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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 8/27/2007 3:43:52 PM | | I agree with Debb, and with some of the other posters on here. I have never cheated and would never cheat, no matter what the circumstances or how attracted I was to the person. I have been cheated on in the past and know how bad it makes you feel. I could never make someone else feel that way. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 8/27/2007 5:10:46 PM | | I have never cheated on someone. Toward the end of a couple relationships, I caught myself looking at other guys or thinking of them more often, and it was when I knew things weren't right in the relationship. But, I would never have acted on those thoughts. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 8/27/2007 5:17:41 PM | "SpongeEric,"
In response to your posting... Yes. There are women out there that Do Not Cheat!
And I am one of them. I don't believe in it and if my partner does it... then there is no forgiveness and no going back. But still... despite my personal disagreement to the matter...
If a person cheats, and it has nothing to do with being selfish, insecure, needing more attention because unconfident, wanting to feel attractive, being a loser and a jack*ss... Please note that I am not specifically referring to your situation... but rather just commenting... But then, couldn't sometimes the reason be that they just aren't getting the Emotional Attention, and Desired Love from their partner at home?
Remember men are more in tune to feeling that Emotional Attention, and Desired Love from their partner through Sex. And though us females enjoy and can appreciate awesome sex... not to mention with someone that can "hit the hyman," or "drive a woman insane sexually." Women are just more in tune to feeling Emotional Attention, and Desired Love through just that! "Emotional Attention, and Desired Love!"
Ok, so... let'ts say none of the above apply to your situation with those 5 chicks that have cheated on you. Um... how can I say this without sounding rude, because that is not my intention whatsoever! Um... are you passive with them? Do they respect you? Do you show them "you are man" and you have a backbone... or ba*ls and demand to be respected! (Which really should go without saying!)
Because I'll tell you right now that if I were the cheating type... I wouldn't cheat on the guy I respect, admire and look up to. I'd most likely cheat on the guy that I know I'm not worried about hurting so much because I don't really respect him. Which accounts for a lot.
Good luck on your next and make sure she's not related to any of your previous 5! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 9/6/2007 9:18:00 PM | I don't suppose women cheat more often then men, physically.
But I always found it interesting that women, or at least the ones I've known, have a tendency to develop emotional relationships with others and think nothing of it.
If it is true that women are driven more by emotional ties, and men are driven more by physical attraction, then it should be a major offense for a woman to develop a close, non-physical relationship.
I don't think I am explaining this the way I wanted to.
My ex-wife cheated on my emotionally for years. The physical part wasn't so important to her, but she was closer, emotionally, with another guy. But since she hadn't slept with him, she felt that she was innocent. And technically, I suppose she is. But I also believe that on some level, emotional cheating is a woman thing. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 9/8/2007 12:11:47 AM |
emotional cheating is a woman thing Possibly, but what about the husband who talks more to his secretary than to his wife or the couch who chats with the boys mums more than the mother of his children.
Both men and women may be inclined when their emotional needs are not met at home often due to a mismatch from the beginning that was based on an instant physical attraction without taking the time to get to know the other persons attitude. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 9/8/2007 7:32:59 AM | I have never cheated nor even flirted with another man if I had a boyfriend/husband. If you love the person you are with it is like eating a large Thanksgiving dinner, you are stuffed and full and have no desire to then run out to McDonald's to gorge on a SuperSize meal. I'm so loyal I'm like a dog. Dog is not man's best friend, it is woman. But then again it depends on the breed of woman.
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 9/8/2007 9:42:23 AM | | Yes,we do exist.I dont cheat because i wouldnt want it done to me so give out what you wana get back.Cheating's just not cool,id rather dump u and move on than cheat.x | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 9/8/2007 9:57:45 AM | i dont think i could cheat any woman who can sleep with 2 men at same time has no respect for herself!
if i was with someone and felt like i wanted to be with someone else i would end the relationship as it would then be apparant it isnt working.
"never do to others what you wouldnt like done to you" | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 9/8/2007 11:03:26 AM | I never have, never will. Had tons of opportunity, no thanks. When I am with someone I don't even feel desire for anyone else. All my attention is on him. I figure if I did want to then the relationship was over and I missed the ending.
Sure I can appreciate a good looking guy walking down the street, who can't.
Other than it just being the way I'm wired I consider cheating to be just plain wrong. If you want to mess around, stay single. Have a ball (hehe)! But messing with someone's heart and health is just despicable.
Even if the relationship was breaking up I would wait until it was done before pursuing anything else.
I've never been cheated on either...hmmmmm...and I'm not a jealous person. Maybe I've just been lucky. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 9/8/2007 11:59:31 AM | ok I had to say this was brought up to a guy friend of mine and he says the only woman who wont cheat is one whos in a coma,because they justify everything they do,with long ramblings about how THEY feel and being confused.
I dont know myself .
But i do know alot of people cheat and lie.its the person not the gender. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 9/9/2007 9:00:31 AM | | One of the posters made an odd point which kind of justifies to an extent the above posters comment, she stated that there are two types of cheating the premeditated kind then the heat of the moment kind, she actually said the latter is excuseable!~~ Sorry Sister any form of cheating is cheating, and is NEVER justifiable. The only common denominator I see is spineless self absorbtion. If you have a strong desire to be with someone outside your committed relationship then it's time to sit down and either talk about the root of the problem or simply terminate the relationship, it's never excusable to cheat then try to blame your partner for not fulfilling your needs. News flash your in charge of your happiness and needs, if your not communicating them to your partner and you cheat that's your fault not the partners. In any event, people wake up and smell t he coffee, people lie people cheat, none of it is gender specific its entirely character related. Remember one word folks "KARMA"..... | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 10/5/2007 6:47:55 PM | It is in a woman's instinct to lie. While I do not harbor any ill will towards them, nor seek to abuse and manipulate them like most guys who've been burned by their manipulative ways, neither will I go out of my way to seek them out.
Eminem said it best in his song "Superman":
Too much pride
Between you and I
Not a jealous man, but females lie
But I guess that's just what sluts do
How could it ever be just us two?
So that's that. I quit Online dating, not going out of my way to look for anyone either. If someone comes, fine. However, I stopped trusting 'them' when they began draining my bank account, wrecking my bed, then leaving me for a guy she KNOWS is only gonna give her hell.
Toodles. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 10/5/2007 7:24:14 PM | | I'm one that doesn't cheat...and keep in mind there is more than one way to cheat on your significant other. Sad, but true. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 10/5/2007 8:43:14 PM | Just the Genuinely Single Ones . .
It's not Cheating . . if you dump a guy and pick up Another one ...20' away . . !!! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 10/5/2007 9:19:39 PM | I have not read the whole thread (15 pages is a bit much to get through).
But, to comment on the OP's question, I have to say (a) anyone who has been engaged 5 times by age 36 is a little too quick on the trigger for marriage. You can't HONESTLY say that you have been IN LOVE 5 times!!! I'm 50 and have been dating since I was 16. I've only every LOVED two men, neither of which resulted in marriage. The first, I was far too young. The second, was a liar and was cheating on me the entire 15 months we dated. I broke it off as soon as I found out about all his lies!! (So much for women being the cheaters).
To claim that you have been in love with 5 women over the ... 20 years ... you may have been dating ... says to me that you don't really know what love is. And the fact that they ALL "cheated" on you ... says to me two things: either you have accused these women of cheating without actual proof (for reasons of your own insecurities) ... or you just have very poor taste in women.
And what is this with " I have a lot to offer to any woman even if she has a child" ???? What is up with that? Women are less worthy of love if they have children from a former relationship???? Hmmmmm...
Oh ... and for your info (FYI) ... the "hyman" has nothing to do with "insane sex". It's a thin membrane protecting the vagina from birth. It is ruptured the first time a woman has vaginal sex, generally causing the woman a certain amount of pain (definitely not pleasure!!!). FYI "Romeo"
Reading your thread ... I would say you are a man who does not respect women, knows very little about women ... and needs to learn a lot about how to satisfy a woman ... mentally, emotionally and sexually... cause it's not all about sex. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 10/6/2007 6:23:35 AM | Are you sure you wasnt cheated on the once and paranoid since cos 5 is a hefty number!
Ive never cheated neither so i dont know where your gettin these women from! | |
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| ENGAGED 5 TIMES??????
Posted: 10/6/2007 9:00:13 AM | Wow! I think this says a lot about you....................I'm with electricspatuala; you seem to have a bit of a problem here. Perhaps you're a wee bit insecure? Do you overwhelm these lovelies, and begin speaking of comittment and marriage at an early stage in the relatioship??? Time to re-evaluate yourself, hon. Are you THAT desperate to become married (especially knowing the sad statistics of having a marriage succeed)? I think it's time to take a break from the not so wonderful world of dating, and take a good look at yourself. Obviously, you are not a happy camper, and your life is lacking something.
Everyone cheats!!!! You can take the girl to the jewelry store and buy her that diamond, and yeah, for a while, she'll be thrilled to show it off BUT, once the thrill is gone (and everyone's seen the rock), what now??? Is she REALLY in love WITH YOU OR THE IDEA OF A FIANCEE???!!!!! You can't force someone to be comitted to love you......................it must come from the heart, not the pocketbook. It appears you're picking the wrong type of girl for your marriage fantasies. Not everyone wants a one on one relationship, and NO ONE wants to feel obligated to one person " till death do us part" unless he's the real deal (which obviously, these girls were not). You can take the proverbial horse to water, but how long do you expect him/her to drink?????
I suggest you take a break from dating, and figure out what's really important in you life. Is being marriage the end all, at this point????? If so, the best you start becoming a little more discriminating in your choice of women (and a lot less desperate!!).        | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 10/6/2007 9:04:18 AM | LOL yeah i could ask the same about men, and yes there are women that do not cheat maybe ur looking in the wrong group of ladies? Maybe look and see what attracted you to them that may be all similar, then try to look for something else in a woman.
Good Luck...
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