| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 10/6/2007 3:10:57 PM | romantic- yes women lie as well for it has no gender tied to it. but dont give up trust for it will eat up your next relationship, must say one should never compare all to the last they had. with that said always be cautious and keep money and accounts seperate until a commitment is made but to not trust in anyone then your eyes will see what your mind tells you is there and your heart will feel what the past scars has left so dont fall into such a rythem that will be a curse forever. hey just wanted to give some cue points to you and wish it all the best, i am an eminem fan. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 10/10/2007 1:06:28 AM | | It's true not all women are the same.. I personally would never cheat on someone I was involved with... check yourself.. you're obviously attracting the wrong kinds of women. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 10/10/2007 10:14:27 AM |
um just to let you know, the hyman is the thin layer of skin covering a women's vagina...this typically is destroyed during the first sexual experiance (or before through sports etc)
maybe you should brush up on the female anatomy if you think you are so great?
I was soooo waiting for someone to notice that. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 10/11/2007 7:18:38 PM | It's pretty obvious the OP knows very little about the female anatomy ... yet he claims to be the ultimate lover. (hmmmmm). 5 engagements and 5 "cheaters" ???? Does he actually mention any "good" relationships?? Me thinks he protesteth too much!!!  | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 10/30/2007 10:37:48 AM |
You know i'd love to follow this up with are there any men out there who don't tell you what they think you want to hear just to keep you around long enough until something else better comes along...but i won't.
Usually, men have endured emotionally abusive relationships with women to a point where they realize, "Being me isn't enough" and they try to be someone else. That does not excuse it, but the blame lies equally with women as it does with men, if not moreso.
Even at a young age, girls are approached by guys by the hundredfold. When they get older, they tend to follow the trends of makeup, stiletto heels and shortskirts. The attention they get from the wealthy and gorgeous spoils them, and they become superficial.
Only once they get to a certain point of maturity both in mind and spirit, do they realize this is a sad waste of time and energy, and they begin searching for what REALLY counts.
Sad thing is, I am 20 years away from my generation being in that age range, so what to do until then?
If I settle for less, I end up unhappy. If I do not settle for less, I remain alone and dissatisfied. Where is the happy medium? | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 10/30/2007 10:50:32 AM | | I would never ever in a million yearrs cheat...when I'm in a relationship that's it, there's nothing anyone can say or do to make me cheat...I wouldn't want to be cheated on so I would never cheat on someone...if I was unhappy I would talk to my partner and try to resolve the problems, if the problems couldn't be resolved then I would end the relationship... | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 10/30/2007 12:01:43 PM | | yes opie...there are women who dont cheat...you are looking at one right here...i stayed in a very unhappy marriage, was tempted many times, ..... and in the end, I ended the marriage, rather than resort to cheating | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 10/30/2007 2:13:31 PM | | I have never cheated on anyone. I would break up before I would cheat on someone. Have faith...a faithful good woman will come along one day for you..hopefully. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 10/30/2007 2:22:50 PM | | Well, I DO NOT cheat unless a man gives me a reason to. I am with one person at a time and I am not a cheater. Why date someone then? Why not just be single? If you are with someone you really want to be with--then you should NEVER have a reason to cheat . And if you are adult enough when you have a problem-thats what communication is for...I am a good person and I plan on staying that way. Its called RESPECT for myself as well... | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 10/30/2007 2:22:56 PM | I think there are as many men, as women, that cheat on their partner! I don't think it really has much to do with how good you are in bed or "hitting the hyman" LOL. I think it has more to do with something else that is missing from the relationship...or a bad drunken mistake Either way I think it's wrong...I have never cheated and as far as I know, I have never been cheated on...I think  | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 10/30/2007 4:21:53 PM | I'm sorry, but the hymen thing is cracking me up! Glad you set him straight on that bluesky83. I can't believe it took 17 posts before someone did though! LOL Anyhow, of course not all women cheat. Let me tell you OP I have been cheated on many times myself, but I certainly will not let it make me bitter or untrusting and effect my potential for happiness with someone else which is what you are letting it do. I am, however, definitely more cautious and pay more attention to the warning signs instead of ignoring them. I am not foolish enough to believe all men cheat or even suggest such a thing. You have to get past your anger and trust issues from these women in the past before you have a chance at happiness in the future with another woman.
WOW I just realized this thread started 2 1/2 years ago so I certainly hope you have changed your outlook on this by now! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 10/30/2007 5:13:08 PM | | I have never cheated on anyone I've been with. You are not stupid and no, you did not deserve this. But, please remember, there are also alot of men who cheat on women. It goes both ways. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 11/1/2007 10:11:41 AM | | not all women are the same.. I have never cheated.. I dont tolerate being cheated on..and I wont help anyone in a relationship cheat... | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 11/1/2007 10:51:34 AM | | I'd never even look at another man that way because the one I'm with is, no matter how happy or unhappy I am, deserves my respect while I'm in a relationship with them. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 11/1/2007 11:02:59 AM | | I have never cheated on anyone.I see no use in it,if your not happy enough with the person your with,LEAVE it's really pretty easy ,just open the door say I'm sorry this isn't working and walk.I have been cheated on,only once (that I know of) and I did not like the way it made me feel.So I could not make some one else feel that way. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 11/1/2007 11:09:11 AM | | i have had the same thing happen to me!!!every man i have dated,had long terms with have cheated.so i understand how you feel.but i still believe their is the ''right guy''for me out there.i just gotta be open to finding him.cheating hurts and it plays on yourself essteem......dang those people who cheat!!! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 11/1/2007 11:30:32 AM | | I am sure you can find a few. Statistic state that 30 % of the SINGLE woman on sites like this are NOT Single ....... So what does that tell you. P.S. You found the realyy bad ones. Because stats also show most woman don't get caught. they are too careful. and un like most men in the simalar (sp) situation , they keep there mouths shut. But as one poster said If you were engaged and you found all % woman cheated on you... Were you looking for an out. Would the "evidence" have stoop up in court. Or did you make a mountain out of a mole hill? | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 2/15/2008 1:37:28 AM | | lol It's funny how so many women posted that they would not cheat, Like the previous poster stated Women are less prone to getting caught, why people who can't commit waste everyone elses time by getting into LTR is beyond me. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 2/15/2008 2:08:24 AM | I would never cheat on a guy as i wouldnt want it done to myself and im completely monogamous, i dont even do flings or one night stands as dont want to sell myself short for anyone. But yes as the first lady stated not all women are the same but you may have a tough job finding a good one. | |
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| I'm wondering .... Posted: 2/15/2008 3:50:46 AM | Who the Hell is going to admit they are cheating, or capable of it? Not the sort of thing you may want to admit to (unless you're going to set up an alias profile) if you want to meet someone from this site.
"Oh yeah, I'm a serial cheater ...."
(Yes, I realise the OP's question was phrased differently). :-) | |
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