| How dumb am I?
Posted: 1/8/2007 8:00:03 AM | | god you must be a lesbian have met enough of them,if not your very close | |
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| How dumb am I?
Posted: 1/8/2007 4:11:27 PM | | Strawberrysabs, This is a classic case of you making a horrible choce. There is no way a person can hide all that from someone who makes good choices... | |
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| How dumb am I?
Posted: 1/8/2007 6:29:39 PM | | What is up with married men whose wives are pregnant cheating on their wives? I have friend who have done it and I never got it. I even was seeing a girl who dropped my for this piece of trash, another thing I cannot understand is some women's attraction to worthless pieces of S#$%, and even stayed with him once she found out the truth. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 10:16:41 AM | I am way too old for you but if the photo everyone is talking about is you in the yellow I can't see the problem. Sure you have nice boobs but I don't think you are advertising anything in the group photo. I am a boob man myself but nice boobs don't mean come and get it! Really! I don't know why everyone is blaiming you. Jealous maybe!
I wouldn't change your photo it looks nice and decent.
Live long and prosper.
Don | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 10:27:02 AM | | You want to know where you can post such warnings about men? There is one! It's called "don'tdatehimgirl.com" and it's pretty entertaining and educational to read too. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 10:28:37 AM | AHHHHH THE OLD SAYING IF WE COULD GO BACK AND KNOW WHAT WE KNOW NOW. BOONEDOG | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 10:59:12 AM | OMG! What rock did the women who said the OP's pics were a call to married men crawl out from under?
Sorry to hear you were used, yes it takes time to get your radar going for married men. I was naive once too and really never thought to look for a ring or a tan line where one was...lol.
Good luck in your search. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 10:59:29 AM | i won't claim to know this situation, but it's like anything in life when you fall off the horse you must get back on the horse! (in this case maybe not the same horse) we are so easy to have our hearts broken but so hard when it comes to mending. theres an old saying that makes sense "easy come, easy go" no puns intended, it's just sad that we have people to take advantage of trust, and it's more sad the victims of this distrust stay that way. it's time to just move on and remember whats happened but don't let it rule our lives. everybody makes mistakes. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 11:21:55 AM | I tend to agree with sobeit19, I think your Pic is OK& Great,as opposed to some who say you shouldnt post Pics, that you have something to hide like 300 extra #'s Hope you can get over It! Respectfully George In Fla. And bounce back! | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 11:29:15 AM | | You did nothing wrong you got screwed over. It happens keep doing what your doing and the right one will come along. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 11:58:18 AM | | You're not dumb,you were just lonely and wanted companionship.....and please,your chest has nothing to do it,When a man gives you a cell or pager number,that's a possible red flag right there,so is calling you at weird hours (like only at night) then there's the,"only can see you on certain days,and only certain places) a married man can't take you out to too many places where he can be spotted by someone who knows him and his wife...........peoples can sense,lonliness,desperation,insecurity and other feelings comming from a person.......and a married man are usually experts in knowing this.......how do you think pimps gets girls to prostitue for them???I'm not by no means saying you have these traits,a man with no good intentions can sniff out a lonely woman to play his mistress,this man is an expert in keeping you away from his personal life,I'll bet you anything,in the 3 months you've known him,you really have no real idea who he is,and he'll keep it that way until you eventually finds out......then he'll move on to the next victim. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 12:01:21 PM | | HAHA your sarcasm is greatly appreciated. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 12:51:59 PM | +++Why is it so easy for these f'ing creeps to lie to me, and use me?+++
Because they are good at it. And it is not just men, women do it to. These people virtually study the art -- they read books on it -- what to say -- how to say it -- when to say it -- they have pat answers to standard questions -- borrowed apartments, borrowed cars -- borrowed jobs -- I've known people taken to offices on like a Sunday where name plates and diplomas have been switched. Meet a "favorite client" for lunch and introduce their new "fiancee", he's got some Bulls tickets, "wanna go?"
Incidently, the land line is of historical significance only -- probably a negative. Why would a man/woman have a land line other than to offer security to some third party. Four years ago I was on my cell phone with my land line provider complaining about my land line being out and my bill being wrong and all kinds of stuff when it dawned on me I had no need for it. "Never mind," I said, "Just cancel my account."
Oh, and I was hit. Met a nice young lady (40ish, I was in my 50s) the day after my mother's funeral. Innocent meeting. Spent a lot of time together for the next two weeks. Got a phone call from one of my credit card companies wanting to verify an expensive purchase taking place. Checked for my cards, all gone. Let's see. Day after my mother's funeral -- vulnerable. On Sunday had met her best friend outside their church and gone in for the service. Turns out neither of them had ever been there before. Is that pretty good? Would you fall for that one?
So that's my answer -- because they are so good at it. And that innocent meeting -- she was laying in wait. | |
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| How dumb am I?
Posted: 9/10/2007 1:01:51 PM |
innateplanet
Maybe the picture of your breasts on your profile led him to believe that you were an easy slut.
I have a big chest too, but I don't advertise it, or the rest of my body for that matter.
If you are selling meat, men will buy meat.
You get what you ask for. Have a little more respect for yourself, and maybe men will have a little more respect for you too.
innateplanet what a Biatchy reply and total uncalled for !!!!
GROW UP !
op not all men are slimy but this guy obviously was... I'mm sorry for your pain
take care | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 1:09:53 PM | Your not dumb. Woman are really good at it. Little harder for a man to pull this off for any length of time. Happens to me all the time. Then the lady will just disappear or block you- Its a game for many-cool. Best to not to start to care . If you can help it. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 1:23:41 PM | | We have all been taken in. You are not dumb, you are just trusting and believe what you are told and men----who can understand them. I do not even try anymore. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 1:26:27 PM | Your not dumb your YOUNG.
Some people on here Wish they could get into the life and pants of someone as attractive as yourself.
Mark Twain said "Youth is wasted on the young."
Just chalk it up to one of life's experiences.
Learn from your experiences try not to make the same error again.
Some men and woman here are real sneaky, that's how they live their lives.
Your real match will come along.
At 21 it's the time to play and learn what you want and don't want.
Good luck and happy fishing.
I have noticed a lot of bitter men and women on this site.
Many are in a hurry to kick people when they are down.
Makes them feel better. Ignore them you did nothing wrong.
Happy fishing. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 1:33:22 PM | well in response to ur post babe.. this is the internet its pretty easier for ppl to lie online and u not notice it.. so dont feel bad about that..
fyi ive met women who were just as slimey online | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 1:35:02 PM | Not sure why you are getting slammed about your pic....I also have been duped from married men... Please learn from your mistake and go out and find someone that is right for you.. He is out there,trust me and all the others that have told you the same. You are young,have fun and enjoy your life..
BTW...Love your kitty,mine new one looks just the same.. | |
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| How dumb am I?
Posted: 9/10/2007 1:55:45 PM | well naw i wouldnt say ur dumb for that babe.... like what someone else said, obviously this guy has been doing that for a long time... the house may not have been his actualy place of residence...sometimes what u have to do is suprise the guy... ukno just drop in.. u dont even have to alert himn of ur presence... sometimes u gotta be alittle more cautious/stalkerish in order to make sure u arnt getting ran over... but saying how can men be so slimy is too much of a generalization, women tend to do that all the time when it comes to men.. personaly alot of u are always going for the same type of guy... a hot guy, and then u all complain there all doggs, when u havent been with a guy u wont normally go for.... personally.. this is the internet.. ive probly met just as many slimey girls on here as any girl-men
u just gotta be more careful, and try something different once | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 1:55:56 PM | | Don't even worry about it... he lied, not you... and about your clothes... wear whatever makes you feel good... don't worry about what anyone else thinks, or says... I seriously doubt he lied, because of your clothes... that makes me laugh... gee... what would we do without the liars and the haters??? hmmm... | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 2:07:16 PM |
Most men on these websites are married and 99.9% are just looking for a booty call
Maybe not the dumbest thing I've read in these forums... but close. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 2:14:50 PM |
Maybe not the dumbest thing I've read in these forums... but close.
I gotta agree here. Some broad brushes being used here, huh. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 3:45:46 PM |
Maybe not the dumbest thing I've read in these forums... but close.
or even supplying thoughts directly to a person who asked it way last December yet today has to rank right up there as well. Ya suppose she is still seeking a resolve? A click on her history will tell you she hasn't posted since. I tell ya, when it comes to thought, some people stop at nothing. | |
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| How dumb am I?
Posted: 9/10/2007 4:02:12 PM | | innatep that was really nasty of you good lord woman | |
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