| Can MEN really be friends with WOMEN???
Posted: 4/14/2007 4:55:23 PM | | I've had good female friend now going 5 yrs now. And yes we do the same thing as talking to ea other on the phone every day just like old married couple....she dates and i date....but neither do not get the satisfaction most of the ones that we date. So when the two of us aren't dating we have sexual fun and have great time @ it. Then go our separate ways still looking around for that one that catches our eyes....but yes we have been and still are best friends.... | |
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| Can MEN really be friends with WOMEN???
Posted: 4/14/2007 7:14:54 PM | | OK GUYS ... I would really appreciate some honest discussion ... If you meet a gal and you really like her etc. but she is not interested in you other than a friend ... Is that possible?? or do you just give lip service hoping that down the road she will change her mind? It can be done= leave the wang /emotions elsewhere. | |
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| Can MEN really be friends with WOMEN???
Posted: 4/14/2007 7:35:41 PM | Simple answer is no....
If a man has feelings for a woman that run deeper than lust there is no way that he could just remain at the friends stage.
If you want a friend buy a dog.....that's my motto.... | |
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| Can MEN really be friends with WOMEN???
Posted: 4/16/2007 6:44:02 AM | | I think that it's not possible, unless he doesn't respect himself or would always think about getting in your bed and wait for this. | |
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| Can MEN really be friends with WOMEN???
Posted: 5/2/2007 7:28:20 AM | | Sometimes when a woman says 'let's be friends', it does not mean that she is not interested - just that she wants to take things slower and not jump in bed immediately. That is my case, recently. I met a guy I was immediately attracted to - It was in a group I work with - my initial reaction was 'what a great guy, he must be married and what a lucky gal.' He had the same reaction, we went out -and one kiss and we were both instantly almost gone. Because I don't think instant sex is good, and because of my relationship with God, I said No - and that I would like to be friends - He can't be around me now, even though we had a great time together in our group before and after we went out, the attraction is still very strong. But it is not a rejection, just a slow down - and he can't handle it and I respect that - even though I wish it was different. I really did love the chemistry. And really like him besides the chemistry. | |
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| Can MEN really be friends with WOMEN???
Posted: 5/2/2007 1:49:39 PM | | I did - I told him before we went out how things were - and we were both honest - he said he just didn't know the attraction would be that strong. And that he had to be honest with me, that he wasn't looking to wake up with the same woman every morning, and if we had slept together, he would have called me every two weeks when he wanted sex; and I was too nice to lie to. I wished him luck and told him I was sure he would find what he was looking for, but that I was not interested in friends with benefits. I wish it was different, but repect his position as he respects mine. I just miss my friend. We still run into each other and the chemistry is so thick you can cut it with a knife. The last time I ran into him, I had on rolled up blue jeans and he told me I had to quit dressing like that. LOL - It's a shame, because he really would be a great friend and is fun to be around. Point is, I guess it depends on the level of attraction - and if you both are on the same page, if guys and gals can be friends. I am dating a guy now who started out as my friend, and the attraction just grows - so I guess each relationship is unique. | |
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| Can MEN really be friends with WOMEN???
Posted: 5/6/2007 4:53:35 AM | | Honest discussion???????? That's what u got from me.....now if that's not what u wanted to hear. then change your parameter's of the question. Also maybe u can't be done in your mind or shall we say u can't do it that way, doesn't mean someone else can't. You see i talking about phone calls everyday once maybe twice a day....constantly talking. @ the sametime as the other. Leave the wang out...lol then the question should have read "Can men really be friends w/ a woman w/ out bring sex in the picture...." But even then my answer would yes again.... It depends on the ones own personality...and if u can handle it or not.... I think they call it "maturity...." | |
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| Can MEN really be friends with WOMEN???
Posted: 5/7/2007 4:39:39 PM | well i had a great male friend for years, never and i mean did we have sex. I was getting ready to move out of state I asked him the whole time we have been friends have you ever wanted to have sex with me ?
you know what his answer was???
oh yeah was always on his mind . but was afraid to ask didnt want to ruin our friendship!so there ya gals.
scooter55 | |
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| Can MEN really be friends with WOMEN???
Posted: 10/1/2007 2:41:18 PM | Yes men can be friends with women. You always got to start off being friends before you can have a relationship then it can become a mutual agreement to change that. The last guy I had a relationship with we were friends for about one month and then we agreed that it was time to take it from frineds to a steady relationship since we were already doing things friends don't do. So I moved in with him and lived with him for 8 months. Then we decided that I would move out and let him get back to his repect for life and then we would get together again. But I am single and been single since because he went back to ex-wife . So I am telling you that it helps to be friends first. | |
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| Can MEN really be friends with WOMEN???
Posted: 10/1/2007 5:10:10 PM | | scooter, I agree. I've had many female friends and quite a few of them I'd have thoughts about sex, but, ruining a friendship is not acceptable for a quick lay. It's hard to have sex with a close friend of the opposite sex and not know that it's a one time thing. I never wanted to lead on a good friend that way just because I thought they were sexy. Then, again, it did happen to me and did not ruin the friendship. All in all, if I had to say yes or no, I'd have a hard time. I guess the best thing to do might be to stay with the "no" and have the friendship always unless you want more than just the friendship. | |
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| Can MEN really be friends with WOMEN???
Posted: 10/2/2007 4:17:27 AM | I alway's thought that if a man was a friend of a girl, He was either getting him some, or he is gay.
I guess you can.
Every girl I think of as a friend I have slept with. | |
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| Can MEN really be friends with WOMEN???
Posted: 10/4/2007 4:08:35 PM | | I am best friends with my Ex-wife! I have only two real friends in this world. An old Army buddy and my ex-wife! So, yes, men can be friends with women | |
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