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Posted: 9/10/2007 4:06:09 PM | | Hey Strawberrysabs. Sorry you got hurt.Listen don't get down on yourself we have all been there and anyone who says they haven't well is lying girl.Hey talk to some guy friends next time maybe they will see it from another angle next time and be able to give you a thumbs up or down on a guy. Oh and your pic is beautifull not slutty girl.Hey the hurt will pass and you will be ok trust me hang tough. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 4:15:44 PM | | u've got to be kiddin me?? is that the pic..the one with the yellow top? u look great and don't let anyone say u brought it on urself....he was just ***hole..theres plenty of em lookin for sweet and innocent. gives the good guys out there a bad rap | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 4:32:47 PM | | I think this B!tchy woman has some kind of mental impairment from eating paint chips as a baby............Op,you're fabulous just the way you are,just because a loser spotted your rather very lovely picture does'nt mean you're a slut,Now this B!tchty person???? Let me put it this way.....her name speaks for itself! | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 4:36:21 PM | PS......Yo B!tchy......stop yanking on Op's picture while you're sitting on the floor looking like a whore yourself in that bathing suit!At least Op has clothes on! | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 4:41:49 PM | | Men don't have a lock on lousy behaviour and treating the opposite sex shabbily. If there were a forum that was a rogue's gallery of that type of person, it would be the busiest thread on the site. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 4:43:45 PM | | If I had your body I wouldn't advertise it either, what you said was just mean and nasty. Are you jealous because she is pretty and you are not? I think what happened to her could happen to anyone, I have known MEN that dated women and found out later they were married. Who are you to judge? BTW No I have never dated a married man and yes I am sure. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 4:46:57 PM | | holy crap,dont u think thats kinda mean?jeez if ur got it flaunt it,just coz urv got a hot set of boobs dont mean ur guna get hurt more than someone with a smaller set,shit,u need a reality check. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 4:54:56 PM | OMG.... meow.... ladies pull in your claws.
You look fine and not at all like a "slut" and forums like this are for questions just like your.
When I first divorce, I have the same things happen to me. I did go to his home... it was beautiful. So seeing his home isn't a clue (his wife was in Denmark.) He was Mr. Wonderful... and I told a co-worker about him. I could see by her face she knew him. I said, "Do you know him?" Her icy response was, "Yes, I know he and his wife very well!" I understand his wife was a wonderful person.
Apparently, this was par for the course for this jerk and his wife never knew. A few months later, an intruder in their home murdered her. To hear him talk (on TV) it was all about him. Poor me… blab…blab…. blab….
I didn’t say one word about his wife. It was all about him. I have to admit I thought he killed her, but the intruder was later found guilty.
This is the kind of man who will go out with nice girls like you with nice wives at home. All they think about is themselves. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 4:56:30 PM | | Nightcowboy, you're right. Younger women, older women they all get played at somepoint in their lives. There is no guarantee, no matter how old you are or how young you are. His wife is also being played. He wants his cake and eat it too. You do not have it as bad as his wife, she married him, that was the biggest con of all. He took vows and have broken them. You're not dumb, do not call yourself that!!!! You made a mistake, had a bad experience and if you live long enough you will experience other mistakes. Learn, grow and move on. I did not look at your picture, however people should not judge you for your appearance, but who you are as a person inside. The others who are putting you down for your pictures, stating if you show meat, you will get meat. What are they showing and what are they getting? If they have what they need or want, then why are they on this site. So their dress code obviously isn't working for them. | |
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Posted: 9/20/2007 9:56:32 AM | Oh my God!! I am sorry Strawberry! I am so embarrassed.
My previous post was not in response to you but to innateplanet's post to you. I think you look adorable and what happened to you could happen to anyone, I found it despicable what she said to you, my post was actually meant in your defence.
I completely messed up my post.
This is the one to was responding to.
Posted: 12/17/2006 4 06 PM
Maybe the picture of your breasts on your profile led him to believe that you were an easy slut.
I have a big chest too, but I don't advertise it, or the rest of my body for that matter.\
If you are selling meat, men will buy meat.
You get what you ask for. Have a little more respect for yourself, and maybe men will have a little more respect for you too. | |
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Posted: 9/21/2007 11:45:33 PM | this one is easy he wanted what was between your legs more than what was between your ears . go back to when you first met him where you drunk? where you in a club? was you easy to get? If yes to any of these questions Im on his side because you where in the wrong places looking for the right thing. Which means your not alone it happens all the time. | |
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Posted: 9/22/2007 6:57:11 AM | ".. was you easy to get?" OMG... did you mean, "were you easy to get?" So in other words, you're on his side because women should stay in their place, women can't go out, women can't have sex.... and what century are you from? This isn't a third world country, women can go to bars and if they desire sex… enjoy it. They should be able to encounter a worry free evening with no hassle and no guilt. We’re all big boys and girls now. We take out precautions and expect others to do the same.
Watch Sex and the City... learn a little about life and pick up a book on grammar.
P.S. You're crude too.  | |
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Posted: 9/22/2007 7:17:36 AM | Not Dumb just young and naive, you made a mistake in trusting someone, thats just natural. Although I'm sure the experience will make you more cynical of your future dates.
Just be yourself and you never know whats around the corner.
I would have thought that the women on this forum wold be more sympathetic to a girl who has been lied to by a married man, not chastised by the way she looks or dresses.
And on an internet dating site everyone has to make themselves look their best just to get noticed.
Put the whole episode down to experience, and by the way the best way to get revenge on an idiot like that is to find a great new partner and live life to the full, and not take any notice of the Ex. | |
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Posted: 9/22/2007 6:57:06 PM | In the beginning...you can only go by what a person tells you and lets you know about their life.
Then in time, as nightcowboy says...
In the future If I were you I'd get his home number,place,see his place and talk to people who know him.
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Posted: 9/22/2007 7:06:19 PM | | Maybe you ignored all of the obvious signs because you wanted it so much to be a happy-ending romance for you, strawberry? | |
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Posted: 9/22/2007 7:17:24 PM | ALBEIT this thread is nearly a year old...... HOWEVER
Married /Woman Man = Cell phone only, no calls at night with a tv on in backround, no kids noise in back round, never around for holidays or special events, no access to home or work numbers.....
Damn this is easy stuff. jj | |
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Posted: 9/22/2007 7:28:02 PM | Maybe the picture of your breasts on your profile led him to believe that you were an easy slut.
I have a big chest too, but I don't advertise it, or the rest of my body for that matter.
i think that is the biggest load of bullshyte i have ever heard... that is the same as saying if she was raped becasue her singlet shows a lil cleavage she would deserve it. no one i repeat NO ONE deserves to be raped misguided or so on. you lady need to get ur head out of the clouds and stop assuming things. i also have large breasts but u know what if i was mislead or raped , i would not assume that my cleavage was my demise. what you have stated above is WHAT RAPISTS USE AS AN EXCUSE FOR THEIR ACTIONS!!!!!!!!!!! god ignorant and assuming ppl P!SS ME OFF | |
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Posted: 9/22/2007 8:21:48 PM | ok my spelling could use some brushing up on, fair enough but to be astonished at the fact does not want a relationship after a simple one not stand and he's got all the other to lose is not crazy to me it makes perfect sense. As far as crude well....so is justice so Ill take that as a compliment. They need spell checker on this shit then You could shut up besides she knew she was messing with a married man and question how dumb am I I would have to on a scale between 1 and 10 shes a 12.  | |
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Posted: 9/22/2007 8:29:48 PM | | And I wish it was a third world country **** then you could shut the hell up. I love being free but like you people abuse it and take it for granted not that Im condoneing what the married man did he just wanted some some strange and seems he did just that . If you dont like it dont spread you legs period end of story say what you want. | |
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Posted: 9/22/2007 8:42:51 PM | I don't think that you are dumb,people are capable of being very cruel to others.They see something about people and take advantage of whatever they see as a weakness.
Even when you think all your bases are covered.I have had a couple of women do the same thing,minus the pregnancy.In the end I always wonder"how did I not see this coming?".I end up with that same feeling of what kind of idiot am I?
Note: not all men are slimey. | |
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Posted: 9/22/2007 8:46:04 PM | Hey..you live & learn..we ALL make mistakes..Thankgod you found out early enough....it may seem hard,but TRy to move on..TRUSt me theres someone out there who will RESPECT you for WHO you are more than that FOOL..his loss...
and..your pix looked fine...GOOD LUCK | |
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Posted: 9/22/2007 8:50:16 PM | Don't meet men from online!
They are all a joke! ;)
They will pick you out from the crowd, then will always be sitting on the fence ready to jump once the next piece of a.s.s comes along. | |
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Posted: 9/22/2007 9:20:28 PM | First of all, you aren't dumb. Married men who cheat are very good at what they do. They know exactly what a woman wants to hear. After all, they married one woman by using their charm, did they not? They know what works, and they get better at it with experience. Just like you will. I know exactly where you're coming from. I am 60 years old and married men hit on me too. Everywhere; on here, at work, in grocery stores. Many are with their wives when they ogle me!!! Look at my picture. What on earth is provocative about it? It's a head shot of me smiling, taken 9 months ago. So "up theirs" who think a picture, or the way you dress makes you a target for any man.
To the point at hand. Home phone numbers are good, and going to their place is good, maybe, if you want to take that risk. Make sure you're out in public with your guy as much as possible. If he avoids being seen with you, there's a problem. Make sure you meet his friends and workmates, his family. Your guy should be showing you off, not hiding you. He should be proud to be seen with you. Remember, married, pathetic excuses for "men" are stroking their egos by hitting on other women. They're insecure in their masculinity so they need lots of women to make them feel like a real man. The men I know, who tell me in the very beginning, before the first date, that they're dating other women are the ones I trust. And, I always ask before I date them. The kind of relationship that starts out honestly can turn into either a very good friendship or into something more and you'll know you can trust him. Please, put this married jerk on dontdatehimgirl.com to save other women from the slime ball. He may already be on there!!! Check it out. Good luck. I know you'll find a great guy. I did. | |
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Posted: 9/22/2007 9:35:13 PM | | Well, geminimara, I agree with everything you've said. Your last comments in particular. I usually express my aged self that way, (I'm 60) but tonight I posted on this thread and I was actually nice. I think. You're right, I'm with you 100%. My smiling head shot gets lots of hits from married, single, bi, straight, even... yes, gays telling me how hot I am. How the heck can they tell from a head shot??? I ask you. Some people, unlike us of course, really have their heads up their patoots. Good for you girl. !!! | |
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