| How dumb am I?
Posted: 9/22/2007 9:53:32 PM | | OP, I'm not sure you are even still reading the posts, but you look great and quite appropriate for the type of function it appears you are at. Your attire wasn't the reason why this happened. It happened because the guy is an as*hole and you and I and a whole lot of other people tend to believe what we are told until proven different. Some guys are great at lying - and women too, - don't feel foolish....hey it took me seven months to find out and that was only a year ago and I'm 53. I too went to his apartment, there was nothing there that even hinted at a seven year bf/gf relationship. His long time g/f told him of our conversation. I never called or emailed him after speaking to her. Then I get an email that said, "sorry you had to find out the hard way". And I'm thinking, "what there's an easy way?"...........anyway, my point is, you are not alone, there are a lot of us that have gone through the same hurtful experience and felt like the biggest fool of all. Oh, and don't pay attention to the fashion JUDGES on here, .......you look darling! | |
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| How dumb am I?
Posted: 4/14/2009 11:13:50 PM | | If you are a trusting person, you are easy to fool. One who is trusting expects the same from others. Its not a reflection on your iq, but a reflection on your inherent good nature. Cherish this quality, but be a little more skeptical in the future, lol. All the best to you, you seem like a great woman. | |
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| How dumb am I?
Posted: 4/15/2009 11:42:10 PM | | Justatool....no you aren't. You're that and more. Such nice things you said and I love your "If you are a trusting person, you are easy to fool." That's the very reason I never trust someone who says, "Trust me." | |
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| How dumb am I?
Posted: 4/15/2009 11:45:47 PM | | dontdatehimgirl.com is a great resource. I found a guy on there who I dated a couple of times and lo and behold he's a con man, the money scam. It's a great site. Post the guys who are scum and check the site before you date anyone!!! | |
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| How dumb am I?
Posted: 4/16/2009 12:23:47 AM | | This site, like everywhere else on the internet, is full of selfish creeps who think they can have whatever they want whenever they want. The kind of man who seems to anymore be the majority and makes as all look bad. You just need to be careful and try to pick out the good from the bad. | |
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| How dumb am I?
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:49:41 AM | The truth is men are only as slimy as girls allow them to be. The question is why did you sleep with him so early? I'm assuming you did very soon and without loving this guy... so you reap what you sow. I'll bet since you are feeling dumb about it that you ignored warning signs too?
Look in the mirror. He used you and he's a creep, but you allowed it all to go down against your better judgement. | |
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| How dumb am I?
Posted: 4/16/2009 8:04:52 AM | you are only dumb if you let people think you are..... | |
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| How dumb am I?
Posted: 4/16/2009 9:17:54 AM | Op, dont feel bad, I dated a man who I thought was my perfect match for the rest of my life, turns out he has been on this dating site and many others for the whole 8 years we dated, Now I am left thinking are there any good men left if so why do I not get those emails? I fully trusted this person, until I found out he was screwing around with someone on here!. What a lame ass loser!. Im far better than that and not a coward to tell someone when things arent right. I cant remember who posted that website about dont date.....THANK YOU! maybe I can help someone else from going through the same BS I had to suffer through. There are too many men/women on here that think this is a popularity game, and lie tell you that they are not married or in a relationship because they always think the grass is greener on the other side! Be patient we will surely find the right one someday. Good luck. | |
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| How dumb am I?
Posted: 4/17/2009 12:45:26 AM | | There are usually warning signs in these types of situations. Had you never been to his place? Only saw him on weekends? That type of thing. You have to learn to look for them. | |
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