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 mannyB

Joined: 3/10/2007
Msg: 201
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 10:44:50 AM
I have to agree with DARK-N-ROMANTIC
Ya see, sometimes in life you get to experiance both. Being the good and bad guy. Then you realize after a few times, that you've gained nothing of real value. Sex, worthless to the soul unless your soul is involved. I love knowing now that when a woman engages me(or vice versa) that she will experiance fullfillment far beyond the flesh. Get it right dudes. To all the playas its all good right? But dont front like your completely happy with the way your relationships feel...its not complete is it...well its your own fault...but its not too late boss. Your woman not only wants you to understand her, she wants you to want to understand her. And you should want the same. Come on people, find out what makes eachother tick. And as far as the ladies(DARKS comment) Even the good guys will hurt you, but its your fault if you get a guy who doesnt care if he hurts you. Thats the difference.
P.s if anyone wants to kick and axe dark and romantic for his comment...you better axe me for mine. ...or im coming after u!!!! lol....maybe.
 mannyB

Joined: 3/10/2007
Msg: 202
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 10:50:17 AM
Excellent observation! I find it amusing that if you approach 2 woman and one is not as attractive as the other, and you happen to choose the less attractive one(though beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Attractive to You that is.), you would be surprised at the wall of security and confidence that will come crashing down and then...well there u have it...there are those damn Endorphins again. She didnt expect that one!!!
 mannyB

Joined: 3/10/2007
Msg: 203
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 10:56:46 AM
I love this guy!!!!! Griffix...that is right!! And as the for the previous comment that included("after giving them the best part of our lives ")...that is unfortunate for those that feel that way. I dont care what a woman has gone through or done in her life. She may have given the best part of her life...but honestly...life isnt over till its over. And though it may have seemed like the best part of her life...true love is about building(and doesnt hold a record of wrongs...undebatable.(spell check). )And you just may find that the best part of your life...is ultimately the time that you will wind up spending with the right man when you meet him.
 mannyB

Joined: 3/10/2007
Msg: 204
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 10:58:15 AM
To sassy...honey you are amazing. Good post!!
 SPECIALLADY28

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 205
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 1:46:57 PM
(Do you truly think that you are getting antwhere by insulting people.

Here is a hint a good guy dosen't have to)


amen drg1301 I couldn't of said better myself. I feel like I am back in 2nd grade on this forum with these 2 inmature trouble makers who don't know how to treat a women except to put down, cut, and ridicule them. Now thats my kind a man Not!!! When they grow up and realize the world does not revolve around their sarcastic imature selves then maybe they will be able to land a real women/relationship, Until then I think they better stick to playing in the sand box.

Bonnie

btw you 2 degraders I have more dates in a week then you've had since you joined lol. I am far from desperate lol. I have a date everynight this week, ha ha And no I am not easy just a good hearted kind intelligent women who knows how to treat a man and they know how to treat a lady.
 Just JJ

Joined: 2/20/2007
Msg: 206
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 2:31:35 PM
I must be missing some posts here.. because I dont see any DARK n ROMANTIC member.....

DAMN this thread made me BLIND! :)
 IWalkAlone212

Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 207
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 5:27:37 PM

Do you truly think that you are getting antwhere by insulting people.

Here is a hint a good guy dosen't have to.


First off, I'm not insulting ANYBODY.....I'm RETALIATING...big difference. Remember, I'm the one who suggested we got back to the topic at hand...lol

And secondly...good guys might not need to insult anybody, but HUMANS in general should have more balls than to sit back and let people walk all over them and just take nonsense from people and not stand up for themselves...
 drg1301

Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 208
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 5:28:48 PM
In other words you are out for revenge.
 IWalkAlone212

Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 209
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 5:29:02 PM

Iwalkalone............man....i love you.....cuz guys like you make me look sooooooo good.....lmao



Oooh...that was a bit TOO easy....I'm not even gonna bother....anyway....BACK TO THE TOPIC AT HAND!!!!!
 IWalkAlone212

Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 210
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 5:33:31 PM

I have to agree with DARK-N-ROMANTIC
Ya see, sometimes in life you get to experiance both. Being the good and bad guy. Then you realize after a few times, that you've gained nothing of real value. Sex, worthless to the soul unless your soul is involved. I love knowing now that when a woman engages me(or vice versa) that she will experiance fullfillment far beyond the flesh. Get it right dudes. To all the playas its all good right? But dont front like your completely happy with the way your relationships feel...its not complete is it...well its your own fault...but its not too late boss. Your woman not only wants you to understand her, she wants you to want to understand her. And you should want the same. Come on people, find out what makes eachother tick. And as far as the ladies(DARKS comment) Even the good guys will hurt you, but its your fault if you get a guy who doesnt care if he hurts you. Thats the difference.
P.s if anyone wants to kick and axe dark and romantic for his comment...you better axe me for mine. ...or im coming after u!!!! lol....maybe.


You know...I had a nice comeback for this, but you pretty much shut me up when you said -
Even the good guys will hurt you, but its your fault if you get a guy who doesnt care if he hurts you. Thats the difference.
....

Can't object to anything you said.....

Just one thing though...I can't say I FULLY agree with you when you said that whole thing about chicks wanting guys to understanding them....well...that is...IF you were ONLY talking about good guys. If you were talking about the cornballs that chicks go for, then you're wrong, because the vast majority of the time, it's not about understanding with those dudes AT ALL....but everything else, I agree with...
 IWalkAlone212

Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 211
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 5:44:03 PM

amen drg1301 I couldn't of said better myself. I feel like I am back in 2nd grade on this forum with these 2 inmature trouble makers who don't know how to treat a women except to put down, cut, and ridicule them. Now thats my kind a man Not!!! When they grow up and realize the world does not revolve around their sarcastic imature selves then maybe they will be able to land a real women/relationship, Until then I think they better stick to playing in the sand box.

Bonnie

btw you 2 degraders I have more dates in a week then you've had since you joined lol. I am far from desperate lol. I have a date everynight this week, ha ha And no I am not easy just a good hearted kind intelligent women who knows how to treat a man and they know how to treat a lady.


You know, the more you talk, the more you make me right about that whole jealous friend syndrome you seem to have going on over there....

That, and the more STUPID you seem to insist on being seen as...

#1. Knock it off with yapping about ANY guy not knowing how to treat chicks because they don't kiss YOUR ass. There's a big difference between the rest of the females on this globe and YOUR moronic butt....the last time I checked, what I was saying was directed to YOU, and has absolutely NO baring on how I treat ANYBODY else.

Come on now, that's like saying, because I got into a fight with some dude at the bus stop because he pushed me, that I have absolutely no people skills. How stupid do you sound?

You look like you're in your upper 40's (I refuse to go to your profile), and you have the intellect of a damn teenager....it makes total sense now why you have so many so-called "dates" this week. I'm glad YOU mentioned being easy before I could. You're bragging about having a new dude lined up for every day of the week....can you say "I'M A LONELY HOE" any louder for the on-lookers here? Come on now, don't EVER compare your lonely actions to mine when it comes to females. I've been there and done that already and I am FAR TOO OLD for the panty chase, and WAY too damn old to have a black book of "options" to have a new one lined up for every day of the week.

You're pathetic....
 IWalkAlone212

Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 212
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 5:46:34 PM

In other words you are out for revenge


Well, i have absolutely no idea if this was directed towards me, but just in case it WAS....

No, I'm not out for revenger at all. That would be kind of pre-schoolish for me to try to get somebody over the internet back, wouldn't it?

I'm just responding as I receive...nothing more, nothing less...

But one thing is for damn sure...I'm STILL trying to stay on track with this topic...but people keep on dragging me back off track...lol
 drg1301

Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 213
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 5:59:22 PM
Well you did state that you was retaliating . That is basically the same thing as revenge is it not?
 BreastObsessed

Joined: 11/24/2006
Msg: 214
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When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 6:21:14 PM
Very wise woman. You are 100% correct take it from a good guy who will never get the prize anymore.
 IWalkAlone212

Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 215
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 7:30:19 PM

Well you did state that you was retaliating . That is basically the same thing as revenge is it not?


Hmm....well if you put it THAT WAY I guess you might have a point...
 SPECIALLADY28

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 216
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 8:39:39 PM
I walk alone thanks for the compliment. I am 52 and a grandmother of a 12 yr old and 7 yr old and proud of it. I have nothing to be ashamed of and I am not a hoe. If all you can do is insult me get a life. You see I could call you all kinds of childish names but I will not stoop to your level. I don't need too. You are doing a good job of looking like fool. Your very abusive and no real woman will ever put up with that. This is my last post to you as I have much better things to do with my life. Keep dumping your insulting garbage, nobody is listening anymore.

Bonnie
 IWalkAlone212

Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 217
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/13/2007 8:58:12 PM

I walk alone thanks for the compliment. I am 52 and a grandmother of a 12 yr old and 7 yr old and proud of it. I have nothing to be ashamed of and I am not a hoe. If all you can do is insult me get a life. You see I could call you all kinds of childish names but I will not stoop to your level. I don't need too. You are doing a good job of looking like fool. Your very abusive and no real woman will ever put up with that. This is my last post to you as I have much better things to do with my life. Keep dumping your insulting garbage, nobody is listening anymore.



Joke of the night! This moron actually thought I was looking for an audience.

It doesn't surprise me that someone as feeble-minded as you would think that I was giving you a compliment by guessing wrongly about your age. It's actually WORSE that you're that old and brainless.

Oh and by the way, I had a few chicks I've known for a few years over here today to get online and check their email. They saw the tab with POF on it and decided to read this forum....each one of them busted out laughing and said the same thing: "that chick is a loser...and I bet the next thing she says is something about either some dude in her life or some kid that's close to her".......women's intuition, I guess...

It's just a matter of time before she sends me a message behind the scenes complimenting me....for some reason, it ALWAYS ends up that way....

 Just JJ

Joined: 2/20/2007
Msg: 218
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/14/2007 10:07:41 AM
on and on and on and on and on and on and on.........
 Bobbi_Sue

Joined: 2/12/2007
Msg: 219
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/14/2007 4:44:09 PM
Unfortunately mytfineman speaks the truth. Unfortunately once we've been dumped on and treated like dirt we go looking for a good guy only to find find we're too scared to trust and open our hearts again! I never went looking for the "bad boy" type it's just their the ones that come looking for me! The "nice guys" never look twice so how come women like me NEVER get the nice guys?
 SPECIALLADY28

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 220
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/15/2007 7:03:38 AM
Just Janice I tried to send you a private email. Not sure why it won't got through. How can I get intouch with you about something?

Bonnie
 Just JJ

Joined: 2/20/2007
Msg: 221
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/15/2007 11:58:50 AM
add me to favorites?
 IWalkAlone212

Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 222
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/15/2007 2:07:15 PM

Unfortunately mytfineman speaks the truth. Unfortunately once we've been dumped on and treated like dirt we go looking for a good guy only to find find we're too scared to trust and open our hearts again! I never went looking for the "bad boy" type it's just their the ones that come looking for me! The "nice guys" never look twice so how come women like me NEVER get the nice guys?


Bill Cosby said it best..."we are dumb...but we are NOT so dumb"...

Guys know WAY MORE than females give them credit for. While it may be true that the "bad guys" are the ones that always come up to you...that doesn't mean, IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM, that you are obligated to deal with them or even talk to them...

The guys you consider to be good ones are always sitting around on the sidelines WATCHING....they don't EVER speak first. We're watching to see what type of dudes you like having around you, and listen to what type of garbage you smile at that a guy says to you...if you respond in a positive way to either or, good guys walk away...but you never, EVER seen them watching....trust me...They're sitting there thinking to themselves, "hmmm...I see what she likes...that's not me, so why would I bother making a fool of myself"...

OTHER TIMES, when they DO approach first, some of them get played, then the chick who played them runs off with some cornball, then SHE gets played, then comes running back to the guy who was the good one...and most of the time, he doesn't want her anymore, because he KNOWS what and WHO he just got played for......

We are dumb....but we are NOT so dumb...
 jp1957ny

Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 223
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/15/2007 9:53:46 PM
You get the woman when your very good looking, have a large p*nis, and you have money to burn.

They use the "good guys" for friendly favors and a shoulder to cry and complain on.
When they want some action, it's off to their "player" boyfriend for some fun. The player dude is always fun, because he doesn't give a sh*t about her problems.

Women overlook this character flaw while trying to turn these player bums into good men.
 IWalkAlone212

Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 224
When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 3/15/2007 11:57:27 PM

You get the woman when your very good looking, have a large p*nis, and you have money to burn.

They use the "good guys" for friendly favors and a shoulder to cry and complain on.
When they want some action, it's off to their "player" boyfriend for some fun. The player dude is always fun, because he doesn't give a sh*t about her problems.

Women overlook this character flaw while trying to turn these player bums into good men.


I swear, if I didn't agree with this, I'd be a damn fool...lol

The ONLY part I don't agree with is having a big shlong....TRUST ME...that's not a deciding factor.......and the way i found THIS out is through another good point you made when you said chicks use the good guys as "SOMEONE TO COMPLAIN TO"...like THAT'S something I really want to know about to begin with...but still...
 ManOfStyle1983

Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 225
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Posted: 3/16/2007 12:10:48 PM
I am/have all three of those things so I guess I'm in luck!

Happy St. Patrick's Day! If you're not going to be in NYC- watch the parade on TV- I'll be in it! (Followed closely by the NYPD yelling at me to put my pants on...)



-MoS83
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