| High maintenance ?
Posted: 12/24/2006 9:24:33 PM | | Whatever doesn't bother me. If a girl like that oh well. | |
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| High maintenance ?
Posted: 12/27/2006 12:15:55 AM | High maintenance?
[1] needs a phone call every day.(phone and leave a message when she is not home)
[2] can't get her off the phone in less then half an hour.
[3] wants to get together every weekend.
[4] If you cook her a nice dinner ,dosn't get it that the dishes are her job,yes that includes the weeks worth.
[5] won't intraduce you to her sister.
[6] won't intraduce you to her mom.
[7] Wants the front seat even though your dog has had it for the past ten years
[8] complains about a little dog hair.
[9] complains about any and all of the above. | |
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elzo
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Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 28 | |
| High maintenance ?
Posted: 12/27/2006 12:20:45 PM | | To me, those who are high maintenance, both women and men, are those with low self esteem who need constant attention to feel good about themselves. | |
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elzo
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Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 29 | |
| High maintenance ?
Posted: 12/27/2006 12:34:14 PM | | So..... what do think about my previous post? Did you like it?? Was it any good??? | |
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| High maintenance ?
Posted: 12/27/2006 9:11:32 PM | I have met a few high maintenance people and they take up my energy to date or know as friends. They need the attention, spend useless hours getting ready, have to be reassured that they look great and only spend money on the "in or latest" thing or gadget.
If you're high maintenance, I will not spend time giving you attention since your self worth is measured by a mirror, the lack of money you spend on designer clothes and get upset when no one is paying attention.
Give me a man who can make me laugh, sit on a beach/beautiful mountain talking all hours of the night, and having a picnic that might be messy. | |
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| High maintenance ?
Posted: 12/28/2006 8:28:35 AM | Wait just a second here, just because you like nice things does not make you high maitenance....... head out of a*** people. Would I buy an old couch with a hole in it NO, why? because why would I buy something twice, I would rather have all the money to buy it new, and keep it till it breaks, not get something second rate that I have no desire to keep and no doubt would have to replace later... and I have wasted my money!!! I like to dress up and if I curl my hair.. Im going to take at least an hour.. BIG DEAL ... you aren't the one brushing my hair and curling it for me... LOL Besides more often than not Im just relaxing in my jeans and a t or maybe a sporty suit or something.. I will be ready on time, with time to spare. If I am travelling, good luck on making me give you a definate anything...anything can happen and sometimes time management isnt one of them. I know Ill be there.. you know I'll be there... so guess what.. IM GOING TO BE THERE!!!!!
Missy.. ONCE A YEAR? omfg... you sheltered little chicka... I like to go have a great gourmet dinner at least 2x a month, and if I am cooking... its to the nines... spare no expense for the best ingredients, to create the best meal for friends! I do things just for me, sometimes I even splurge on a pedicure!! But the difference would be? I am an independant woman, I work hard and I play hard. I take care of my family and myself.. I don't need someone else to facilitate my (as some might view it) "lavish" lifestyle? Ever tryed to stomach an 8$ bottle of red wine. It's definately not a turn on, sorry...
This being said.. I can tie my hair back, put on my grubbies and head out for some off roading! Fly by the seat of my pants and be on a plane tomorrow... forgetting nothing!! No issues with jumping in puddles with my kids, my favorite time for a walk or jog is in the rain hehehe... Make a mean mean meal on the campfire.. Maybe even relax in the redneck pool.. Or just come home from work, slap on my cozies and sit my butt in front of the Xbox and play my little heart out hehehe (yes I swear too) o and I would be sipping a glass of Wolf Blass.... or a Stella ... high maitenance...... yea totally LMFAO!!
Ps.. sure lets have a picnic.. but I for one won't be eating bologna heh
and that has nothing to do with maitenance.. I'm sort of a chef and prefer to eat quality goods.. not lips and @sshole hehe | |
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| High maintenance ?
Posted: 12/28/2006 8:37:50 AM | ^^^ Oh my goodness Island...I couldn't have said it better myself and I totally agree with you.
I like to go have a great gourmet dinner at least 2x a month, and if I am cooking... its to the nines... spare no expense for the best ingredients, to create the best meal for friends! I do things just for me, sometimes I even splurge on a pedicure!! But the difference would be? I am an independant woman, I work hard and I play hard. I take care of my family and myself.. I don't need someone else to facilitate my (as some might view it) "lavish" lifestyle? Ever tryed to stomach an 8$ bottle of red wine. It's definately not a turn on, sorry...
^^^ Totally true, and taking care of yourself, friends and family is what it is all about. Playing the martyr to placate those who never do for themselves is fools game and all it does is build resentment. Be good to yourself and those you love... you get one go around in this life, you may as well enjoy it. | |
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| High maintenance ?
Posted: 12/28/2006 8:40:52 AM | If I am travelling, good luck on making me give you a definate anything...anything can happen and sometimes time management isnt one of them. I know Ill be there.. you know I'll be there... so guess what.. IM GOING TO BE THERE!!!!!
Islandsugar isn't kidding about that one!
the stories.. the stories..
I do agree though, there are times I want to 'shine' so I make an extra effort with hair, make-up, etc.. but on the most part, it is me and a ponytail and a smile to get me through the day! | |
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| High maintenance ?
Posted: 12/28/2006 8:41:34 AM | High maintenance is someone who demands constant attention and continual catering to their needs.
I have male friends that will not date women unless they are high maintenance as they say they need to feel that they are "needed" and unless a woman is demanding 150% of what they have to give they don't feel wanted.
sick sick sick | |
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| High maintenance ?
Posted: 12/28/2006 10:19:37 AM | There's nothing wrong with spoiling oneself by feeling great, and everyone view will be different when you want to indulge in luxury. If I want to relax, its usually a spa day that has a pool/gym and ending it with a massage. That is my view of mainenance and indulging myself or feeling pampered on occassion.
When you meet people who NEED to be told they look good, and constantly demand attention, is high maintenance. You can wear all the designer clothes, spend money on over price food and want people to notice you, could be self esteem issue's on the need for attention.
Everyone should take time out to be pampered but does your luxury lifestyle exceed your income and cause others to find you needy. | |
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