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 rjpeagles

Joined: 11/30/2005
Msg: 26
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Posted: 12/21/2006 9:31:21 PM
Cashiers? Sometimes.

Teachers? Always.

But I did get hit on by a young cashier once when I asked for a box of Magnums from behind the counter.
 BCDream

Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 12/22/2006 2:10:20 AM
How do u flirt with a cashier? Like you put your stuff on the counter and she rings it in. You pay your bill. How is there enough time to flirt?
 weebs28

Joined: 4/7/2006
Msg: 28
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Posted: 12/23/2006 6:55:47 AM
A male friend gave a waitress his number and asked us to check into why she didn't call him. She looked embarrassed and said "if i called back every guy who gave me his number i'd have 1000 boyfriends" So if you have a really pretty waitress/cashier whatever you can flirt with her but i highly doubt she'd be impressed in any way because you're just one of 1000 who do it.
 Kozmo101

Joined: 12/7/2006
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Posted: 12/23/2006 8:09:10 AM
it's all about presentation and putting out a certain presence of confidence and intellectual capabilty. For example, here's a good one I use from time to time
"Hands her a twenty to pay for whatever i'm getting"
Then say "So how much of that do you pocket?"
She says "Umm none"
Say " Oh, well that's to bad..."
She says" Why's that?"
Say " Oh because i'm looking for a rich girl that can support me... yatta yatta"
The key though you have to say it, slowly.. clearly with good pauses. Don't act frantic and nervous... there's no need to.
Then afterwards if it's feeling like she's flirting back ask for her number. Very simple.
 wsrfr33

Joined: 6/16/2006
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Posted: 12/23/2006 9:05:54 AM
I never flirt with someone who is much younger than I am and I don't expect them to flirt with me to be honest. Most YOUNG (but still at least 21) don't want to date a guy old enough to be their father.

I don't want them telling their friends that "this old guy was trying to flirt with me!"

Cashiers are supposed to be friendly or at least cordial, so I generally think that 99% of them are just doing their job. Some female cashiers are really friendly and outgoing so it can be a little confusing, but most of the time a guy can tell unless they are brain dead.

I figure that cashiers get hit on enough and I don't want to add to the stats.

I NEVER flirt with married cashiers; that is unless they flirt with me. That doesn't seem to be a "problem" with me.

I have been a cashier many times and I don't ever recall a lady flirting with me to be honest, but that was a very long time ago and they would probably have to pin me against the wall and smother me with kisses for me to realize they were interested. I'm probably a little bit brighter now, but probably not by miles.
 MRPRYMETIME

Joined: 10/31/2006
Msg: 31
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Posted: 12/23/2006 12:06:48 PM
Most of the time we're just making conversation.
 pebbles_2006

Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 32
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Posted: 12/24/2006 4:17:28 PM
Yes.... they do all the time I have been working Cashier for like 17 yrs now in different jobs of course & u would either tell with the way they talk to u or body language while they are handing u the money or basically gawking at you while u are ringing up their items....

I worked in a department store for 8 years and u would not believe some men would go to extreme to ask a girls' number i tell u.... they are hilarious.. One time there is this girl that i was working on the next till beside me...this customer constantly comes in the store literally just goes to her till no matter what... she is 15-16 somewhere there. she would tell the guy i have a bf so back off but no this guy would bring her gifts and she would then either pretend to ask for a price check a code to security to come and check out what is going on at the till - there were numerous times some of us girls get stalkers too and that was going rather extreme to the point of a restraining order....
 MichiganWolf

Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 33
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Posted: 12/24/2006 4:34:00 PM
If I walk into a store and go up to pay and I see a good looking girl around my age, I'll smile and see how she reacts. If she smiles back without the whole fake cashier smile and looks like she likes that I've smiled... then I'll ask how shes doing, have a brief conversation and leave. I've never asked for a phone number and most likely won't ever. To openly flirt with an attractive girl while she is at work is probably annoying to her, she might even be interested but it's not the right time to meet Mr. Right, seeing as I'm only 18, I may be completly wrong on all accounts... those of you with more life experience probably know the proper lesson learned from hitting on cashiers.
 modaf12

Joined: 12/21/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 12/24/2006 5:32:27 PM
I hit on many cashiers ( girls only) in my life, I especially love the cute blonde ones. I love embarrassing the hell out of these girls . I also worked as a cashier myself , so I 've been hit on many times , cause I’m hot baby !!!!

I usually end up embarrassing the hell out of the SEXY ones ; I rape them with my eyes . A lot of them , even the accomplished ladies men , end up blushing like a school girl, and feeling rather violated . Give them a little taste of their own medicine, I say ( equality rules).

 mynameispaul

Joined: 12/29/2004
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Posted: 12/24/2006 5:40:48 PM
I don't flirt with 16 year old cashiers.....but...... I often wish I was 16 again.
 Doouglass

Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 36
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Posted: 12/24/2006 8:20:28 PM
No, but when the bill comes to $19.99 I toss her a $20 and tell her to keep the change and buy herself something nice.
 Clever Hook

Joined: 11/28/2006
Msg: 37
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Posted: 12/24/2006 8:29:24 PM
Yup...

They're fun to flirt with.
 macdaddy6145

Joined: 9/9/2006
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Posted: 12/24/2006 10:40:57 PM
I'm an older man and i would flirt with you anytime, if you want to know why look in a mirror at the beauty you are.

yesterday I was shopping with my daughter and my wife and they were looking at clothes near the entrance. There was young pretty girl working near the door and when I went in I asked her if she wanted to go out tonight with me. She was startled and aske me to repeat myself. i said the same thing and added "of course my wife is standing there and I'll have to ask her if it's alright. My wife heard the whole conversation and she just said, You can Have him and good luck
 justsomefun01

Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 39
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Posted: 12/24/2006 11:00:40 PM
Sometimes its just flirting and nothing more. Flirting is different from being hit on.
if a guy hits on you he wants to get your number and date you and bring you back to his bed.
Most flirting is just harmless. Outgoing people do it alot, its a good way to strike up conversation: complementing someone on their looks or outfit. It makes people laught and feel good about themselves. But i guess if it hapens everyt 5th customer it can get redundant.

If its a big problem for you and you dont' like it then dress down when you go to work. Don't wear makeup, and don't show alot of skin/skimpy outfits and your flirting numbers will go down.... on second thought this my discourage the nice people from flirting with you and leave only the sleezballs who flirt with everyone no matter what. Well thats my advice for ya.
 justsomefun01

Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 40
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Posted: 12/24/2006 11:03:03 PM

don't flirt with 16 year old cashiers.....but...... I often wish I was 16 again.


LOL, well put my friend....well put.
 Fr0

Joined: 7/24/2005
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Posted: 12/25/2006 3:32:49 AM
Cashier, letter carrier, Jehova's Witness ... it doesn't matter.

If I think she's cute, I'm probably gonna be flirty. As for a grocery store cashier, yeah there are a few cute ones at one of the stores here.. I don't go so far as to make a scene, perhaps a inconspicuous comment. ;)

Fr0
 shysmom

Joined: 10/15/2006
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Posted: 12/28/2006 12:28:13 PM
Well I will tell you I am well over 50 and work in a convience store/gas station on the overnight shift. I work alone all the time and hate to tell you how many times a night I get hit on. It comes from all age groups. Some are regulars and others are just passing through. The sad part is that I am not one of the pretty people so to speak but I am very outgoing and friendly. I love to laugh, tease, joke with them and I would go the extra mile for any of my customers. That seems to please them to no end. Most of the time they are just friendly flirting but some get out of hand when they do I very nicely put them in their place. I am happy to say I can give as well as recieve and they all seem to know it. Have to tell you it makes for a very nice working enviroment and makes the time go by faster. So any of you out there that might come across me just give me a wink and a grin and I will give it right back at ya.
 trance__dreamer

Joined: 10/7/2006
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Posted: 12/28/2006 12:43:52 PM
"it's not just at grocery stores, but cashiers everywhere!

I never know what to do. I mean I'm at work... I have to be nice to the customers..."
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/agreed. i'm a cashier at a gas station...just like the woman above me, & i get hit on all the damn time by guys; & not just by older guys, but by guys my age...& even younger guys too.

hmm...& i'm not totally convinced that i "ask for it" either. (i have some-what of a dress code to follow or whatever. so, i don't walk around all doll'ed up.)

hmm...i guess a lot of guys take my "be nice & friendly w/ all of my customers" attitude/approach the wrong way.

i mean, i don't go out of my way to flirt (...with most of them. ;) ) but guys just try it anyway. but i gotta admit. flirting is quite fun. & i like it because as someone else has mentioned, it makes the time go faster. but i like to leave it @ flirting. i'm not really into random hookups.

moreover, i've actually never been in a situation where a male customer has tried to take it past flirting. i'm really good @ controlling conversations w/ male customers who are flirting with me. so, they don't have a chance to ask for my # or whatever. mwuahaha.
 Dark-n-Romantic

Joined: 5/29/2006
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Posted: 12/28/2006 12:57:07 PM
Not if she is 15, no. But, if she is cute and looks like she wouldn't be offended, sometimes I do.
 unknown2_comic

Joined: 12/7/2006
Msg: 45
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Posted: 12/28/2006 2:41:15 PM
funny thing i rarely flirt with a cashier although i dated quite a few i only saw one at work and that was the first cashier I dated but i never flirted with her while she was on the job hmmmm
 tango-shoes

Joined: 9/27/2006
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Posted: 3/14/2007 12:01:40 PM
I am a cashier, and I work with a lot of old women. Anyways men will wait in my line.. yes WAIT in my line. When the other cashiers aren't doing anything. They always try and get my number, and stuff. It is pretty gross. Or they will wink at me when their wife is right there.
 browneyesboo

Joined: 5/19/2005
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Posted: 3/14/2007 12:32:13 PM
i have a part time job.
sometimes when pouting doesn't work..i get stuck on the registers.
i get flirted with all the time...and i flirt back...its all in good fun.
ive never had anyone cross the line
although i have had men come back another night and ask for my number.
of course when im not stuck on the registers....i get to flirt on the floor
 Algy

Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 48
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Posted: 3/14/2007 12:32:42 PM
I'm a customer. I wait in line with a lot of old ladies. Sometimes the cashier girls will switch lanes just to flirt with me. They always try to get my number by pretending they need it on my cheques. Like that fools anybody!
 iamasiam

Joined: 2/16/2007
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Posted: 3/16/2007 4:33:53 PM

I am a cashier, and I work with a lot of old women. Anyways men will wait in my line.. yes WAIT in my line. When the other cashiers aren't doing anything. They always try and get my number, and stuff. It is pretty gross. Or they will wink at me when their wife is right there.
Maybe they see you so busy and hard working, so they know that they will get a fast service unlike the other cashiers who are doing nothing.
Maybe also they all wear contact lenses and have something in their eyes, thats why they have to wink.


although i have had men come back another night and ask for my number.

Customer aftercare service? Maybe they needed support on how to use the products.

Ladies, stop jumping to conclusions you could all be wrong.

 chadster!

Joined: 2/18/2007
Msg: 50
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Posted: 3/16/2007 4:35:53 PM
don't be so flattered ... we hit on anything that moves, just being honest, you asked.
if that really turns you on, just think if you whould have been a stripper!
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