isn't that what you are doing ?? try to find someone your own age , that you don't work with. this can only cause trouble down the road. believe me i know. you'll be happier in the long run. | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/9/2008 4:14:27 PM |
She's young and dumb.... we all have to learn... she has a lot of growing up to do!
OP, you should be shot.
Just because because she refuses to date a 33 year old does not make her dumb. She does not want you because you're too OLD, not to mention, you're her co-worker. Does that not complicate matters even more?
I find it hard to empathize with you, considering you're the one pursuing someone 14 YEARS YOUNGER THAN YOU. You're both worlds apart, she's just now starting her life, and it's only natural to go for the "hotties" lol.
And what could you possibly want from her, other than a piece of ass?
Go find someone in your age range, who you can actually relate to. | |
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Posted: 2/9/2008 4:23:18 PM | You sir shouldn’t be sticking your hands in the cookie jar to begin with. She works under you? One might assume based on that comment that you could be a manager and may have a little pull in the organization. That said, inter office romance between a manager and a subordinate is a big no no! When things go wrong, someone’s taking the long walk off the short pier. Given that you are a male, and possibly a manager, you should know better. Chances are you might be taking that walk.
What’s worse, you’re setting your company up for a potential lawsuit. Lastly, she is only 19-20 years of age and you are 33. Given that assessment, she is most likely not ready to settle down. I can almost guarentee you that. There is a lot wrong with the picture you are painting. My advice? Speaking from experience… Stay away friend… Find someone close to your age and outside the working environment.
You said “If you're not 6' tall, muscle-bound, and have a wad of cash in your pocket that could choke a horse, may as well not leave the house.”
Not so much… We all take our pants off and put them on the same way =) I’m guessing that because your 33, your in a panic to get married and father children. You’re in for a rude awakening… I’ve known too many people who rush to the alter only to find out several years later it was the biggest mistake of their life. My advice here? Patience… You will find your partner in crime. We all have that "one" true love waiting for us… Some find them right away, and some have to wait, and then you have those that may never find them. That’s life =) I’m pushing 40 never married, no kids, and wont settle for less than perfect. That said, it’s quite possible that I’ll be one of those who never finds the “right” one. And that’s ok with me =) So don’t rush… Just live your life, work hard, date when you can and before you know everything will come full circle. Take care of you first, and live a happy productive life! You’re true love will come when you least expect it. | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 2/10/2008 7:45:22 PM | | If you're not attracted to her personality, then what part of her ARE you attracted to? Her body? Shallow! IMO, it's stupid to date someone you're not physically AND emotionally attracted to. Perhaps you should date someone in your own league. | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 3/31/2009 11:04:43 AM | i have to lol
bro if u have to ask whats up i dunno what to tell you
but in response to the OP i think u want a hooker not A WOMAN
Im 40 and look like im 28 having said that i dated an 18 yr old just a few months back...
her dad was 43 lol mopst of the other girl i date are 23-26
So look man i feel you, and it sucks ass.. but u r looking in wrong place and u r doing this to yourself. Feel me? Dont let any one woman get u down coz thats for weak men.
Also these other women are right and u r lucky u didnt get a sexual harassment suit thrown at you.. if u want super young tail then call a hooker or go to raves and find a girl wacked out on x lol
otherwise quit bullshitting and find a woman aged 26-36
trust me theyre better all the way around!!! lil experience goes along way
18 yr olds dont even know whatday it is yet
fact is the hottest woman i ever was with was 42!!!!!
she BLEW MY MIND!!!!!
little girls are for little boys! real women are for real men!!!!
AMEN
hahah
aite good luck bro | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 3/31/2009 1:17:09 PM | I always chuckle under my breath when I hear the word "shallow"...
People like what they like. Who are you or I to tell them what they should like?
Do you like it when people tell YOU what to like? Of course not.
Stop wasting your time with people who aren't interested in you. You'll miss the ones who ARE.
Cheers. | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 3/31/2009 6:50:47 PM | women are shallow. it's in their nature. this isn't news. OP needs to go on the Dr. Phil or the Oprah show.  | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 4/1/2009 10:34:12 AM | Dude, she is 19, and you are 33. That's not usually a good idea.
Guys and girls that age do that kind of thing. They live the fast life quite often, and you talk about her being a slut or what have you, but guys and girls hit the clubs and go home with someone. They're human. | |
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Posted: 4/13/2009 7:11:39 PM | Over 10 years and really women don't see you has worthy to be in their pool of suitors.
OP you are both right and wrong. Yes lets put it out there women can be very shallow.
However this young woman has every reason to refuse you not the least of which is that you are co-workers.
You need to learn how to be alright with people not wanting you. Don't give up searching but you shouldn't have any ill will or opinion about someone who doesn't want you in their life. | |
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Posted: 4/13/2009 8:35:08 PM | i can see the girls perspective
19 and 33 is a large age difference
you should be lookin for 27+ bro | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 7/22/2009 7:52:59 AM | Oh give me a break, she's 19 or 20,and you think she should understand the deep meaning of love and life? Of course she's shallow, it's all she knows how to be right now. Of course she's going after the hotties, that's what she's wired to do at 19-20. And YES, I think 33 is TOO OLD for a 19 year old. It doesn't matter if YOU think it's not too old, if SHE thinks it's too old, then it's too old for her.
Furthermore, you are not her type because regardless of your age, you have been planted firmly in the "friend zone," and from what I read here, there's pretty much no way out of that, once you are in it.
And FURTHER furthermore, if you are her superior at work, I would put an immediate stop to discussing anything of a personal nature with her, ESPECIALLY asking her out and trying to talk her into going out with you, if you want to keep your job! | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 7/22/2009 9:37:57 AM |
The thing that puzzles me is I'm one of the nicest guys she's met. She admitted it.
But yet, I'm not her type.
Too old (you think 33 is old?), and a co-worker.
I've asked her several times if we weren't co-workers would she think about it?
You are her boss and you are engaging in this type of behavior with a co-worker? Watch your back Jack. I see a sexual harrsament suit down the road. | |
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| Women can be really shallow.
Posted: 7/22/2009 2:22:30 PM | old post, but...if she had given this guy a chance, he would have said she was "deep", but would have hoped not too deep.. | |
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