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ksue44
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Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 26 | |
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Posted: 12/24/2006 9:41:48 AM | OP - you've got to take a good look inside. Think about how your parent's relationship was. If they were constantly fighting, then it seems you may have learned some bad traits from them. Are you happy with your life? Do you feel worthy of a good man? Are you following your dream(s) in life, doing what you want in your career, etc.? Think about your other relationships, did you pick fights? Look at your history, the past tends to repeat itself.
He may put up with it now, but he won't forever. It sounds like you do thrive on drama, it's a love-hate affair. It's not healthy for you and for him. You may want to get some counseling. | |
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Posted: 12/24/2006 9:51:57 AM | | Go on Jerry Springer......at least they pay you to fight..... | |
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Posted: 12/24/2006 10:06:35 AM | I think it could possibly be one of two things or maybe a combination of both. One being "seeking attention" or you could be wanting out of the relationship (even if you don't realize it) and you are pushing him away. Both could be contributed to any insecurities you have about yourself or the relationship. Picking fights w/anyone can lead to the ending of the relationship. Perhaps you need to take time to be away from one another, if nothing else for a week or two to think about things. Relationships are based on committment, trust and respect. If you can't respect yourself, you aren't going to respect anyone else. It sounds as if you are insecure about yourself and you take it out on the bf. If this is the case, you need a break from one another in order to re-evaluate yourself and get your life on track. If you continue picking fights one day he will walk out the door and not return and want nothing to do w/you. Everyone (men and women) wants respect and not grief(fighting) all the time. Fighting doesn't make a relationship, it breaks it. | |
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