| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/2/2007 11:34:35 PM | Bite your tongue with all that "ALL" talk...
NOT all dudes deserve to be treated special...and god knows NOT all chicks deserve it either...
I understand that the vast majority of you people on here wanna try and play the politically correct card, but how about we live in the real world for about 45 minutes? | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/3/2007 6:56:24 AM | All human beings have value but some do things that they have to be punished for by the justice system. I believe that every single person deserves to be loved. Does not mean they earned it or treat people good. But I don't want to get into all that. I am talking about dating and those of us who are not a size 5 or on the cover of vogue. Why should we be treated like garbage and not given a chance to be asked out because we are not physically perfect?
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/3/2007 9:27:00 AM | sassy beauty ~
hit the nail on the head from the woman's perspective
and I must chime in
to say YESSS this is the MAIN REASONNNN!
you cant make good daughters and raise them a certain way
then make bad boys by a whole different set of rules....
The frauds and men out there with the monologue of good guy ~ under the guise of being different unlike anyone you have ever known. These are the men that have ruined women.
Destroyed total trust in women. Now add these guys to a steady loop back to back for women and no wonder why women just give up or shut down.
The Casanova Valentino's playing good guy... telling a myriad of extensive lies ...even going so far as to score points by earning her respect & trust through well thought out ... situations in which he can make himself LOOK DIFFERENT than the rest all to prove himself and gain her trust to later BETRAY her.
If men were up front we would not date them!
At least give us the option... it would be best to have a label on everyman
making dating all the more easier.LOL
However it is live and learn... | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/3/2007 11:20:18 AM | Mostly we see what we are looking to see. We find facts that prove our suspicions correct! Maybe a self fulfilling prophecy??
Anyway - i have found that being a nice guy AND staying in very good shape is what really matters. A positive attitude and a smile. A little edge helps too since women still like men for being men.
Other than that its a roll of the dice.... | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/3/2007 1:12:14 PM | | ok go in the who viewed u and about 95% look at ur photo and never return ur email sooo i think sometimes its pointless to even send one o well life goes on | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/3/2007 2:00:48 PM | Whoa...who said anything about SIZE?
Most guys couldn't care less about the size of the chick they wanna settle down with, marry, and have kids with. In fact, I don't think there is a guy in existence that cares about something that stupid. When it comes time for a dude to look for a life partner...size doesn't matter....we don't care about excitement, material things you bring to the table, what type of income / job you have, or even whether or not you look good enough to be a poster model. As long as your BRAIN works, you're not a slut, and you're intelligent enough to pay attention to the guy you're with....you're perfect. That goes for ALL guys...you won't hear it from a select few, because they're still trying to have "fun".
Now can I say the same thing about chicks and THEIR superficial preferences.....HELL NO!! | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/3/2007 2:06:53 PM | FLOWA....what the hell are you babbling about?
Don't eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeven try to put it out there that dudes who lie about being good guys are the ones who ruin chicks...
Yeah, dudes lie and say this and that about being a good guy and then end up being something else....I don't deny that, but there's no way your debate is gonna hold ANY water, because these OTHER dudes who ARE up front...the ones who basically TELL chicks they'd knock their @sses out, the ones who TELL chicks they sell drugs, the ones who TELL chicks they smoke weed all day, and lets not forget the ones who pretty much TELL CHICKS that they're b*tches and everything else under the sun. These are the ones who ARE upfront...and these are the ones who chicks CONSTANTLY run to, because they're "Mr. Excitement". Don't even try to sit there and say that chicks wouldn't date guys who are upfront...because I can name about 99% of the RAPPERS out there that call chicks every name under the sun, but where do YOU see chicks running?
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/3/2007 2:09:27 PM | PCH....the only things you said that I, PERSONALLY, can agree with is that:
#1. It's a roll of the dice...
#2. Being in very good shape. | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/3/2007 4:15:48 PM |
TAMMY....me and you both agree on that one 100%...
Hey IWalk- you're getting into this!
I LOVE IT!
But could you please use the "bracketed quotes" (as I've done above) to show -aka copy paste- what post you are talking about so we don't have to go back looking for them. Thanks!
-MoS83 | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/3/2007 4:53:19 PM | WAIT ONE COTTON PICKING MINUTE HERE.........
Are you all trying to tell me that people lie on here..? No way... say it isnt so! I for one am SHOCKED!!!!
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/3/2007 5:02:56 PM |
Hey IWalk- you're getting into this!
I LOVE IT!
But could you please use the "bracketed quotes" (as I've done above) to show -aka copy paste- what post you are talking about so we don't have to go back looking for them. Thanks!"
Hey, sorry about that....I'm still learning my way around this web site...lol | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/4/2007 3:53:38 AM | I agree with you, but...
The way i look at it is like this... Most of the time, a female runs into the wrong guys who have treated her badly, so when she gets invovled with a man who is actually good, then her whole train of thought is all messed up because she's been meeting the wrong men in the beginning. It's like she's used to getting hurt and mistreated so often that when a good thing come her way, she wont recognize it because of her past experiences.
But...at the same time everyone deserves a chance rite? I mean, is it really fair to a good man who actually wants something real with a woman to have to now put up with skepital thoughts from her? No | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/4/2007 10:45:28 AM |
I agree with you, but...
The way i look at it is like this... Most of the time, a female runs into the wrong guys who have treated her badly, so when she gets invovled with a man who is actually good, then her whole train of thought is all messed up because she's been meeting the wrong men in the beginning. It's like she's used to getting hurt and mistreated so often that when a good thing come her way, she wont recognize it because of her past experiences.
But...at the same time everyone deserves a chance rite? I mean, is it really fair to a good man who actually wants something real with a woman to have to now put up with skepital thoughts from her? No
It's virtually impossible for ANYBODY to say chicks are being mistreated by ANYBODY when they are PURPOSELY getting with the dudes they KNOW aren't worth 2 dimes and a Twinkie...
You know one thing that will always kill me with chicks these days? They have the nerve to not only complain about the garbage they bring on themselves when it comes to guys, but they also have the nerve to look for sympathy and understanding from everybody else when they do it.....that will always be comedy to me.
Everybody deserves a chance? Maybe I missed that memo...are you telling me that Charles Manson...a dude who HAD a girlfriend....deserved a chance?
The dudes who sit there and make SONGS about b*tches and how, basically, chicks are worth nothing more than a piece of butt...THEY deserve a chance?.....I swear, Beyonce is looking dumber by the second...
I guarantee you, the majority of the time you chicks make a fool out of every good guy just to get with some cornball who they KNOW will more than likely beat their brains in and all things under the sun...EVERY TIME they try running back to that same good guy, he doesn't want her anymore, because not only is she used up, but NOBODY, male or female, wants anything to do with someone who now has a screwed up mentality about what THEY might do to them....
Gotta come with better arguments than this one... | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/4/2007 11:29:16 AM | | I like this guy above me! ^^^^ ( ladies, I think he has it goin on, and would make someone a nice bf... just a thought) | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/4/2007 4:40:49 PM | | THAT my dear pasqualeee is the TRUTH......BUT we also tend to make so many bad decisions and by the time we figure it out we are bitter also....I HATE that because it makes it hard for the good man to come into our lives...and us to live a good "normal" life | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/4/2007 9:32:12 PM |
I like this guy above me! ^^^^ ( ladies, I think he has it goin on, and would make someone a nice bf... just a thought)
lol...Maybe one of my BIGGEST flaws is that i WOULD be a nice counter-part for someone...this whole nice guy thing is starting to get annoying. Soon, I'm gonna just dawn the role of CORNBALL and start slabbling chicks around...maybe THEN I would get some attention on the street, and my work would be cut in half.
It may SOUND funny...but trust me...most nice guys are saying the same thing on the inside...I'm just the only one stupid enough to incriminate myself by saying OUT LOUD....lol | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/5/2007 7:40:32 AM | Most of you are right about the girl going for a bad guy and being treated bad so often they are used to it. They are attached to that kind of guy. I recently got involved with a girl and she ended up breaking it off because she considered herself a "bad girl" that needed a "bad boy." What's the meaning of being bad anyway? Apparently it's not a bedroom thing. And regardless doesn't look like any women are really looking at this forum. If they are no offense most of them are over 50. If any real women want a nice guy that can turn things around in the bedroom, then hit me ladies. Good luck to all the nice guys, sometimes we finish first. | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/5/2007 9:27:29 AM | HI Witchepoo I have emails and talked to over a 100 men on this and another dating online service. 50 % are only interested in getting in the sack. Then the other 40% are so picky your not pretty enough or thin enough. The other 10% may be nice guys, but either they are too busy to be in a relationship or they are afraid to. Now I know there are exceptions, I am being a bit dramatic to make a point. Out of 100 men I met 2 that were half way decent. One I fell in love with but he is going through something in his life where he is not ready for love right now but we are very close. The other I am just getting to know. Its not very good odds now is it? And no not all women want bad guys. I for one would love a sweet, down to earth gentle spirited guy who loved me for me and didn't play head games with me. Is that too much to ask guys???
Bonnie | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/5/2007 4:03:59 PM | [And no not all women want bad guys. I for one would love a sweet, down to earth gentle spirited guy who loved me for me and didn't play head games with me. Is that too much to ask guys???]
No that is NOT too much to ask for. Problem is what most women claim to want and what they actually become attracted to are two entirely different entities. Probably one reason why we as guys get so much flack for not listening to you. We're told over and over don't listen to her words, watch her actions...it will tell you everything you need to know. And the reality of the situation is behavior exuded by bad boys heighten a woman's attraction level. I'm crossing fingers in hopes that one day that won't be the case. | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/6/2007 4:16:55 AM | Hi Studly I see what your saying. I can't see why anyone in their right mind would rather have jerk than a nice caring guy who treats her like a lady. Mabye its because they have been treated so bad all their lives since childhood that they don't think they dererve better. They may have low self esteme. Just a thought. All I know is the woman I know would give their right arm for a nice guy.
Bonnie | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/6/2007 5:22:32 AM | YOU can KEEP your bad boys....I for one..... have no use , time or desire for one".
I'm Too old to teach or train them to be nice.... that's what their mommas were for! :o) | |
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